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發表於 2005-4-27 02:01 PM
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in fact, under this situation, we really would not be so intellective sometimes, that means we will solve it in a little bit "9" way
7 v, c; C& e/ ~) v' `consider in the following (not in order):9 s3 \; i- v/ K2 H+ S# e* S6 X" n
2 r' C5 n% H: z; m' q' I$ x# Y2 p1st, how close the relationship we are?
. {" p% P% v& |+ h4 s: z- x. L9 P0 C2nd, how serious he/she has done?9 \+ W: z0 e5 C$ U& r' V7 H' t
3rd, would it affect other seriouly after i help/not help him?8 A4 r% B/ t! d4 n6 l
4th, even worst problem he/she has made, why he/she did it? any good excuse?
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for me:, i% w& t q. V/ z" ~) \+ o
i may ask my "good heart" first, that means i may 大義滅親 if they have done a serious problem, just like murder because this is gd way for they to self-questioning and searching, also this is a 交代 to the victim.
6 {8 W X- j( ^but if they have a very good excuse, just like self protection, then i may advice them to surrender, because their crime can be understood under Law (just like HK this kind of place with gd law situation)
% i1 S& r+ k/ B( \, sbut for some situations just like murder in China, smuggle of drugs in thai land, than they must die, then i may help them to cop, but sure they should have a very good excus for me to help !!!1 \6 p3 D( q+ ]8 |2 t
$ [( L& d3 a$ Q7 _2 ~8 k1 A1 Ibut whatever, i think we should put our 良心 first b4 doing anything and need to 將心比己!!! |
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