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# ~6 l) w: z+ F- y假如仍不知悔改就要佢負上法律責任! L, e) n# ]5 }0 U- k
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jason williams

in fact, under this situation, we really would not be so intellective sometimes, that means we will solve it in a little bit "9" way
3 R+ E3 [. o& H2 vconsider in the following (not in order):
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+ i8 t0 X* ^, P1st, how close the relationship we are?
  _& }2 x2 z$ f2 H7 V2nd, how serious he/she has done?& o8 E$ p4 k! I' O) S7 b3 j
3rd, would it affect other seriouly after i help/not help him?
$ L) J/ D4 e; H6 q4th, even worst problem he/she has made, why he/she did it? any good excuse?6 U- S/ c2 o1 f2 Z1 w5 `! u- s; Q

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i may ask my "good heart" first, that means i may 大義滅親 if they have done a serious problem, just like murder because this is gd way for they to self-questioning and searching, also this is a 交代 to the victim.
! p, t4 X/ Y- S0 a1 F; rbut if they have a very good excuse, just like self protection, then i may advice them to surrender, because their crime can be understood under Law (just like HK this kind of place with gd law situation)
# f5 L% {; m- l' e* c4 t0 bbut for some situations just like murder in China, smuggle of drugs in thai land, than they must die, then i may help them to cop, but sure they should have a very good excus for me to help !!!
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but whatever, i think we should put our 良心 first b4 doing anything and need to 將心比己!!!

wer

小事會,大事不會.留案底或坐監對父子前途影響甚大,所以不告.小事就沒所謂,當買個教訓

aiqidejiao

父為子隱，子為父隱

老鬼X

觀點/角度 好難答

jennifer

不能比成我了，就事论事吧，因果关系，所谓大义灭亲，这个大义是指大局，大事，大众的利益来看。所以舍弃亲情，来用法律或善恶惩罚来对待亲人，第一个例子呢，我认做得对，这算是大义救亲吧，小偷小摸终会铸成大错，在大错之前，绳之亲子，算是救他，助他而已，谈不上灭，可能是父亲一片苦心。5 u' {5 _8 [: g! p# }7 `& I
第二个呢，是小义灭亲吧，这个小义是指怕连累自己，拖累家人，而举报，如仅仅为了减少对社会危险，那么方式不局限于报警这个极端手法。2 C, H, i% z$ {+ S6 r/ x' ?
人们总把大义与民簇与群体相联，一已私利算不上大义，这是个人观点，求分啊，分太少。

ricojohny

無論要滅邊個: V. ^2 h" u! U; [" e5 Y6 e
只要有數我都會滅