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jason williams

in fact, under this situation, we really would not be so intellective sometimes, that means we will solve it in a little bit "9" way) R& q  }# c3 J7 H6 u
consider in the following (not in order):6 ~& _: I, b- g2 P4 Z# }2 z4 t% a/ `
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1st, how close the relationship we are?
, A# j# p/ j! @( S% j3 e0 n2nd, how serious he/she has done?& N- O  ~/ \7 `% N
3rd, would it affect other seriouly after i help/not help him?9 S  t, V. A7 `/ t7 X" I# a/ g
4th, even worst problem he/she has made, why he/she did it? any good excuse?
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i may ask my "good heart" first, that means i may 大義滅親 if they have done a serious problem, just like murder because this is gd way for they to self-questioning and searching, also this is a 交代 to the victim." h6 Z/ A- F% R4 S7 P
but if they have a very good excuse, just like self protection, then i may advice them to surrender, because their crime can be understood under Law (just like HK this kind of place with gd law situation)# N' w2 T+ ~1 {
but for some situations just like murder in China, smuggle of drugs in thai land, than they must die, then i may help them to cop, but sure they should have a very good excus for me to help !!!, v+ [/ G! g5 E4 S7 j; q

* G' a1 Z# }+ e% K# I% L( E5 ^8 Gbut whatever, i think we should put our 良心 first b4 doing anything and need to 將心比己!!!

wer

小事會,大事不會.留案底或坐監對父子前途影響甚大,所以不告.小事就沒所謂,當買個教訓

aiqidejiao

父為子隱，子為父隱

老鬼X

觀點/角度 好難答

jennifer

不能比成我了，就事论事吧，因果关系，所谓大义灭亲，这个大义是指大局，大事，大众的利益来看。所以舍弃亲情，来用法律或善恶惩罚来对待亲人，第一个例子呢，我认做得对，这算是大义救亲吧，小偷小摸终会铸成大错，在大错之前，绳之亲子，算是救他，助他而已，谈不上灭，可能是父亲一片苦心。2 D/ d6 y1 U! K5 a7 [- r1 _
第二个呢，是小义灭亲吧，这个小义是指怕连累自己，拖累家人，而举报，如仅仅为了减少对社会危险，那么方式不局限于报警这个极端手法。% W! K0 _. G. U4 I
人们总把大义与民簇与群体相联，一已私利算不上大义，这是个人观点，求分啊，分太少。

ricojohny

無論要滅邊個; n, D+ |9 E3 X" k0 I' j  o
只要有數我都會滅