熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
* ~1 S$ ?8 |; x好唔鍾意呢種感覺; ]; Z7 K3 ^6 P  V) g: t/ [3 z! z/ R
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
: u* c" i- J1 G0 ?6 I+ t個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
- J+ `4 z" X% S& K, T# q4 o0 R覺得好空虛
( R, ^8 Q$ C. {其實早幾次都有試過係咁
; P8 V5 r7 @, @/ e, F卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己% d. B0 K0 @- r& f6 f# v
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?1 m; q. A- f0 `2 |7 C. b  Z9 f
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,1 S3 O9 I! H1 p- _9 ?1 y8 @1 v
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺/ [9 q  ~  c% t3 j  _
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
$ w/ C; H; c8 D( u, R所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
/ A6 A0 ~% q5 {4 ?/ e日日有車站,
7 A9 I% N4 X' P有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙3 p. |9 I0 M0 K5 W4 m
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:0 B# [8 P9 h$ |" ~/ L
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

# [+ d: g+ `( q9 X+ h我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.* ^  q7 L- B) m  @7 j
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞... t& ?5 o: F, U! z( R
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
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本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:( h1 d3 l; g3 z: |9 Y
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
) F6 P( H6 e3 n9 K) i( T- v所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
" s, j2 }2 x+ R! H: l日日有車站,
( N5 `4 D# E, F- x0 i% s有目標!

1 R9 ~4 c  O& A3 X# v+ iwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:2 s+ l8 t. s9 X- L% ~$ L0 O# ?
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
( ?" e4 @# _0 I好唔鍾意呢種感覺& s, }. q) n* Q0 E& G. a
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心/ }  w$ g: `  K. J, C
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
6 w5 W: o8 Y$ n" S) ?覺得好空虛" A3 a% ?- L. \& c7 L) v! X
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
1 e2 K5 z( T' [+ K7 A2 N卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
3 p9 k5 l" k( X2 n& D' U用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?% ?! w1 I- c, }3 @. E

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.! K  T, x3 h! i5 c8 j' v) e
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
4 m; x. A+ Z/ O' N1 I1 d有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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' v* p, x; C: u6 X7 e" ?People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:: [4 r* [7 u8 `6 K
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long4 _+ ]4 X4 K# n9 l
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.. x* y# g& L+ u
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.6 I( M( ?# L! J6 e* s$ g& ]  a. \
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Just another thought on lonliness:
) }5 m- j/ q; ALonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....! Q* _  e$ W( K# t) n: g7 I
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～5 S/ x. P4 D8 L5 a9 v9 G$ O! p
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
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或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～7 y, }9 Y; o- y/ q4 s
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉, }, x% j. ^* }% ^
很少會超過一天～* h* r4 t$ I. j
要期待更好的明天呀！