熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
* _% C5 `8 v( D好唔鍾意呢種感覺& G$ p- _9 D: }6 l6 E/ `
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心* W+ }8 ^' X/ U" l9 ?& M
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣' t1 w1 t) a9 }6 c8 j% u
覺得好空虛
" ?5 f# r4 u! T( z) w; w4 `8 n其實早幾次都有試過係咁
' z# `4 |9 P* @卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己& l' k5 F8 L2 Z" [1 B1 \
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?$ m2 }1 K  n, i! S4 t+ m! a+ K
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,9 x. j0 h1 p  g4 n" k! E
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
8 \4 I* d" I5 ]7 E8 l6 H# v2 V熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
5 i) }% A4 B4 D1 _8 E1 f# I) z所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,$ t. P- }( R/ G* S% q. L
日日有車站,
3 N+ m; L# l8 w4 L& s) h0 g有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙1 K. F2 v$ [7 i" Z/ p/ G5 l
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
8 n4 a0 k" z- _) [; Z1 Y; n% q如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
, a9 e6 _$ y# P& t/ c4 Z9 f感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..( C5 U; L; Y. X
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.) @+ ~7 h2 L/ @. j* `
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
  @1 Q! K7 ^3 y. }6 k/ z其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,. H1 V/ v1 z& w: u( C- H& M
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
, ]+ B+ ?+ j/ S  p日日有車站,$ ^% S& S; Z7 k4 P* C+ u
有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
6 v" l2 u9 q! s1 B+ N7 t如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?) f8 Q- T9 s3 l8 V8 s6 j8 x- v  G* l
好唔鍾意呢種感覺' M5 }; S5 }) S& p
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心& u. j' X+ C* U- J( F2 P* p% n( H+ L' V! }
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
: Y+ [, {4 H1 J! Z. c8 J% T覺得好空虛1 k3 Q* l- [8 K6 h; Z. M4 S2 c+ P
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
/ k2 h8 q" N4 p0 l; J9 X1 E0 t! X卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己4 z2 m# k  B$ u' [8 {+ w! I
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
) f( A: {6 E4 Y唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
0 P% ?+ r* }7 ~0 E+ R) w  ^有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:- r. s6 k  `) u. \3 V
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
8 L# ]. _" n# z) Z* f* T: vb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
- o7 h. c3 b7 ]. v8 ^& Pc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:: Y# q+ l, t  n! l  B
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
1 I3 W" ~" }$ [- @But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～0 z! I* V' e: `# |* m# R
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
4 f& D: b4 h" E  i. c; @/ U. N就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
% h; |1 T! n$ c  O  A或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～1 g' m. j, Y: B) ?: {* K& t
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
; [. j: g+ C, A4 q很少會超過一天～, f  D' \$ \+ Q/ C
要期待更好的明天呀！