熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
/ `9 D3 P% G! O, P0 f0 ?5 n% S好唔鍾意呢種感覺) i  p( {: X* M8 y' I
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
& r( }# Z/ E2 R/ Q; z2 u7 }* }6 K, N個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
4 K9 n: s& F$ m( t$ Y1 Z覺得好空虛' ]+ G1 l* R3 f6 d4 ~
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
' v9 t8 o2 |1 l' [1 ^/ }卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己; E& ?6 Y( j7 k' Q
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?9 j6 D) r$ [! B" \8 Z3 M

" e2 N4 A& x! I5 J- V0 v2 E+ e[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,! K9 N) Q- F3 L# k! L. ^
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
- M& x. d1 C8 X& i  c# d3 s* J2 w熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
7 t5 N1 Q, B( B所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
& d( r0 d0 U& n5 f+ n日日有車站,
+ Y' o& J7 ~  q2 b* D有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
6 C7 `/ C$ m# p' b. ^你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
) H! C0 o0 V2 i! [; M6 O9 N如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

$ P7 W5 y1 Z: m$ I: o! S5 {5 O5 Y我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶./ E2 O- m* e+ P
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞.., W6 V; u  n; w8 a, h; |" _
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
1 @: c. W- I: I' ~總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
* y0 O( W) v' F' o其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
! c; N2 b9 H- O2 [, M2 |7 t所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
# g3 u$ w9 ]* G& u. F  v1 {- t日日有車站,1 z& q1 c6 [. n: j
有目標!

' q1 r7 w; _( @& P/ F0 ywhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
% c0 q+ g2 r8 ^0 Z如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
1 V, `. |! s. {8 J' B; r好唔鍾意呢種感覺" m, O1 F9 B: d$ A" Q) [% c. W
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
9 R( n4 C- f5 p. G個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣0 S" x3 w- j8 f. _0 h) d
覺得好空虛
7 y5 r9 S8 L4 p/ c  C7 @' A其實早幾次都有試過係咁, ~. F2 I( t7 U. i. x
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
8 x$ \2 `- s  B; P! ~9 x用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.! g1 L4 T8 P+ {0 l
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
, R8 L# n' B2 K5 \6 }1 L有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:4 d5 j- o/ w$ S9 {2 s: _
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
0 B: c6 Z7 c3 w) Q3 F+ J" \9 [5 Rb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.* v% g% P  r3 W  O' Z
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:: t: g% R+ a' b1 P6 D( I: I2 b" q
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....% U4 y& j$ B1 k8 c0 B6 V
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～& ]& k8 j+ W/ X, n9 q8 _$ u
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
, r; W* J* e" n1 k0 h就好似睇完一套好睇的電影' O# Y1 P- _- |! g4 Y: M1 J
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～5 l. I- |  e/ G
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
. \9 X! z# i7 W8 G7 I0 I很少會超過一天～  J5 F2 [+ {7 Q
要期待更好的明天呀！