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9 G* c% z  v8 X; ~- ?: e假如仍不知悔改就要佢負上法律責任1 q7 H* V! S+ `0 ?
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jason williams

in fact, under this situation, we really would not be so intellective sometimes, that means we will solve it in a little bit "9" way) i/ \# Q9 @0 g* l- C7 g
consider in the following (not in order):! @# U; J$ L) x; L7 G
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1st, how close the relationship we are?
3 O3 N3 u1 R& M( f+ u4 h2nd, how serious he/she has done?7 |! S0 l6 v" k5 r4 K* l
3rd, would it affect other seriouly after i help/not help him?
( o: z4 A3 Q; }; ~3 e0 H4th, even worst problem he/she has made, why he/she did it? any good excuse?
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! v! w; z# ^1 [8 _# E& pfor me:: C/ A- p8 M$ t' L+ X' b
i may ask my "good heart" first, that means i may 大義滅親 if they have done a serious problem, just like murder because this is gd way for they to self-questioning and searching, also this is a 交代 to the victim.9 e  Y8 ^& A+ l" x0 Q3 J
but if they have a very good excuse, just like self protection, then i may advice them to surrender, because their crime can be understood under Law (just like HK this kind of place with gd law situation)
; q$ \3 `: S% ^* ybut for some situations just like murder in China, smuggle of drugs in thai land, than they must die, then i may help them to cop, but sure they should have a very good excus for me to help !!!
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but whatever, i think we should put our 良心 first b4 doing anything and need to 將心比己!!!

wer

小事會,大事不會.留案底或坐監對父子前途影響甚大,所以不告.小事就沒所謂,當買個教訓

aiqidejiao

父為子隱，子為父隱

老鬼X

觀點/角度 好難答

jennifer

不能比成我了，就事论事吧，因果关系，所谓大义灭亲，这个大义是指大局，大事，大众的利益来看。所以舍弃亲情，来用法律或善恶惩罚来对待亲人，第一个例子呢，我认做得对，这算是大义救亲吧，小偷小摸终会铸成大错，在大错之前，绳之亲子，算是救他，助他而已，谈不上灭，可能是父亲一片苦心。, w& R$ f( v- e% }0 _' I/ w% h
第二个呢，是小义灭亲吧，这个小义是指怕连累自己，拖累家人，而举报，如仅仅为了减少对社会危险，那么方式不局限于报警这个极端手法。
+ p0 P1 ?6 v1 P" W1 e4 I人们总把大义与民簇与群体相联，一已私利算不上大义，这是个人观点，求分啊，分太少。

ricojohny

無論要滅邊個
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