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, h  Q5 s5 d, m% z假如仍不知悔改就要佢負上法律責任% E4 r4 K$ U7 U. ~! Z  {/ Q
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jason williams

in fact, under this situation, we really would not be so intellective sometimes, that means we will solve it in a little bit "9" way
7 ^. I0 X% m, m' I5 oconsider in the following (not in order):& T. I( a. w  n) Z; V

( p  x. u/ W( [  O1st, how close the relationship we are?5 |7 u( N) K) l, Z" s
2nd, how serious he/she has done?7 ~: G' M6 v- ?6 Q8 N* Y9 Z
3rd, would it affect other seriouly after i help/not help him?* E9 ^* d6 L5 Z6 c- j: s5 J
4th, even worst problem he/she has made, why he/she did it? any good excuse?
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for me:
9 u" H" F0 @5 Q! Qi may ask my "good heart" first, that means i may 大義滅親 if they have done a serious problem, just like murder because this is gd way for they to self-questioning and searching, also this is a 交代 to the victim.+ k* e, |$ T& O# f; o
but if they have a very good excuse, just like self protection, then i may advice them to surrender, because their crime can be understood under Law (just like HK this kind of place with gd law situation)
, U1 n2 h! K. O1 ?1 P1 W$ wbut for some situations just like murder in China, smuggle of drugs in thai land, than they must die, then i may help them to cop, but sure they should have a very good excus for me to help !!!  M- e5 ~( p3 }/ X3 y( A

. A& U. C1 q# `, K% x# P: Abut whatever, i think we should put our 良心 first b4 doing anything and need to 將心比己!!!

wer

小事會,大事不會.留案底或坐監對父子前途影響甚大,所以不告.小事就沒所謂,當買個教訓

aiqidejiao

父為子隱，子為父隱

老鬼X

觀點/角度 好難答

jennifer

不能比成我了，就事论事吧，因果关系，所谓大义灭亲，这个大义是指大局，大事，大众的利益来看。所以舍弃亲情，来用法律或善恶惩罚来对待亲人，第一个例子呢，我认做得对，这算是大义救亲吧，小偷小摸终会铸成大错，在大错之前，绳之亲子，算是救他，助他而已，谈不上灭，可能是父亲一片苦心。- }# a* Y1 m' e) W! ~% _
第二个呢，是小义灭亲吧，这个小义是指怕连累自己，拖累家人，而举报，如仅仅为了减少对社会危险，那么方式不局限于报警这个极端手法。
, O, C$ ]! i5 ]$ d! A. D1 v人们总把大义与民簇与群体相联，一已私利算不上大义，这是个人观点，求分啊，分太少。

ricojohny

無論要滅邊個
  \( L* \8 g9 w7 [只要有數我都會滅