熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?: o. @4 K3 y( Z- }, d
好唔鍾意呢種感覺9 G$ e4 [% b' t; Q
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
) @, p! L* l- h/ i8 d2 m個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣) v  l; w4 C6 Q9 ]. r: ^
覺得好空虛' w" j9 B, Y/ q9 l$ R
其實早幾次都有試過係咁' ?# b# L: h& r/ m0 C
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
. e9 `; L, G. {, Z) W6 V$ v, _用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?" |  B' H9 T9 g6 C/ I) O

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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,* |1 @9 w0 c: o+ e$ n: o
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
+ _- t% s" s- E4 Y1 @熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
$ L/ q7 r% @! Q% I所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,% ~7 J  P: |8 f
日日有車站,
) |8 u  p0 E0 C6 Q; C! |有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
- `# V2 R2 e5 R( O$ p' F: d你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
  k0 _3 Y3 W3 L0 e& L1 n6 E+ @# t如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

5 N$ V" r' N1 I5 F5 n. U我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
# N1 t* |, V! z: g5 a) [感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
  P5 y- o. x7 Q; F: }玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.9 r1 H5 E1 X" B* \+ [
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
+ M1 h9 F- E5 I' S3 V1 f9 @其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
' |; H$ b: U. Y) x所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
* W" }' q/ j# b日日有車站,, B! `+ `) C* y/ k
有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
) p9 y; y  U4 d, _* g如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
( E* Y3 c- g7 D8 X0 C! ?好唔鍾意呢種感覺4 N  Y0 f) Y8 `5 q1 X6 P- g
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心, I% E. _  i# o4 w. C' I* k
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
% H3 ?: x! n8 N( p5 s覺得好空虛
2 G' L7 L) s  c其實早幾次都有試過係咁
  U* D6 Y2 u, ]% m3 H7 C卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己8 D% j5 Y4 j( G. E3 v3 G
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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( N9 q7 |3 O( r+ K' B5 Z& ^8 ~( n這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.( I# H0 Y, Q. O7 U3 E
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.$ s& i* x! i" ]/ f, e, @2 V
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own./ f# h% q' z: f/ R9 W# o
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
" Z- u3 f  r# q0 N' D, `% M# Wa) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
4 `: j: e1 q- V7 p$ ?/ V/ F& hb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
2 a3 T6 E/ d1 r$ b  P! s3 ]c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.3 ~7 l0 u, X1 H

0 r7 o. S, D! ]/ M; tJust another thought on lonliness:* R  |1 {" w( x2 H+ x
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....# |3 p1 V5 ]5 w* _+ `' f% q: ^
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～  _9 k/ k4 A. z6 R, M; C
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
! i4 A- X) [! Q; }# l就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
7 e0 ?( J8 o& a5 u% p6 Y或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
5 Y" |4 T. S# W, L空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉" Y4 @/ b( v/ F/ `1 T; b
很少會超過一天～
" g0 |8 |7 f% I- `) x要期待更好的明天呀！