處女重要 ma?

artta

Don't understand why people only would care if his Gf are 處女 or not, never heard of any people would consider is that boy are 處 or not, i mean they are basically the same thing...

People doesn't match each other so they break up, then is 處女 really that big deal?

I mean is that mean that, once you have sex with that person then you should stay with him or she forever?, and boys please now think more clearly about 處女 or not 處女, if you really think 處女is that important, then please do not dump any girl in your life, once you have sex with her ..

Last thing is if 處女is 重要 then i think  virginaty for guy are same important too, please don;t have sex with any girl be4 you marry then...

For personal opion, people who always focus on 處女 are just people who aim for sex but not for love...

artta

I do agree on what you saying in terms of there is no absolute "Fair and equality", but however, Why only boys got the right to ask or requies for a virgin girl, in the other hand, Mean virgin girl always have to be more pure or even better that a non-virgin?

Can anybody explain the perspective of pure ? is that mean a girl who had sex must but see as a second choice for life?

I do agree on people might "prefer" to have a virgin GF, but what i mean is, why do people have to judge girls or indentify girls with virgin or not virgin to show her purity?

Moreover, it is true that guys are the active one who take action so then that, why would people blame on the girls about that they are non- virgin...

>>>>通常都要有上進心, 夠穩重, 最好smart過自己等等
咁我想問下呢d野同LOVE有乜關系先?
The different is, those things is the involvement of personality, not like virginality, that virginality have nothing to do with personality, and also viriginality is something already been done that things could not be change... but 通常都要有上進心, 夠穩重, this is all about the personality of a MAN...

Girls judge guys from the personality, but guys judge with body??
so what it show is GUYS going for "sex" more than Love...

The reason i am writting all this SHIX, is because this days in EF, there is more and more Guys looking down women like that...

I really don;t agree that guys always feel themselves have better right to judge girls like that, they don;t even know how to respect love or even respect women, please before you guys make anymore judgement on girls, do say something mroe make sense, stop going around with the topic "Virgin"...

No matter you ppl agree or not, Weather Virgin or non- virgin, doesn;t effect how pure the girl is... Mostly could say , you guys have responsiblities...

In the same way, Drug seller have no right to judge Drug user...

[ Last edited by artta on 2006-1-4 at 01:07 AM ]

樂壇渣Fit人

Originally posted by artta at 2006-1-4 01:00:
I do agree on what you saying in terms of there is no absolute "Fair and equality", but however, Why only boys got the right to ask or requies for a virgin girl, in the other hand, Mean virgin girl always have to be more pure or even better that a non-virgin?

Can anybody explain the perspective of pure ? is that mean a girl who had sex must but see as a second choice for life?

I do agree on people might "prefer" to have a virgin GF, but what i mean is, why do people have to judge girls or indentify girls with virgin or not virgin to show her purity?

Moreover, it is true that guys are the active one who take action so then that, why would people blame on the girls about that they are non- virgin...

>>>>通常都要有上進心, 夠穩重, 最好smart過自己等等
咁我想問下呢d野同LOVE有乜關系先?
The different is, those things is the involvement of personality, not like virginality, that virginality have nothing to do with personality, and also viriginality is something already been done that things could not be change... but 通常都要有上進心, 夠穩重, this is all about the personality of a MAN...

Girls judge guys from the personality, but guys judge with body??
so what it show is GUYS going for "sex" more than Love...

The reason i am writting all this SHIX, is because this days in EF, there is more and more Guys looking down women like that...

I really don;t agree that guys always feel themselves have better right to judge girls like that, they don;t even know how to respect love or even respect women, please before you guys make anymore judgement on girls, do say something mroe make sense, stop going around with the topic "Virgin"...

No matter you ppl agree or not, Weather Virgin or non- virgin, doesn;t effect how pure the girl is... Mostly could say , you guys have responsiblities...

In the same way, Drug seller have no right to judge Drug user...

回頭翻睇又見同一個觀點講「多」次
真係....唉....



>>Why only boys got the right to ask or requies for a virgin girl, in the other hand, Mean virgin girl always have to be more pure or even better that a non-virgin?

大佬 / 大姐呀, 依家呢個社會無人用枝槍指住d女仔唔係處就要做尼姑
同樣唔係「全部」男性都係「一定」要自己個gf係處先安落
你仍然可以選一d自己同一理念既男仔
同樣個班只想自己條女係處既人, 一樣有權去選擇自己既伴侶

你咁鍾意問點解
咁二元論
咁我問你啦, 憑乜野你覺得non-virgin 會「pure」過 virgin先?
個男仔又唔知頭唔知路
又唔知個女仔history
咁好自然期待個女仔係處架啦
咁如果係處, 直d講句衰極都叫未插過呀, 係咪?!!
當然你可以話一個「好好心地」不過「性經驗豐富」既女仔都係好女仔
不過唔係個個男仔都識欣賞囉
梗莫講岩岩新相識個種啦, 下化?!!



>>Can anybody explain the perspective of pure ? is that mean a girl who had sex must but see as a second choice for life?

點解要咁大貪
成日去諗住改變其他人
點解唔有d自信
相信呢個世界一定會有欣賞自己既人存在?

如果下下人地點諗
就覺得「全世界」都係咁
咁唔只係戀愛
無論做人做事
都唔會成功

如果覺得人地講幾句就當真
上哂心
咁我覺得你唔適合拍拖
結局只會累人累己

唔好期望乜野都要求人地100%解畫
無人欠左你
人生係你自己既
要自己悟出真理先叫得著
人云亦云又何來領悟?!!



>>I do agree on people might "prefer" to have a virgin GF, but what i mean is, why do people have to judge girls or indentify girls with virgin or not virgin to show her purity?

上面答左


>>Moreover, it is true that guys are the active one who take action so then that, why would people blame on the girls about that they are non- virgin...

關乜事?
你係咪問到亂哂??
我話男仔做主動同班人厭棄女仔唔係處有乜關系???
真係攪到我都暈埋...




>>The different is, those things is the involvement of personality, not like virginality, that virginality have nothing to do with personality, and also viriginality is something already been done that things could not be change... but 通常都要有上進心, 夠穩重, this is all about the personality of a MAN...
Girls judge guys from the personality, but guys judge with body??
so what it show is GUYS going for "sex" more than Love...

真係好笑啦
女仔睇男仔「事業背景」就叫personality
男仔睇女仔「外表」就叫naive (你無咁講不過都差唔多意思架啦, right?!!)
大姐大大呀, 知唔知乜野叫各取所需呀
有人鍾意生活安定, 鍾意唔駛煩日後生活先有資格去「愛」
有人鍾意個男仔乜都就自己先叫「愛」佢
有人鍾意個男仔每日有新花臣先叫「愛」佢
咁又叫做「true love」啦喎?!!
每個人都有權去選擇自己既擇偶條件
你有, 我有, 大家都有
憑乜野覺得外表睇人就代表唔係LOVE
乜野係LOVE?
乜有統一標准架咩?!!




>>The reason i am writting all this SHIX, is because this days in EF, there is more and more Guys looking down women like that...
I really don;t agree that guys always feel themselves have better right to judge girls like that, they don;t even know how to respect love or even respect women, please before you guys make anymore judgement on girls, do say something mroe make sense, stop going around with the topic "Virgin"...

每一個壇都有佢既特色
你係一個女仔壇, 會睇到好多怨婦係到吊班男人
又話要求乜乜物物
你入去一個男性壇, 會睇到好多女人性感相, even AV相, 好多性topic
係咁既環境你唔係想同大家講「道德經」呀化?

我個人贊同女性係應該值得尊重
但唔代表EF多人係咁講班女, 就代表「全部男人」都係咁樣
「make sense」與否「唔」係用general rule to apply on individual case





>>No matter you ppl agree or not, Weather Virgin or non- virgin, doesn;t effect how pure the girl is... Mostly could say , you guys have responsiblities...
In the same way, Drug seller have no right to judge Drug user...

呵呵....你講埋個point「Drug seller have no right to judge Drug user」
唔覺得你自相矛盾咩?!!

女仔著mini-skirt出街, 明星打個胸俾你睇, 刻意走光等等
唔係都係為左show-off, 吸引男仔目光?!!
唔通天寒地凍貪涼爽?!!!!
其他野我無謂去得咁盡
你自己諗清楚先再回我吧啦


[OT]
如果連呢d都睇唔開, 點過人世?
人生本來就係要係「現存」既人為制度下尋找「自己」既幸福
如果女仔覺得唔通, 咁咪去做囉
又無話唔俾一個有性經驗既女仔嫁一個處男, right?
問題係你點去選擇
而唔係由人地把口去代你選擇~

Rika

Originally posted by artta at 2006-1-3 11:35 PM:
Don't understand why people only wo...

各有需要，唔洗咁激動
樂生都應該解答晒你所有問題，唔好太執著喇

機密

自古幾多戰爭、家庭慘案都關處女事，何以不重要？！

neitly

對男仔黎講,唔係太重要.
但對女仔黎講係好重要,重好寶貴tim...

artta

I think there is some mis leading under this topic...

I am trying to convince people not to emphsis the Important of "Virgin"

The main idea from me is to try to tell GUYS to respeat lady on the first point...

Secondly, is to question about GUYS judgement on girls ::::: " Why the hell they always talk about "Virgin""?, I totally agree on people would have their own requirement on others, but is it more possible to pick girls with their personality but less focusing on the word "Virgin"? , i am not picking or focusing on any of you guys...

Just feel sad about how guys always talks about virgin or non-virgin, cause it seems like virgin represented all...


樂壇渣Fit人 not trying to argue with you, please understand...

The reason i wrote all this, is becuase of one of the post from before, forgot from which page, but it is about how lady have no right to bargin with guys, because they are not virgin...

Lastly, Please understand that " no matter virgin or not, please judge people deeply inside, try when you see girls, not firstly thought or sex"...

Thank you

KKBoy

小弟英文唔好～
睇唔明你地ｄ野ｌａ～
只可以係到講～
你同一個你鍾意ｇｅ女仔拍拖～
而唔係同一快處女膜拍拖～
係鍾意的，
就算個女仔好老，好樣衰，心地好差．．．．．．．．．．．．．
就算佢一萬樣唔好你都會鍾意佢～
愛係冇眼ｋａｒ～

artta

KKBoy , totally agree with you...

siredes

樂兄以上所講o既o野勁有Point!
呢個世界應該係講自由o既, 每個人都有屬於自己o既擇偶條件.
我其實係幾在意自己條女係咪處o架, 但我唔覺得自己有乜o野問題囉, 因為呢D係我o既自由, 關其他人咩事?

不過我都好清楚知道:

處女唔一定係好女仔, 好女仔唔一定係處女