熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?; E4 B( H" z9 w6 {1 M1 P- S" k
好唔鍾意呢種感覺5 h4 G' l: ~9 A' O" w1 ]+ _
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心8 F: W  {, B% P+ ]5 C% _
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣5 i; B9 o' L* q' _" G# Q
覺得好空虛
$ X+ B' s7 D2 d# E/ x其實早幾次都有試過係咁* ], d: w7 O% [# b
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己  {) y! |: N3 D& u
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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  a+ ~! n4 ~+ ]" M[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
9 V" F' J1 q! P$ v但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺7 b- N* M6 i9 i  y
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,  O+ b5 Q- i* m1 h' q9 j2 F# `
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
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有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
: V( J9 ^/ y: ^/ e你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
& s* x. o! ^8 [7 C. a如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

% G- \( j' ^: A9 G我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
# F& Q& h: F! p) Z) {- n感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
  ^# L) Q, l. d玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.  m7 ?+ N- c$ }  O# n# N
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
4 h5 e! {% v0 X  N2 B# G" ?其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
3 R2 l/ x" S/ W1 q/ e# P所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車," f9 u& V* @* M2 M
日日有車站,
1 U$ }8 H9 g  T! x% u) z8 @: {, P9 i有目標!

3 ]; N7 k) d+ \! Awhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
  r/ ]2 D* I$ r5 |6 o& ^如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?  A+ {1 B" K* t9 h8 w4 s
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
$ j. c$ S# q* v/ x琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心) ]( o1 M1 H4 P  l
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
$ {+ _8 @) h$ h9 p* |0 C) m' W3 I覺得好空虛
5 o' r% A* w6 ?) @8 R$ B5 ?其實早幾次都有試過係咁7 K( |" a/ w( n6 r2 Z, s2 o2 _
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己4 c9 N- P' |  |
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?, G( D0 M3 [! E6 f- T) L

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
* m/ M" i# M6 ]- O. u: b唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.  b' h4 W0 H1 o4 d
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.2 {% Q" I: O' a  A/ B( l. m

) T. t# b! `# b) g2 h4 T+ n  ^7 \People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:# i* ~1 q% U, `$ c
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
' A6 m4 n- F) m8 ib) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
1 s, Y3 B, l! cc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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6 M7 u0 V5 Y/ I5 O: u1 JJust another thought on lonliness:
8 L" c; Q# b! Y; K3 Z( OLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....! p: T! h: r$ k) A- }1 F" S5 _
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～$ v9 Y* E* Z( w3 |  K) N
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
5 D0 `# Y' j7 [& E$ V& n6 n就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
- E, ?* m4 ]$ x& C& }或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～/ m( \1 f; E; x0 A6 Q8 I6 U
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉9 z6 n' L# a. W+ S% P& U0 ^
很少會超過一天～
) j+ r6 c; q- |: N  e4 D; U要期待更好的明天呀！