熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
6 H/ q8 J& Y  E1 z好唔鍾意呢種感覺
% `) @: m! z/ [琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
) p1 `+ L% y4 Y! }4 V! O個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
# M  d+ s7 q. J( ~! S6 ]4 k覺得好空虛
$ o, K% L# H- I& T/ s3 o; k其實早幾次都有試過係咁
( ]. \# L) h0 \. N卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己& P: @/ `6 U6 E
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,8 e) |  G; U; t5 e  Y
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
' t7 ~+ v7 d6 t0 y/ D, j3 K熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,1 ], P* Z9 E5 _/ L2 ~- t
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,( f! [7 P; Q. ^# [+ ]# P
日日有車站,
+ V2 D: K- _4 F; o" U有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
/ S# w8 p7 f2 `: L! |你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:" J' B5 \; @' J0 R$ Q0 Z; U8 W
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

2 D0 j# k+ Y. k6 G8 [3 Z我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
, {  T3 p: j- w9 M感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..5 m+ ~+ b; N: ^( N; L0 h
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
) f) |7 ~. v  |7 D6 }5 G) \總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:. \, t0 i8 J# {% g- p' R
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,/ Q3 O: v( e! \, Q1 Q
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,* U* F# Z" f* ]0 V3 h" A
日日有車站,& o; ?4 L. B6 T7 F* M+ D
有目標!

4 s& i" ?2 l) D: q: q) f7 i% l$ H$ |3 Awhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
2 J7 n/ s. A- g+ X% r* B- @9 J9 H如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
( ?  y0 v+ t9 ]+ ^/ w& {. T" u好唔鍾意呢種感覺
! f" d# l! P( o, k. |琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
- j) z* i6 G7 t8 ]) b6 \個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
- N8 @" n4 n  p1 H" n+ x  N覺得好空虛5 A5 R8 K! u5 c/ M
其實早幾次都有試過係咁! Z  x# l3 @3 k
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
6 C; z* q/ f$ a1 d' _用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?# V6 z  s- u8 c4 n; c4 J/ m: @

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2 h' Z5 ?7 `/ i* m這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
' I$ `; \4 _' i4 G% ?$ Y唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.- B/ x- |- H! M6 E  d
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.* ^  z, ^$ y, J: B- v- T  K8 \

2 o" }) j7 a0 x% G& Y: x) j; VPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:& r2 s! K7 L7 l8 Q" O$ N9 R
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
% c2 ~+ X: A) B6 @8 O9 M8 {! L1 g) Lb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.3 T# a  d! ?" R( ~: p) U
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:
) [) H* |8 W% {6 yLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....1 p' Q9 W% P2 C5 G
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～" ]# m% G* p, ?3 R1 \- S5 O
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
. b6 @3 ?& e9 E8 }- `3 c就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
% Y" }& V7 l" K# j6 d1 R6 x或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
. @: h! s; ^/ d  j, \* J% n# g: k空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
8 y! V& v$ m( y很少會超過一天～
; X7 p) C8 ?' }; }6 u* b要期待更好的明天呀！