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$ m) x( T5 U! P* @假如仍不知悔改就要佢負上法律責任  [6 O7 V0 n$ h! z& I
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jason williams

in fact, under this situation, we really would not be so intellective sometimes, that means we will solve it in a little bit "9" way
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; |% P1 I" H& j) ?/ X1st, how close the relationship we are?; v6 [1 i1 k; c! }; Q8 x% D# y
2nd, how serious he/she has done?; e* Y! ]# B8 p0 j: @9 I7 W* n( c
3rd, would it affect other seriouly after i help/not help him?' W( n3 `9 N( c4 X8 J5 G( d
4th, even worst problem he/she has made, why he/she did it? any good excuse?! [% G% Y. h& K& z1 B- Q$ ~6 Z: M

8 a  G3 Q+ G/ Y; ~for me:
/ i0 e/ `0 b8 u/ S' ~' I$ N* ^i may ask my "good heart" first, that means i may 大義滅親 if they have done a serious problem, just like murder because this is gd way for they to self-questioning and searching, also this is a 交代 to the victim.! r% M0 R$ J: C3 g. j. @+ O
but if they have a very good excuse, just like self protection, then i may advice them to surrender, because their crime can be understood under Law (just like HK this kind of place with gd law situation)
  Z2 O/ w) H5 {( [* Mbut for some situations just like murder in China, smuggle of drugs in thai land, than they must die, then i may help them to cop, but sure they should have a very good excus for me to help !!!
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but whatever, i think we should put our 良心 first b4 doing anything and need to 將心比己!!!

wer

小事會,大事不會.留案底或坐監對父子前途影響甚大,所以不告.小事就沒所謂,當買個教訓

aiqidejiao

父為子隱，子為父隱

老鬼X

觀點/角度 好難答

jennifer

不能比成我了，就事论事吧，因果关系，所谓大义灭亲，这个大义是指大局，大事，大众的利益来看。所以舍弃亲情，来用法律或善恶惩罚来对待亲人，第一个例子呢，我认做得对，这算是大义救亲吧，小偷小摸终会铸成大错，在大错之前，绳之亲子，算是救他，助他而已，谈不上灭，可能是父亲一片苦心。
& ^8 M4 N+ ^7 e/ M; V8 f" D$ v+ P第二个呢，是小义灭亲吧，这个小义是指怕连累自己，拖累家人，而举报，如仅仅为了减少对社会危险，那么方式不局限于报警这个极端手法。6 L& @4 v# s' \! f' U- e
人们总把大义与民簇与群体相联，一已私利算不上大义，这是个人观点，求分啊，分太少。

ricojohny

無論要滅邊個
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