有乜辦法可以令自己對感情唔好咁重視同埋冷血D?...

Charcoal_henry

有乜辦法可以令自己對感情唔好咁重視同埋冷血D?...2 y/ A: y2 o7 V( S( R$ I

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迪達拉姑

哦..性情中人..同我一樣我諗..好易唔理智..樓主分享多d你實例同個人心境黎睇下我地似唔似..
$ d8 f6 V; d$ W; p0 J* N( \) u我諗個性自細培養..我諗..對感情唔重視..就可能係想獨來獨往..最好好似流川楓咁..% j, o  `1 u; t. K( w' L
咁樣學下功夫,多做事小說話小胡思亂想..嚴重d睇心理醫生./吹眠..純粹個人意見..

john01daly

Anyone can help, I also want to know.

Charcoal_henry

Originally posted by 迪達拉姑 at 2008-2-17 03:06 AM:
4 b+ _: V0 ^& i8 y/ ?( L/ l1 V哦..性情中人..同我一樣我諗..好易唔...

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- B, g5 f9 f4 c0 u& `good to hear that someone has got the same feeling with me! q5 `, F! d3 {
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唔係好想講experience...
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- s5 V6 N" A- k8 H2 p$ u" [7 P不過我自問都係一個性情中人, 好唔捨得一D曾經擁有既野 eg. school life, relationship with gf, close friends etc....
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我唔係想做獨行俠, % b( K1 Q5 ~8 a  Q- y& B! m
只係想知道點樣先可以令自己對人與人之間既感情(no matter love or friendship)睇得開D...

escalation

個人分享:
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8 f& e' ]$ p' [) e我自己曾經都好似你呢類人, 十分熱情和感性, 而且鍾意用"性情中人"自居, 其實呢種態度只係唔成熟既表現. 當然, 人地唔會咁好心點醒你, 就算點你都未必醒.0 ~) _+ l3 w/ V) P/ }
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解決方法: 好簡單, 多經歷一些挫折, 你慢慢會開始"化", 心態亦漸漸穩重起來. 呢個過程好奇妙的, 好難形容, 總之, 你經歷多左, 好多野會在你意料之中, 就唔會再比D小事情小變化影響你情緒.

自由神

Originally posted by escalation at 2008-2-17 08:35 PM:5 w' s/ C  B# }, F$ l* ]; d
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, O% C) b7 u1 x我自己曾經都好似你呢類...

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係呀！3 _# y, @7 I8 s5 B3 w( _$ W
只要當一切都係遊戲，咁就會“笑看風雲”