熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
# Q% Q" i1 i3 ~+ V1 @& l好唔鍾意呢種感覺9 K2 l+ i; ]" P6 R
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
. @7 k% Y0 h% n6 h# |( J9 D" E個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣" h! z* k. V& K& _* N( M( l
覺得好空虛( _# I: O& @/ g% z" _/ _
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
; A! A2 C- J, Y; z5 l7 f卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己, v1 Y: F7 O1 M. n) E+ d
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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  u/ H( S' t: Z' l& U6 z[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,7 ~- ~; t5 i3 C+ a' k% P4 t
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺, n1 ^' v/ O8 `/ {% B: u, |
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,1 [( v; o" s5 d$ Z( R  I
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,# P1 A8 f* G* B
日日有車站,) k' G) V" z" F7 _# ~" Z
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙$ z) y4 B: Z* w. {9 p4 |
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:& v0 G) k# T  q+ Y& |, F  ?
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
) t! N( P3 G4 G2 m$ h# \感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..8 k) A8 {+ {1 c" w: |' [  u
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.' _; l" m9 b2 T6 k
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
! Y: w; Z" o" w  p# r其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,; h0 H) B8 i9 Q: u. B! S
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
; g4 f. X1 V) o日日有車站,0 }) b) g8 |+ |, J+ w, L2 W
有目標!

. [0 N" J3 o+ V0 m. O4 Iwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
5 }2 H- u) J' m. ]" j如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?- G5 U" \  u1 r8 i: p
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
- }# L5 {7 |# g3 D' R8 T6 i琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
! w9 l2 V" ~/ `+ _% |& p9 t個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣6 R/ j/ {+ h7 ^7 x8 a/ X2 w  J
覺得好空虛
& b3 ]+ G" Q+ K3 U+ ~其實早幾次都有試過係咁
) }4 Q" K0 v* o- f( w+ F卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
$ l" o& W  s$ u+ G) f2 t用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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' J( }1 d$ F# U0 w* o! C這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
2 H% @& ?" s2 p$ T/ c7 ?6 W唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
+ J  M; m8 ~$ c) t' M  K有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:; j& t& q; w9 D# I: e6 L
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
* E/ L: R0 e( o4 Lb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
9 h  G4 b/ j' o7 E2 |, Mc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:
$ }# d9 X, Y' z; QLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....- d/ C7 @, m5 I, G* [) z  t# v
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
8 M) M; r, n- [. ]7 g4 `我會有一種十分空虛的感覺  [3 Y/ A4 I7 D0 ?, ?8 E
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
; n. A6 x/ {, x- K或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～% |: p1 |2 g% x$ O( q% i' a
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
+ g8 D* I1 ]& H/ U* b* u- b: v  M很少會超過一天～
! U1 c. j" q  X8 \, z5 y要期待更好的明天呀！