熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
* b8 v) E9 m" ]# e: Y好唔鍾意呢種感覺
5 |- l1 t# F7 u+ y; S% E+ `琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
0 a' y6 S$ x; {2 @- Q" j& q: r個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
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5 a5 Q$ b. I2 F* |6 ?. m# B: E其實早幾次都有試過係咁1 C3 W' W5 c1 t
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己( U! U" J! F8 v( ~
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?! `3 m4 K# T, Q  a, X8 \. F7 u, e
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,. g$ O4 {# K' T0 m  o* @
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
7 P" B8 J( h3 m) D8 r6 q' Y% z熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,& i( B" [& Y- Y0 {: T6 q% ~
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
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有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙: k3 N1 u% B( k
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
* U  h/ e/ K4 Y$ y# n如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.& l! A8 y  Q! B0 G9 s
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
( U! g( Q& q! ~玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.3 P9 g) H# Y4 Y* T8 k
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:9 g" }+ H$ `* d1 T  u, P
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻," ?8 F' Q$ a9 W& `# w8 N+ I& a
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
) N" f( Z; Z% l' f  X3 G+ \日日有車站,
" N* W7 Z/ o  j" T$ T& ~有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
6 B: |; u8 D9 b- K7 i$ y1 G如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
- S& R" `& |* e% ~4 ]- p9 p好唔鍾意呢種感覺$ o9 U& f; \" a" ^
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心* |2 }) h* x$ L  {3 H
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
0 e3 y* a5 X) Z覺得好空虛6 b  |5 h4 s- [) H8 B
其實早幾次都有試過係咁# `5 G0 m! d( e9 q: n  A
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己0 w  P3 s5 f0 u2 L
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?" l! D6 a4 A8 r$ g$ M3 }% H

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, S6 @$ p  K' h! a  E這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
. ~' `, g! a0 d0 @, o唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.% s1 l! z; ~- r* K
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
2 h8 U* e/ y* R" q4 ^, i1 s/ ua) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long; @5 C6 G& t/ e7 }
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
( n. x0 w3 I$ p, ?* Q- Z, sc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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1 h2 R; M# Y9 ~4 n; m2 @Just another thought on lonliness:
. O- T7 o$ a% N* \4 A. o2 \" YLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
: o$ q) s# f( R9 \$ x* K0 V* c! h# A$ zBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
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就好似睇完一套好睇的電影( b" {! V% C5 Z% M5 k) X
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
6 b+ u( Z( r6 ~/ e6 h; n8 k空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉* v8 t- g% y# G& }6 R9 h* S$ {% h
很少會超過一天～
9 }* b' K: E6 \' l8 ]要期待更好的明天呀！