熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
( F& y5 T( S6 e& `. Z! k: i好唔鍾意呢種感覺
$ p/ s6 v# u- }+ Q0 f9 \! b) w$ e琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心& ?1 K. M- l8 J- H* d
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣* }) l0 l5 N2 b7 d
覺得好空虛
+ u- r" F2 P# o7 h- ?其實早幾次都有試過係咁
5 m  f3 P/ y6 V& R+ {卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
4 q# {  q1 g9 X5 G" S0 Z+ q用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?, v( o8 u" k+ L. a
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,+ a7 z% M& k/ V' h1 |9 S
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
. m+ O+ h/ w: ^熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,- \" ~9 ~6 J  H* T: u3 e! ]
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,3 E7 Z3 g4 i2 C4 J' F& p
日日有車站,1 F0 ]/ H) o: w' V4 o& i& C
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙3 Z6 F6 b& |9 D; j9 j
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
' v8 x% }. l4 O" n8 ]如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

$ I- n: P5 k* ^8 x8 T我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
3 s' _- y/ O: L& D, |! F感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..% n: v; h9 R, t$ K. S- X) |; H
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
& }5 U. I3 H! \! X) a  u4 u總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
' \1 {2 v5 s, m其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
. W) i1 q! f- v; U所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
* c6 L3 {' p- Z" g3 Z日日有車站,
/ {2 r. S$ e9 X( _/ C有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:8 G7 I$ w4 n4 y' F' X4 ~4 [1 }
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
5 g2 U3 t  I3 F( `好唔鍾意呢種感覺5 m' L. M6 w( H7 y/ P; R
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心1 _5 E* i: ?3 N) c: Q2 [* a" m
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
' L( F. l; y3 O6 u1 W# M覺得好空虛$ e# E" L# V& L
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
3 U2 @! p6 k2 A! p. C卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己  W; v3 M/ T  a9 U, I
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
# B  x# G4 Z% `& v- X3 t; ^6 ^, S唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.( p# O) C  T! R8 ]3 j: Y" d
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.) I0 j8 S9 q' ^. p7 F( \9 N

# v$ \* k( S2 k! V7 y4 mPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
, |! e/ ?1 T+ C; ?a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long- w( D9 A/ W* t( B
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.& g. X$ c7 V" r  {
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess." u" _) Z' ?3 r7 c
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Just another thought on lonliness:! E' ]3 O4 L! V7 Z- j4 w" d9 T. r
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....( |7 n& m4 N) l5 u; y* |
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
$ \# m, j+ F5 M/ l, f) K我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
! v$ n' ?& }/ P% u; b就好似睇完一套好睇的電影+ L' h/ Q% S+ U6 G) U7 ?- i
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～# l3 G/ e% N3 r: g$ E, |
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉8 |8 O6 o6 y+ m3 I# O
很少會超過一天～$ |' u4 f  \& ?( w  E; k/ o
要期待更好的明天呀！