熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
) }5 q4 c, [; J/ k: W好唔鍾意呢種感覺  y. Q, L' P4 G
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心- u; F& o4 S$ e' B" Y6 f" Q' a) d
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
4 U8 k6 E/ q1 k覺得好空虛
2 J& u. g4 e! ^/ R: d其實早幾次都有試過係咁
# I' v& d3 N  g% n6 r% ], N' Q卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己( D$ r! o" W% L) L
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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( w# L3 y# B0 ]5 ~& R9 Z[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,' c- t/ }8 z1 |2 X
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺1 ^+ o  F5 v- V, G5 y! p# e+ X
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
/ s0 k# m1 E- ~% a' V所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,5 H5 {( }1 h6 ]8 M: @3 W' z- `
日日有車站,
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taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
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markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
" `$ [/ y( R. I5 ]. d如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.# D6 \. k9 N$ ?8 d3 P; L
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..6 O$ ^+ d& S7 N: i# L" {* `
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.: y, k& c" z6 y6 W" v* `, |
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:# s8 Q- D: c) {. o7 L: P. V: x
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,2 |- T) q7 V* \# I+ n/ a$ t
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,* l1 G$ _+ V" v: d+ @$ Y) t* p
日日有車站,
; r7 W& @; ^  k/ W& l有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
; @: b+ r* R+ R1 s2 E如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?, f" ]" k; j) d. w. P2 }  s* P
好唔鍾意呢種感覺9 l& L/ y( S5 g2 N, T: M! J3 Q
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心% m) G: M) ~" Z4 ]' d/ E6 Z
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
4 Q5 N' M4 `& e覺得好空虛
! o; l- ^! F1 W2 O# E' n其實早幾次都有試過係咁
' u& |2 g; E# q$ G. B1 l卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己$ v$ c8 K7 b9 j9 X! K4 o
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?6 f& @' S. a+ f! A, G6 P

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.- E7 z& Y  r; \" M% x
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.; J) G: @( \- R5 L0 Y9 g
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
, U3 u( E3 N5 I1 a( ^a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
6 U7 Z, z5 i, S2 ]b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone." T  _- R: f" f  _: N
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:5 q: ~2 {# c' i) q9 M2 c9 i
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
9 A8 X; q7 b" l( |But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
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就好似睇完一套好睇的電影( u: g; H* ~2 Q/ y6 u% M: M
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
6 m' t5 K& |! ~2 p. m& f空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
0 u) F+ m% i! I7 i' w很少會超過一天～
: R& a  N% i. I! F要期待更好的明天呀！