熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?7 e& c7 `' G1 s1 _" z7 Z
好唔鍾意呢種感覺: P- p9 V$ N7 O( G5 s
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
6 [5 B* x. ], F5 O個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
5 Y8 n: ]8 A! i& e覺得好空虛! m; {: e1 e. Y! H/ j0 I, {8 k5 O
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
, C5 N# x6 [0 O4 O- S3 x3 j卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
+ W8 `8 Z' P+ _; `* I$ w5 l用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?% x+ D0 Y/ B" p5 a& W( P6 @
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,1 b3 |; Q, B7 e8 n3 z* A
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
4 L* E: G# o, S7 L熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,6 ~( e7 W# f7 n: S5 L* Q0 g
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,8 l! [1 X0 o  _8 |% M( {) W
日日有車站,
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taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙( C" U( i( F7 D: k1 ]2 F; ^
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:5 V& d/ h" w/ S: y
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
2 n9 k, w! A8 t8 w  I: G感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞.." c4 j9 Z3 z3 Q" R& l( A% U' ^' f! \
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
0 K8 @6 D( L$ {總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
$ \% ~9 V& A/ x  |7 K, r其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,# p5 J2 ?9 C; k: X( C" }5 Q6 q
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,/ ]4 G( _/ c! \7 N8 Z
日日有車站,0 y  j1 |  z& N$ m+ q8 N
有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:' k: N" ?9 H! O! H" P
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?, c0 I; m* p" _( m
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
/ w. ~+ \7 n" I0 N& S# H$ R琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心+ T9 u3 W6 \0 R
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣) B; }) O+ R2 J) M4 K% Q. }
覺得好空虛
! Z0 t9 z6 [- S# X- J其實早幾次都有試過係咁
; K. m* W2 K1 ^. S8 e# ^. G卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己, t6 l$ M. }2 v3 S4 g
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?- |7 P) e4 u/ X5 i1 \

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$ C" s9 K0 p2 ~5 F; M4 }6 J% t這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
4 c: B) g: R5 _" K, m4 M% n唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.% M& e5 v* i7 R( ~* G9 E
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.. l# `3 D/ w" V5 e4 ?& i  ^# @5 q9 ?

$ r  [9 a6 h. p# kPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:8 R# y) p6 @! a, b; g! c9 r
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long! Y% ~* |& r1 O# @
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.' v8 @0 Z; W1 S* L& q8 E2 {5 I
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.) ~+ Z5 B8 X7 j3 @
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Just another thought on lonliness:
. i% n/ p0 C6 M+ M5 W2 I: J4 hLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time...../ B% c0 c2 R  j- K0 `6 u7 j7 W
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～5 e( H7 v9 H  L% J2 e( G
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺- I0 |8 g0 J, m3 W
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影" g* y* N0 y' F) u2 @$ ]
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
" ?8 k* z. M4 }" {1 o& }7 ]空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
" o) M1 O! R( \0 A0 g很少會超過一天～* n7 _( @+ s# ^7 b$ M( A/ T
要期待更好的明天呀！