熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?5 o  Q4 f! x9 M" B
好唔鍾意呢種感覺6 {9 [; f) i, H# ~$ E& |
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
* k1 T. X1 N2 c' M7 c0 u個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣$ Z' @& p5 x5 j" `, {8 L
覺得好空虛) @  P4 i, b" C1 v5 P
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
( u% a; J  b* S卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己% P2 Q: z+ q  r  i& ~; \9 u/ f
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,/ B, m# O8 P/ {2 s" U6 l" }
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
2 t9 D0 |1 Z) t- L  f8 c8 P, b熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
. b! o8 {1 V0 D( }所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,& J/ \5 U% [! p$ f- v
日日有車站,+ i) W/ z' q$ D  E$ p- K, x* f& s
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙3 W$ F+ E' o7 r% b. ^/ ~% n
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
, y1 F3 H/ J; N7 U# `4 m2 i7 F如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

" U8 t. m+ k2 }' K我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.  w: D& E# h$ f$ Z5 P1 Q0 F- t
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
8 G4 f3 a# n6 Y# b玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.1 k; e' \3 q+ l& E
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:: |' |* w+ c1 a2 D
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
7 H/ j; t9 w$ A5 `$ F6 f所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,0 }# }0 t! k* L3 X
日日有車站,7 m; k4 Q% O9 \& G- L
有目標!

- M+ Y9 O% M' N9 fwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:6 a/ ^1 }3 y! j2 e
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?' @5 E- j; [# Q/ G8 q
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
' i( A/ p4 U& @- Z/ E) u琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
% B1 l# o# i+ a, S* r個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
3 j3 N' V& J+ y9 O9 O. _$ k覺得好空虛
% z: F7 }% [- J% v/ b其實早幾次都有試過係咁9 H7 S, f1 Y! ^( t9 v4 s1 h
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
- q7 L! j* g4 h9 Z9 v用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?$ |+ r) @7 E4 S( c9 g- E

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.3 W) f7 {' Y1 S2 U! }. O: E. m
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.# T$ g; s1 t# m* h
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own." Z9 P7 w, h" z: `3 P  v' l/ u5 V8 e& i
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
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b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.6 Y, Y* v; M! O7 F: \( O
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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: B% i8 L' c' U( m7 S0 X' F4 J- eJust another thought on lonliness:; a3 ]1 R) f# c, L7 P5 ~
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....& j5 {: ]) V4 v; ~" k' H# a  D1 ~
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
& x8 X" R# H0 U9 z; u( [0 N我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
9 L8 l2 f/ U) ^0 _( a# Q7 O/ g就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
7 w' d8 }' [2 ?4 b或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
% L% o0 c5 ^. U' I  v( j空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
- j5 F- B& A7 }" r) J3 N很少會超過一天～
  ~4 i4 K& t- h3 m! K; Q6 s要期待更好的明天呀！