熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
: I2 N) P1 F  M! B/ T4 w好唔鍾意呢種感覺
1 ^' x1 p- L( T! P2 V5 O, c琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心( D; G0 N* |& c  c. x2 s* U
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
) k; P9 n$ k& r9 D覺得好空虛
! |' j+ F3 P, `, D1 g3 x3 q7 ~; X其實早幾次都有試過係咁
- P: e# D* ^- S6 y2 ]卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
- u, q% G) F& p. u( [0 o用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
' y- g  F* S1 M7 }' Q$ C7 S& ^但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺" f* c0 x6 f' V& W" I  B2 e
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
. Q7 {; S  L( f* i所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
  }2 S/ ~+ I4 w0 j1 G6 ~日日有車站,& i- t" M% ^0 l8 q
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙5 R$ }, x, p) q6 l3 r
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:( V& D, }% v3 A- s9 Q# w8 [
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

2 G0 d7 O8 W0 s8 s5 ~3 w我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
" d6 n8 {8 {) r, k感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..( p6 ~5 q0 o6 o6 [
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.8 j0 ?) d* ]5 g: B
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
/ G5 z* C/ {% `% V7 A/ k. T, c其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,  T# |* r1 {: O5 S& l
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,- S% N% d  D- ~
日日有車站,
! K( ~! o1 c' A0 R$ d4 A0 z有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:1 o' X; L9 ~  _4 I. n
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?' u$ H4 `* T. |; H: d+ A+ {. g
好唔鍾意呢種感覺% K! Z. h9 ]/ K! ^
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心) j8 Y7 C. a4 R  H, x0 Y- ]) N
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣6 a+ i6 h3 [) E7 a( M
覺得好空虛, F% P0 g8 g3 r# q% d- J' p
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
$ d* @% b: d% D4 C$ N卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己+ O- ]' [& s% X+ A
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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4 s- B4 h$ H" v7 ^' ]1 B5 O這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.3 ^+ u, Z) x$ [  w) A2 y
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.1 }( F+ r4 ~) j! c8 J9 i
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.! S! X9 i$ l' V$ h" |

' B& @# I; k3 S. |. e8 }People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:9 z$ @' n9 C. G' d- i
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long! ~+ q" ]1 R/ Y2 C8 b% N; p" Y
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
: I/ V  K) [9 w3 B/ L9 ?) x$ c; x4 O# A9 yc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:
* h; l; i% L/ }Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....& S& R. @' K8 d1 v. D* q! [3 t* M
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～) ?! h9 M! j/ T& n0 b5 o. e
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
: b3 @  T1 f' J4 N% t! ?' z就好似睇完一套好睇的電影& a: G) ?. x( N
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
# A# _5 T8 ~' {  Z空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
% f  M" q5 [# _7 Z5 P) X很少會超過一天～
- P0 x5 g3 W! c* j) _% X( E要期待更好的明天呀！