婚姻的誓詞

newlife2008

我理解香港人每年離婚率不停增加 :

我好想在此一些結過婚的人 / 想結婚的人,

你們曾在下天下及各人前要立下此誓.

婚姻誓詞：「我如今鄭重承認你作我的妻子／丈夫，並許諾從今以後，無論環境順逆，疾病健康，我將永遠愛慕尊重你，終身不渝。願主垂鑒我的意願。

請問你能做到嗎? 若做不到, 我勸各E_FUN朋友放棄吧.

其實婚書係一張紙, 但你簽前應會認真考慮, 而你又說出誓詞.

當你有離婚一刻可會想起你曾向天發誓此話.  

請各人想結婚的情侶, 認真的才好. 免世界又多一個受因違誓而遭天遺的人

極樂

其實, 我覺係心態問題....
因為依家d人將"離婚"睇成好小事...
$999 簽個名攪掂...
未結婚就已經諗住離婚....


兩個人相處唔多唔少梗有問題架啦....
d人依家都唔係諗個解決方法, 一諗就諗住離婚.....
唉~~~

trista_cheong

Originally posted by newlife2008 at 2008-2-23 03:28 AM:
我理解香港人每年離婚率不停增加 :

...

為何永遠放不低﹐任情愛控制身體？

shanlinlla

依家d人好似對"承諾"呢兩個字,已經絕緣....

你同你情人講,"你嗰日唔係講過一世都愛我咩",你得到嘅答案七成會係"咩年代呀,依家廿一世紀啦"

我都同意極樂所講,係心態問題!!!!!

離婚??好少事之ma,去律師樓比少少錢簽紙,分居一排,搞掂啦!!!!!!

仲有,我覺得係依家d人,覺得家庭已經無咁重要,(我指大部份女人)
可能係因為而家生活質數同能力高,佢地有能力take care自己,所以係面對不滿/壓力時,
佢地唔會再忍氣吞聲,最直接嘅,"離婚咪離婚囉"!!!!
再者,佢地覺得家庭係一個負累,會阻礙自己工作機會,所以覺得婚姻係小事!!!!!要唔要都罷!!!

最後,教育都好有問題,佢地教下一代,一有壓力就要反抗,并唔係教佢地點樣解決問題!!!!!!
依家係律師樓,好多人都係因為一兩句爭執/一d小問題而離婚,佢地唔係去包容對方,而係去反抗,
我地嘅下一代見到,佢地又點會對婚姻有信心呢!!!!!!
依家嘅人,都要係婚姻中取上風,用強勢去令對方口服,這樣一來,摩擦就多,對婚姻做成傷害!!!!!

好似有d九唔搭八,但呢d都係我對現代婚姻嘅睇法!!!!!
希望唔好扣分!!!!

trista_cheong

Originally posted by shanlinlla at 2008-2-24 01:49 AM:
依家d人好似對"承諾"呢兩個...

實現唔到你希望﹐加分就有你分~



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bunce2806

There's less concept of love being "give and take" compared to previously. Luckily my parents are still together but I've seen divorce happen in relatives and friends.  It can get pretty ugly, and if there are kids in the marriage, divorce hurts them the most psychologically (and they are the ones that are truly innocent).  Call me old fashioned but seems to me that the parents are just thinking of themselves.

It's also a viscious cycle.  Later in life the children learn the bad ways from the parents, and have more marriage break ups compared to those from "whole" families.