熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
1 f: ^' _6 R1 o. F好唔鍾意呢種感覺
3 r; J% z( x' O琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心# ~1 F& R; q: W
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
9 ]( N7 l1 |( E" P5 K1 M; K+ Z  l覺得好空虛; B, f8 ~. I, X% ]1 L# p4 ]
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
. U# @' _; D$ e* V9 [/ B9 D% |卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
5 S. G! o7 J$ U) x用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,! L+ f* _) c# J( a
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺* i. |* i# M9 C# U) [: ]
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
) X" a6 {5 Q4 Y/ M所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
; R1 h0 l- h1 c6 k/ Y日日有車站,
) n% t0 O1 _* X有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙& \# O6 ]9 U  {9 d
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:8 c0 s; c7 M, [4 ]; c5 q4 @
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

' c) ?, c+ v) u+ g我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.) C9 I: W0 @+ d" M; @
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..9 S- e, B) R. ^$ m4 X* Y
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
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本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
, R: Y3 o: d+ U其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
7 j0 m2 h" K4 {: t所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
6 c( J# ~& x% T9 X6 e日日有車站,
& b' B% M/ |; V有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:( s3 ?% u1 {& D, H% }
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
9 i1 [$ g  P: I. d2 j5 P  N$ P- [好唔鍾意呢種感覺
$ G/ E& J9 D" H1 M琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心5 a7 i1 }# V1 \5 ^. Q# y, R; `
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣( |( Y9 y: |' V" l/ ^$ x3 q" |& ?8 G
覺得好空虛
6 V3 Q" T( h7 u( F: m其實早幾次都有試過係咁$ ~! r& O2 |& F1 ]3 O
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
, o7 x7 A" j; ?% h; @% z用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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4 b$ [, b1 ^8 `  L1 L& [6 [9 m, n* k這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
6 T4 j. C* |0 l4 D& m+ q唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.( U8 i3 N1 Q7 i4 Z% F( ?
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.& F5 j5 t1 E4 q6 U
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
5 A/ N: r  A$ S+ ]% ?1 Ba) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
# [0 X2 n* F9 h1 \1 Cb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.$ }3 s8 _# y, h, i
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:
9 G% B. Q4 c  C# r6 ELonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
' T( W8 J* a0 mBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
9 k+ ]7 Y! y6 c* J* h3 g我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
5 d* Y% \7 d3 F就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
3 L) ?$ y; t# Q6 |$ U0 J8 [# A. M3 I或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
2 o5 O( o+ W: g: e空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
: n/ |2 }- D: V很少會超過一天～
) \, j1 P* [" @3 M( c要期待更好的明天呀！