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jason williams

in fact, under this situation, we really would not be so intellective sometimes, that means we will solve it in a little bit "9" way$ O3 _8 \/ |: J" B( e) H
consider in the following (not in order):
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1st, how close the relationship we are?8 s; ~5 _2 J( o& d
2nd, how serious he/she has done?- R3 w( g* S# S8 V( ]. U9 t
3rd, would it affect other seriouly after i help/not help him?
! m+ w) a4 v' ]5 w" B, s4th, even worst problem he/she has made, why he/she did it? any good excuse?
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$ ~: Z6 S/ m1 }! ^, {for me:
3 _% r# w. \* @# W. Ti may ask my "good heart" first, that means i may 大義滅親 if they have done a serious problem, just like murder because this is gd way for they to self-questioning and searching, also this is a 交代 to the victim.
) S7 x, d+ M1 Z: Fbut if they have a very good excuse, just like self protection, then i may advice them to surrender, because their crime can be understood under Law (just like HK this kind of place with gd law situation)2 e6 I) I3 x) l( r* I2 q# k
but for some situations just like murder in China, smuggle of drugs in thai land, than they must die, then i may help them to cop, but sure they should have a very good excus for me to help !!!
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/ X9 e2 q* q4 A: R4 nbut whatever, i think we should put our 良心 first b4 doing anything and need to 將心比己!!!

wer

小事會,大事不會.留案底或坐監對父子前途影響甚大,所以不告.小事就沒所謂,當買個教訓

aiqidejiao

父為子隱，子為父隱

老鬼X

觀點/角度 好難答

jennifer

不能比成我了，就事论事吧，因果关系，所谓大义灭亲，这个大义是指大局，大事，大众的利益来看。所以舍弃亲情，来用法律或善恶惩罚来对待亲人，第一个例子呢，我认做得对，这算是大义救亲吧，小偷小摸终会铸成大错，在大错之前，绳之亲子，算是救他，助他而已，谈不上灭，可能是父亲一片苦心。
, Q# {  e3 Q$ x% \: v" k7 ?第二个呢，是小义灭亲吧，这个小义是指怕连累自己，拖累家人，而举报，如仅仅为了减少对社会危险，那么方式不局限于报警这个极端手法。
! n1 M# C' q6 c9 ]* [' Y人们总把大义与民簇与群体相联，一已私利算不上大义，这是个人观点，求分啊，分太少。

ricojohny

無論要滅邊個3 X4 j5 }" C1 r/ t0 I/ x( d( Y* w0 F, X
只要有數我都會滅