熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
' M* T6 ^* }! \! J+ ?2 ~& E- j( \好唔鍾意呢種感覺4 Z# v) c* k& x  n4 [
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
+ G5 }! z, d' {1 g$ g個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
1 g& J# K! g- f2 o# H* E; u覺得好空虛: z9 y8 c8 r+ h; V
其實早幾次都有試過係咁" e* w( Y. q7 z: {
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
5 b) |1 z# y, ~% |用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?, b1 q* N0 l5 g( T2 u: K

5 o$ W2 B4 Y" q/ F7 ^) ?) _, ?[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,' p2 I1 n7 b- b4 P% e
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
% S8 M! M: R* E: J! d熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
2 }$ F9 K* Z& o' B- q% n5 }所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
& b, t3 E+ o! U* ?& L* ^, R日日有車站,
/ P! ^- J9 ^7 S/ L! V) W! i! k有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
$ D! T, \1 l. d5 u' R你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
. Y( M1 j7 H2 t! \( ]如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

1 {: s4 X! d) {我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
1 M/ q) n: n. S/ P9 n感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..( x" X: \! _# G5 s/ T
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
" I6 l, e5 w  n  ]# C總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
# C# l5 Q' U' o2 k: |: \其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,$ X# M: \1 A. C
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
+ I$ T! D# y- c  e4 X3 V; y+ @3 u日日有車站,% G) U$ N  j5 Y. I/ ^
有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
3 q. w8 s. B2 H  r7 V& t如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?; m5 }" U6 C) K9 N
好唔鍾意呢種感覺% U; [+ p* b, A5 G# M& _# W/ b% f- o
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
* j& f% Z, e/ H7 ], i0 J6 D個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣9 E# u7 u! @! n7 j- f( c6 g: ?
覺得好空虛# T( M  d7 K3 w9 R! W* B
其實早幾次都有試過係咁' Q3 a* l) F6 J" d/ N( d, T( q" G
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
5 d4 y& t" W0 ^' r" n用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?+ t9 x0 E' |- I7 D- z  M0 G

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0 W/ T- d) A& T$ n8 T& P/ _0 K這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.4 v3 o1 b, \5 s* J( B9 |" o+ }
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
. G7 M& Z4 I, \& l9 [有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:: D. N& `% [: a
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
# w; O  q* ?& ^  zb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.9 {$ e) H0 d) ~1 {. x/ q+ f2 M
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.+ v+ u& L; |$ ~! z7 J$ A

( I3 }$ {# d& g- `Just another thought on lonliness:
; ]/ Q* ^  Q8 ~% Z7 [4 vLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....1 Q3 L5 g8 }1 W) x/ c+ Q
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
3 H4 O- B! T0 k* [: |" n我會有一種十分空虛的感覺. N" k& S* i% ?$ \2 j& q+ |$ F
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影9 b: A3 F  n$ X+ n4 I* A# ?
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
$ {  i9 I6 d, k+ ?( s- D0 ?空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉6 L+ G4 C8 ]" v, B* `: A( @: y
很少會超過一天～
; p# z7 D- `: l, [8 Z2 U* |要期待更好的明天呀！