熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
: I' V3 s: P8 Z, w7 W# w好唔鍾意呢種感覺0 y2 O5 Q) n8 f; M( T4 f% e; R5 t
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心% `( k( m$ D4 j/ v1 a! C2 d: J* C+ s
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣+ x' L) l' ^: n# l6 [. P
覺得好空虛
3 O5 m% v! M9 r( R8 ^其實早幾次都有試過係咁
3 M+ c+ O7 U5 Q  N$ f卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
+ p$ j6 f1 ]! c. X用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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0 t. X* o) w' a$ z3 b4 N( v4 O[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,9 |0 v3 Q/ b% @7 H$ _/ Y/ ^3 W: c
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺8 ?- E" H4 V8 f0 L- Z2 I$ |+ J
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
( M; e& G; A  q; g2 Q所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,3 V6 X% h3 {7 k1 K
日日有車站,5 j0 G2 ]' ~( i4 }* }1 B: o
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙, c9 C# G  A" V0 X6 B
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
& N! q. \1 |4 @) U如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.2 }$ M4 U: p7 t- _/ ^( J
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
2 c  {9 H( Q# G8 o( I玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
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本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:. u' P& ~$ l: m, f- m& F3 R
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
. h; g, N0 ?4 h1 M! \% n所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
2 J& n) r! H8 B/ D( A% E日日有車站,  W) R' Z2 o4 T9 u: i0 S
有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:/ U; }2 y, P3 c. j; Q1 D1 M5 M
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
- X7 o8 R8 f% M" k  |( z- x- }好唔鍾意呢種感覺( q( L+ s5 t4 d) Q
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
& {9 l* [1 ]* Q. e) h8 e* j% |, n/ ]個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣# I4 f/ r$ A; ~( y+ K  q5 v9 Z
覺得好空虛& P- U* W) l1 ]. y. F
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
% W) `' K' V9 P4 w! ~卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
) l7 S& R, F' W/ i用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?0 U- e( u6 c: v( B  L

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
* V/ p- B! w6 u' }+ m唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.% @5 x0 d7 U6 H! h5 T# M
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
, x) ~4 D9 z( ga) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
" ~1 n# Z9 ?* V. Z% u( {" fb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
/ E+ x" U. c) {" @  G4 Gc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.; T% ~/ r5 n5 [9 r

* A. k: ^) m- z5 W7 }3 }7 pJust another thought on lonliness:
% Y# L( i; ~' q, m, m4 c$ ZLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
" L5 o& T4 y7 t- uBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～3 b6 j2 B- Q2 N' q
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
9 {$ h! V. h& n就好似睇完一套好睇的電影9 w' S! j1 d( e: I# ^3 o
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
8 F4 l: x  f' }' s7 i6 s7 p7 \空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉% G2 y1 e0 N  ]9 C# {- ~3 I
很少會超過一天～3 Q) H4 r- ^+ `# p; F  t
要期待更好的明天呀！