熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?: S1 ~" Z* g$ m
好唔鍾意呢種感覺/ B  D4 }8 C: |8 \
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心$ e- n7 a9 T9 `( F
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣/ {; R4 c, h7 v$ F6 M
覺得好空虛; p2 }) ^7 n5 U4 e1 R0 J
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
/ P9 L3 k+ F  E% f; w卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
5 u; |+ C$ B  F1 k9 S用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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0 x& e# |3 n( {% g$ @[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
6 v3 U0 G  u/ D; b1 P# n! c但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺9 A8 n0 R( X" d- \. ?+ k  y
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
2 G/ C6 f+ o) s+ S2 H- N所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
' s: P3 \: g  d3 w日日有車站,3 o( j% \5 l8 n5 i
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
  H. [# v0 v/ G3 A$ G你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
# m- f/ i. s, A! \8 n( p% y如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

1 L+ l+ P) Y  _/ e2 E2 v4 T* F: J5 i我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
+ ?- o% m6 W$ \  e. s) g; O感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..  \& u5 J. c; g( @
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
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本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:" D* Y+ W0 ?9 v" t
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,' O( T+ q7 [" ?
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
( u4 _) x+ B+ i( t! f8 I日日有車站,9 K9 Q8 y2 {. m- X3 \
有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
; C3 k4 v0 k8 I5 x; O% S7 F) P如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?# Q( c* l0 I: h* @
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
6 B7 W& M: p' ]琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
% d# s$ g7 R& C* W個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
+ z( r1 y0 _: d7 R6 O2 V' P覺得好空虛. y( O2 L" s2 u7 n1 p
其實早幾次都有試過係咁+ w* K( s, n$ w1 s4 w
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己9 a  l  o% q5 a! [; U
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?9 h5 u. Q8 |0 _6 r" K% M8 |

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) S' V* F: o2 a& l# m* d* L* {這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.! c; b9 s4 s$ `  N; }# D
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
3 s+ a: _" U! S1 k有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
% T- S6 a' \# _. va) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long% y% E5 P& p- c
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
) `9 y  }- e2 M$ Wc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:' G- p3 l( a8 k+ [) C* c! |
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....5 F% P  Q! n3 Y6 {" B  e7 [
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～4 [1 u) F3 c1 s7 e6 A$ b7 b, y
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
2 B6 A5 C, n, T就好似睇完一套好睇的電影# j. X2 W# ]; T" Q4 j7 E) s) E0 ?
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
' \7 `: |* }% T, n4 X空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
( u9 v( b8 o$ Z+ ]7 t很少會超過一天～' ?' O/ b& ~8 S" U
要期待更好的明天呀！