熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?2 h* N6 w4 z( c# {1 \: n# l5 \
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
$ v# D  r3 p8 ^! C7 w! L琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
, w; n, y) G& C, t個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣9 i9 ]/ s$ d7 d+ K4 |1 e* K' u
覺得好空虛7 M/ e2 F1 s! u* K4 A& Y9 R4 U5 ?; Y9 M
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
& L0 X, S5 p% }4 Y( U" g/ F卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己& P2 f6 O7 _. ^
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?: s; \+ i# b4 {0 Z. K$ L

$ ]2 P. ~8 U# C: O% ?[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,+ ^/ X7 f7 r0 G% i3 q( t# W
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
( V; A% h! @8 K# R) d2 Q1 I( G4 u熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,/ D" s9 A3 u; G9 L9 v& }
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
7 ?6 q8 y$ z# {6 H; O日日有車站,
- f6 W. G6 h2 T' c5 f/ F$ `7 Z3 n有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
1 w+ D% e0 ~  T) W. V你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:7 O) Y! L3 ?: T3 l* |" P
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

6 e( a4 M7 P9 Q我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
4 a) F; p2 V- V% O, m' `感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..' b! {  b+ x6 |9 I4 U* V
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
: [8 I: @3 P0 L  _$ L5 X! p總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
2 p6 a' w2 @& m其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,. N1 z4 Y: ?( C, x3 i
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,% F: ]2 p- a! I
日日有車站,3 Q. z* }" G" B8 }* u- Z# v
有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
6 b" M7 u# j9 Y) b7 [如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?5 t4 {5 h3 J# Y. q" h3 R2 ~
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
$ @2 _# J# k! R琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
4 \0 W; z9 _2 z6 X( ?2 g個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣+ `  ]- w  Q  g  }# {! g" _$ W
覺得好空虛
  G" h( l) O4 o2 U4 T其實早幾次都有試過係咁
0 u! `) ?) y% F7 k9 _7 l卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己! {7 O9 s9 Z. b
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?& v; @$ m: m' T& ?& i8 W. ^

  H3 C% W* {/ v" t

  p0 A0 ^* `# ]4 K9 w% y這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
$ f. S! b5 ]: }$ I唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
  t" E& y) n1 J4 v' A4 F9 K有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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9 ?* y, N2 {; MPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
5 K# _) o  q* u. ^a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
( h( ^$ W/ y2 ?1 S, o* {b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
2 ^' d1 [( ?+ ]& c) Nc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.7 }" p) P0 v8 }6 z+ n$ e5 s% P: v' q% E

5 _; V" r" F+ C9 f) X  rJust another thought on lonliness:9 I) o; `; O; I1 f
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time....., V( _% ~8 m% p9 {  L* v
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
# P* e1 @1 \' B8 f$ q0 o我會有一種十分空虛的感覺+ r9 l) i4 ]  d# H, X$ r
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
& T+ \& v2 b& a) R5 J. S& {或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
' J; `0 ?' Q9 K) \! }, p( X空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
2 |+ [& ?2 V7 `& M* f1 M$ P7 v很少會超過一天～) ?( G$ B3 E3 F
要期待更好的明天呀！