熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?. J+ i6 }0 l5 \$ V/ a4 g
好唔鍾意呢種感覺7 f( ^  @5 a) ?) y" j
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
8 r( c4 {, Y- e/ L個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
" o9 F% L: Q4 d覺得好空虛
* m; T/ f: t$ ^+ H4 Y8 T8 ?其實早幾次都有試過係咁
0 [; U& C8 `& J: R7 R1 j% g卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
9 W2 F% g1 Z  b; q5 d用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?: `* [- l7 i, _
# c& w$ c1 t+ \7 q/ u
[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
# w) Z8 k3 J3 A: `0 I$ a但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺' \' F2 ?% @5 `( q/ i2 |: Q
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
- h+ y- W, z9 J! ^; w* @( e所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,7 D1 x& ]: [3 w$ ^4 G* T
日日有車站,
6 K1 Q' w& ]0 {7 g+ q有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙+ ]$ W" _% w7 Y6 L# e; ^
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
0 x+ j2 ~0 N! E, m1 i- b如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

7 u0 P5 V2 M/ [3 [9 x
我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.# c& D( h! B! p& {9 b& K0 e
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..2 X, B% O% @8 q1 s, c
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
' f* S3 b, c* U5 F% s$ `3 m  B+ k總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:: v, i8 ?$ S# J) w0 `. {. T! L
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,; Q/ D+ f: q! ]# d3 m' P
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,* [% h* g: [6 F) [5 r/ H( p5 r7 w
日日有車站,
& a! I& [& `: ^2 r8 w( r9 e有目標!

$ T( R9 @1 d% i, e: }  Cwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:$ d6 u( l) J% y+ z2 t7 {* ?! h
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?. ^$ C. \5 F% I+ h
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
" J' j: h- }/ V, W6 l- t6 L琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
6 ?+ e7 Z- r! I. B% ]9 P個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣- T# B% t( K9 f4 b0 Z; D
覺得好空虛# z% v( p1 B& [, f, R
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
9 r1 @! l- }% _/ c; S/ A) o% {* A卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己4 ?; R# i9 C0 @- n) F) o
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
  H" }& f1 v( z0 o* b- F3 y  I

% ^9 Q6 G7 `4 W9 w# W% Q

7 ^4 w# ?* ?7 i5 {5 [* R這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
2 y* \% f' H  @* F唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.) A( w+ ^. G* I) d# V2 m
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.1 a9 z. {  F8 b

8 q! h, z8 ~: C5 uPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
7 @$ f2 _+ u" Q! \  N+ Wa) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
4 N" M# w- d  b& v8 @b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.4 W8 g( F8 g1 E
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.9 U4 O9 T  W  |+ @; [0 ]

) M. B" k5 c1 [Just another thought on lonliness:( U  N3 X5 u/ X+ B
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
$ {. D* ?8 K: }4 u, ^. k( w3 iBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～. W# r6 e" a9 N. }9 q. ?& [8 c5 d
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺+ p0 I& _, ^' w! T( _
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
. X5 E. \+ Q) ?( c) ^或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
- Y: \* a5 S( K: {. e  ?空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
* ?& b8 {+ g, m8 j5 n. C很少會超過一天～
( Q% J+ e: b+ E! R0 ]要期待更好的明天呀！