熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
  B* c; X& m) |5 S' z6 @$ M好唔鍾意呢種感覺
0 `! |  h- B# C% _* U琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
! D2 D7 q9 ^, q# X- k" L( x; F, N個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣* ?- D3 d6 F7 K0 }- m
覺得好空虛
) y9 X/ x' {# P/ B0 \其實早幾次都有試過係咁; V* R9 J, T9 P, M
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己: G' q& A5 |* Z
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?0 e; w1 e, L7 S2 G  Q- A" A& J
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
0 B: |/ ^, r4 C' ^& t) R但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
+ _* l7 t- @3 ^8 a. I熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,; f1 w9 y" j5 A
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,0 u* m# F( F$ K0 Q2 o
日日有車站,/ T) U+ i$ y% h
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
4 w3 T0 H) O; h! {4 g2 }+ A你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
) n$ \- b+ l4 \如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.! V1 C1 ~. D; w8 h" f
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..) F9 V, R; C. m9 a
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.+ j8 g' U% Q/ S6 y7 e
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
  K/ f! h. E3 v+ }9 ~其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
9 W+ r0 P/ o% b" E所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,8 d' ]1 g, J1 |) L$ @
日日有車站,/ y/ K6 d: C. }, V3 f4 u) A
有目標!

* x. j3 X* r7 Owhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:$ |  V8 s/ |0 Y) _- m2 g6 K& \
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
! X& D* e) I( }/ m/ |+ }5 [/ ?好唔鍾意呢種感覺% k5 Z* K& a9 y4 j4 v* g& e
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
* E7 e" C- Z4 o* O' `+ ~( @個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
4 ]$ O0 o# ^) g$ I% d9 M% Y6 c覺得好空虛- v! c% D3 T* b2 V; Z% j8 `1 H- u/ f1 z# l
其實早幾次都有試過係咁# G  _; Z% \" Y
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
6 @# W; r& S; i/ ^! y1 H用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?. w! X% [8 Q9 ]- b7 v0 A& B! E5 P

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.9 ~1 G! H  D. ]4 ~: b, b2 x
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
$ _, a) h- @( Z0 M0 k# ~7 m有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.) O; F2 _- Y9 ]" @

/ h/ A  h. K; ?8 N9 ~- EPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
! m7 k2 A$ [% sa) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
7 x3 d0 I8 a8 R) M: f8 U& d' vb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
, g  {8 W! G; M2 ^4 r! T- B8 }" @c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:$ C- ~+ p, s8 @4 ]
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
9 ^9 Z0 ]8 A$ P8 B0 s0 e9 _9 nBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～; g) o0 ~* @# M$ ]1 P6 ^& b' G
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
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或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
" A, i- S+ z6 q# @空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉, j8 E4 ]$ @/ {1 a: V
很少會超過一天～
; k7 n* o  a  m( I6 g要期待更好的明天呀！