熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?8 G9 k, @2 ?; m) {4 P
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
) G! [3 W1 f5 f  V* j琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心4 y$ y# _' v2 h) y
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣# C  Q9 [! a# q5 Z9 C
覺得好空虛( @0 o  V0 L; R$ r/ v! m: }4 v; |
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
- c# _3 M, G3 p; @' {0 n* F; Y卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己% L7 K$ I, j' m
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?9 [( u* k. \- @! u% L. I' a4 D4 ~
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,7 r% }; Y2 P$ h8 X6 Y
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
1 K- t' Z* i$ \- V( [- h, M$ Z! t( p熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
: `+ C6 Z; |) Z" ~8 y6 g( T所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,9 K0 x, W2 U. A+ a& K$ P# ~
日日有車站,
* W7 z) Z( B) G& X) \! v有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
. [8 `* f6 n- l5 Y1 N你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:/ j; Z' W  m$ _
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

7 ], S) ~1 M* ]2 ?. Q  N8 |. I% d我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶." I. A2 ]9 V4 P" @1 r  F
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..6 W7 v; F1 F4 e: e; R9 s, m) Q
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
% Z+ {* q3 O! n總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
6 D' V( @  m1 t1 Q4 {" K其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,: ~+ ?2 A8 Q  u, A  O' Z
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,) s1 s5 W9 N8 }* q  {0 w" v
日日有車站,
3 ?4 I0 S6 u7 \! Z9 r有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
1 c7 E  p+ h. K如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
% C! f9 t4 D! ?2 N( S- B' E2 R好唔鍾意呢種感覺
% y! L7 n% ]+ X1 `: @$ ]- G! w琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
' z5 O, a3 _1 d6 b4 E2 w2 `個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
: c9 ^- |5 Q: o6 l- o覺得好空虛
! ]" X9 K6 D( m% e  z: N4 @其實早幾次都有試過係咁
: \. x5 G* M; p: `5 {卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己+ k9 _6 F' K/ }; V$ R  E
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.( p( g" _6 Q; c( q! H" i2 l  m% @- N+ v1 @
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足." j0 k" q8 T% j; n2 v. V
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.1 |+ M6 }+ a# s6 V2 i

7 U  z" W6 e, }6 c/ N9 b( h  oPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
& i( g3 U( e& L3 G/ M2 Na) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
" w, j& M2 D& J7 w& ?2 E) Qb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.: V8 k  h! l/ E+ r9 D, y% ^; w
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.2 }% I6 S! T+ o3 z, }4 G& I

, L* P  q! y" N/ q, I) @Just another thought on lonliness:# a7 H+ ^. b; y9 Z0 G' A4 w9 R" K
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
% t. Q2 r. j' r' R. [6 }3 U4 EBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～6 w' K( ?: W% s9 \  B6 `8 q
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
5 B' H* U& M- t2 d3 Q$ V; h就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
! V$ @2 X* [# M或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～2 ]: m3 T& a7 Y7 _7 h6 M
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
/ [) |& N$ |$ c6 b& ?5 J很少會超過一天～
( O9 L3 \5 g4 k6 f- u要期待更好的明天呀！