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勸佢收手
4 P, a/ R% T# g1 k+ n9 L假如仍不知悔改就要佢負上法律責任9 d) z) R# F) C+ d0 q
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jason williams

in fact, under this situation, we really would not be so intellective sometimes, that means we will solve it in a little bit "9" way
0 g' N. N/ Z! ?: c" \# q! I2 hconsider in the following (not in order):
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1st, how close the relationship we are?
' R! g2 l- s- M$ J6 ?2nd, how serious he/she has done?
$ C& @( ?5 I, J3rd, would it affect other seriouly after i help/not help him?
- I# X9 s9 K1 f( v7 p3 v1 ^, v4th, even worst problem he/she has made, why he/she did it? any good excuse?- I" [; F. O) y- q4 G1 s
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for me:
# X' H# M: r; T- X. f# M) vi may ask my "good heart" first, that means i may 大義滅親 if they have done a serious problem, just like murder because this is gd way for they to self-questioning and searching, also this is a 交代 to the victim.
% N* u  i- g3 ]+ ~8 p  ]but if they have a very good excuse, just like self protection, then i may advice them to surrender, because their crime can be understood under Law (just like HK this kind of place with gd law situation)9 S8 R6 N5 T( L+ X$ ~
but for some situations just like murder in China, smuggle of drugs in thai land, than they must die, then i may help them to cop, but sure they should have a very good excus for me to help !!!
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+ D. x+ z2 M1 U4 r+ {" F1 `but whatever, i think we should put our 良心 first b4 doing anything and need to 將心比己!!!

wer

小事會,大事不會.留案底或坐監對父子前途影響甚大,所以不告.小事就沒所謂,當買個教訓

aiqidejiao

父為子隱，子為父隱

老鬼X

觀點/角度 好難答

jennifer

不能比成我了，就事论事吧，因果关系，所谓大义灭亲，这个大义是指大局，大事，大众的利益来看。所以舍弃亲情，来用法律或善恶惩罚来对待亲人，第一个例子呢，我认做得对，这算是大义救亲吧，小偷小摸终会铸成大错，在大错之前，绳之亲子，算是救他，助他而已，谈不上灭，可能是父亲一片苦心。3 `, ^1 s7 D1 |, O) I
第二个呢，是小义灭亲吧，这个小义是指怕连累自己，拖累家人，而举报，如仅仅为了减少对社会危险，那么方式不局限于报警这个极端手法。
$ u5 z/ N/ s8 }" d7 B/ A人们总把大义与民簇与群体相联，一已私利算不上大义，这是个人观点，求分啊，分太少。

ricojohny

無論要滅邊個
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