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發表於 2005-4-27 02:01 PM
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in fact, under this situation, we really would not be so intellective sometimes, that means we will solve it in a little bit "9" way
3 C' y& _( P- ]1 M, }consider in the following (not in order):
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( K; f' y0 X; M" {1st, how close the relationship we are?. G2 ]4 a+ p2 y) f( G
2nd, how serious he/she has done?5 U6 f) A! S) B, @' \
3rd, would it affect other seriouly after i help/not help him?
1 D6 |& u" Y; ?* d4th, even worst problem he/she has made, why he/she did it? any good excuse?
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for me:" {# N" x9 @4 f3 Z) W9 g
i may ask my "good heart" first, that means i may 大義滅親 if they have done a serious problem, just like murder because this is gd way for they to self-questioning and searching, also this is a 交代 to the victim.
' [7 B! L- k2 K( j T% Cbut if they have a very good excuse, just like self protection, then i may advice them to surrender, because their crime can be understood under Law (just like HK this kind of place with gd law situation)& v3 A% E/ {) e8 `+ e8 e
but for some situations just like murder in China, smuggle of drugs in thai land, than they must die, then i may help them to cop, but sure they should have a very good excus for me to help !!!
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but whatever, i think we should put our 良心 first b4 doing anything and need to 將心比己!!! |
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