熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?/ `% `) Z( J& Y( [9 q  x% I4 _
好唔鍾意呢種感覺5 ?& b& O. s& j; A
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
9 G( b: t5 W1 `& l7 m個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
! J& ?: d1 F3 B0 R' r! S, |7 F% {, E$ t5 b覺得好空虛
% T; n6 Q7 e; C% j$ P4 t其實早幾次都有試過係咁
5 u/ L$ T- t, V) g卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己8 n4 o1 n2 `9 X  s
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?' h+ ~+ w  W2 l

+ H. {9 p; S2 M- q! }! u( O0 W1 z8 o9 b[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,/ }5 b' S; ^: Y7 M
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
6 G- I3 z; i8 k- Z7 K& `" w2 {" x熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
# g! M1 j2 r2 E所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
; \. S( R8 B  C7 J' B  ?$ F5 q' J3 ^日日有車站,, n+ }! W9 }8 k/ D
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙; W/ u, |  O1 s( \0 |
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:6 y9 m& z' g. E4 W; T2 A# ^/ P
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

1 Y! `- b% B+ d2 c我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.0 T+ R. `0 K2 J. H: [6 e, t7 J3 a
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
) w0 C! r! B$ {( w2 Y" N; f玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.; K" U3 Y* x: ~; I4 |
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:2 U# B9 H+ S# d, d  f
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,) |2 F0 o6 W) ?$ I0 n9 Q7 Z
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,) F" d( ]. L, V4 Z9 J% x
日日有車站,
3 J1 g5 J; x  K- X/ K& B有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
8 I7 x6 e5 x3 l8 q6 g$ ~3 \4 U如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
* F- i) |. X& u9 ]好唔鍾意呢種感覺
: d  K0 s  N+ {* G) O! V# p琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心# h; B5 l+ q3 b  O) U! M' A. ]0 O
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
1 S4 Z8 [% M) [' Z1 s: T1 G( ]覺得好空虛  v# C/ _% B2 I' o4 G' c
其實早幾次都有試過係咁7 y" {6 n( [: R# `7 ?6 ^6 U3 ~+ y
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己+ j1 W+ _! T) ]* b1 W3 e
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?, I) I8 j' w$ p4 }" p& m3 T

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4 `: B, u7 O: l4 O$ ?' h這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.7 v0 j- m7 Q0 \0 A  X4 P
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
3 X( m/ y# S7 @, L有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.  r7 s1 J4 I% [5 S3 {1 g
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
; Q! j3 w- g: _) Q& Oa) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long2 {. ]* s: P$ o! v( W, G* z5 X
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.; {7 G/ t* V9 W& U
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.3 N2 c, E8 d& m) w

% Q8 c! V3 D( Z% t& W# V. MJust another thought on lonliness:! s. z  G5 H7 R1 R
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....* a% @! @# L! A& A/ [
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
+ e) y, }' s+ j" }我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
- F' n# N0 e$ x: y; X7 W就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
1 }, W# d6 S! b8 z( y, v或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～0 M6 h5 D$ S* g# o, L( h: [
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉, T- K- n5 m, i% N
很少會超過一天～, c) k4 Q& p5 S+ C' c0 b. T
要期待更好的明天呀！