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發表於 2005-4-27 02:01 PM
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in fact, under this situation, we really would not be so intellective sometimes, that means we will solve it in a little bit "9" way+ A8 M9 C% j9 A
consider in the following (not in order):
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1st, how close the relationship we are?0 }# S: Z o ]2 L: w
2nd, how serious he/she has done?
/ I) d- L& j$ r1 ~ c, d3rd, would it affect other seriouly after i help/not help him?
0 M- A9 e# O& c5 c" c' e4th, even worst problem he/she has made, why he/she did it? any good excuse?
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for me:
; S# E7 j( O% R* G3 u! m3 N3 e0 ]- Ki may ask my "good heart" first, that means i may 大義滅親 if they have done a serious problem, just like murder because this is gd way for they to self-questioning and searching, also this is a 交代 to the victim.6 M' A& a8 Q5 T
but if they have a very good excuse, just like self protection, then i may advice them to surrender, because their crime can be understood under Law (just like HK this kind of place with gd law situation)
. r& f7 H. Q p* u/ M; obut for some situations just like murder in China, smuggle of drugs in thai land, than they must die, then i may help them to cop, but sure they should have a very good excus for me to help !!!
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: a7 ^0 t) R- Y) b |% v# j- Qbut whatever, i think we should put our 良心 first b4 doing anything and need to 將心比己!!! |
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