Originally posted by playbr2 at 2006-10-18 05:39 AM:
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突然而來既事,當然好難講幫吾幫得上忙,不過非一朝一夕既事,如果攞出黎傾下,或者慢慢會有轉機...........情況就好似電車男追女仔一樣(樂觀).........咁當然,我地最多最多都只係做下軍師,比下意見........而且解鈴還須繫鈴人,就算現實上都有好多問題,難以由第二個人出手代替自己解決問題........所以咩叫真實朋友,咩叫虛擬朋友都冇分別...只在於真實既朋友你可以摸到、見到、掌握到,而令你信心大D,安全感高D.........但幫吾幫得上忙又另一回事,好難講話一定得
Originally posted by playbr2 at 2006-10-18 06:02 AM:2 e4 m$ z6 z! z0 ]
補多句:處理一般問題&非一般問題
用問題解決問題,並不是問題,因為問題已經解決,但多數有手尾,但D人多數一貫都係咁做.7 o# ?9 r) A3 a4 }, `, h
但用問題之外既問題去解決問題,結果問題會越变複雜,但卻會出現前所未有既轉機,雖然吉凶難喻,但總比墨守成規好.; g8 @8 m7 l' Y; q3 f* I
故事:墨子長於守城,又因為墨家思想係兼愛﹑非攻,當佢聽到楚國想造雲梯攻打宋國時,就去楚國搵造雲梯既公輸般模擬戰咁較高下(公輸般攻,墨子守),結果公輸般諗極辦法都贏唔到墨子。最後想殺左墨子,點知墨子話,你殺左我,仲有千千萬萬墨家子弟。
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 10:31 AM:6 T# E0 Y& R: R3 y9 }7 T9 ]
呢個係一個殘忍ge 事實﹐但我都會覺得換個角度黎講﹐o個d 有形有體ge frds 都未必touch 到ur heart ... 雖然話如果現實中未必真正幫到大家﹐但係我諗如果幫得手ge 都會儘量去幫lor… 呢d 係限制… 係一d 冇辦法ge 事!8 z/ G& O9 `9 a j& y% A
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不過如果唔係呢d限制﹐我地又點會係網上面玩得咁放呢? 因為冇形體有可能會令人與人之間完全冇利益衝突﹐所以先隔膜冇咁大… 呢個係我ge 睇法 … 所以都係珍惜大家就好……
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-18 12:19 PM:
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Quoted from Playbr2
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Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-18 12:16 PM:
我成日都有呢種感覺:
覺得大家日日...
Originally posted by 12d3 at 2006-10-18 12:42 PM:) ~& \7 |- H& ^ |' A
很在於每個人對朋友的定義.2 C: \. |( x7 O4 S4 c, ?7 |
面對網上的朋友, 往往能夠暢所欲言. 你不想給他們知道的, 他們便不會知道, 不用刻意提防.
你認為這是朋友嗎?
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 12:49 PM:+ z B( H0 K) q, S4 H8 m
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i guess it's quoted from trista_cheong?
Originally posted by gn00987333 at 2006-10-18 01:07 PM:0 j3 e) h2 d, n1 l( n
最起碼我都當你地係真正既朋友
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明就明,唔明就算
Originally posted by gn00987333 at 2006-10-18 01:07 PM:( \: o ]6 c3 K8 j+ S
最起碼我都當你地係真正既朋友
我要講既只有咁多
Originally posted by 左輪仔 at 2006-10-18 03:16 PM:
當然有啦,雖然而家我少左上黎,
不過...
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 15:23:
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你走o左幾耐個個都隨時歡迎你返黎la 左仔~~
Originally posted by 左輪仔 at 2006-10-18 03:34 PM:5 k5 o" @ l' D* M, I1 r* P
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聽到呢句說話,真係有d感動
Originally posted by playbr2 at 2006-10-18 03:49 PM:
我係指真實生活上既朋友,有事揾人幫,你都會先揾佢地.因為你可以見到佢地,咁做起事上黎你會信心大D,因為你可以摸到佢地所以安全感高D,.........但其實,幫吾幫得上忙又另一回事.......而且,反問一句,你對生活上既朋友又有幾深了解,你能踏足他們的內心深處嗎??6 A8 s ?7 f) d ~, h8 L, F
至於,上網既朋友係虛擬性質的,因為在日常生活上我們未必真正影響到你/控制你........而表面上大家沒有身份地位區別,所以可暢所欲言,講一D平時未必同人講既野(秘密、私隱、赤裸裸的''性''),........但實質上你我双方都有不能越過的防火牆,就好似你既個人資料,身份利益等等............如果知得太詳細,玩得太投入,变左真實朋友,大家就會不其然地想控制/影響對方,咁暢所欲言的空間就會消失........因為虛擬朋友你不能摸透,所以會覺得他們在真正有事時幫不上忙.......但其實在心靈上,他們是唯一可以透達你內心痛處既知己........
有一句諷剌既說話,日間上你我是勢不兩立的仇人,晚上(上網)卻成為惺惺相惜的知己
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 02:58 PM:4 r( g/ b* B; l) A. a# O4 V1 U- }; l( W5 C
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做咩gn囡突然串o左咁多呀?
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 02:58 PM:: {4 {' x, D) {1 k2 i5 L
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做咩gn囡突然串o左咁多呀?
Originally posted by benson00 at 2006-10-18 09:46 PM:
大家萍水相逢,岩傾咪講多句,唔會唸做唔做到朋友。4 E7 p2 `4 d I/ P) A, {+ l
就算傾得好投契,都只係網上虛擬。
識朋友都係要係現實世界中,一齊相處過、覺得投緣、變friend,才是正路
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-18 10:34 PM:
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呢d 只可能係一般網友在一般論壇的想法
但你知唔知 26FUN 比其它論壇優勝地方
因為26FUN內 d 網友 ! q; e7 y5 S' Q: [8 z o7 V5 n
雙對黎講,
比較成熟,
交流比較深入
因此雙對關系都比較一般論壇d網友關系密切
Originally posted by playbr2 at 2006-10-18 11:15 PM:$ r& F* }( @3 K# R. Y- M9 h8 {
点關系密切先,Tri姐姐我都未見過你盧山真面目
Originally posted by gn00987333 at 2006-10-18 05:51 PM:7 }/ U5 L" a/ Q2 @" p
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因為我變左超正常所以我講野原全唔會理人感受
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-19 01:05 AM:6 D/ x6 j7 j% k! i. ?$ r1 k: e2 ^- A
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以前有幾個網友
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一個傻左,
一個都冇見過佢返過黎
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 15:23:
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你走o左幾耐個個都隨時歡迎你返黎la 左仔~~
Originally posted by BOYDWAN at 2006-10-19 01:23 AM:" n; }8 r9 q% R3 [3 S
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trista 講出我心底話!
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加分!個個都加分!
唔理版主定會員都加分!
相比一份緣份一份交情,呢d 分算得係乜?
小小心意而已~
Originally posted by pkbrian at 2006-10-18 07:58 PM:
講真啦, k* v2 U: K2 O( H& } h
我係網上面一向用心去識朋友^^
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但至少識每一個人都係一樣^^
Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-19 10:16 PM:
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以心待人,以誠待人...
Originally posted by 自由神 at 2006-10-20 01:24 PM:) M* E5 k) Q& `0 q
講真句!友情?唔會有!
朋友往往係一個幫助你成功既工具!; F0 Y" Z l& x7 Z# u. _
我俾人出賣過..........所以唔好怪我直接!, `/ Z$ p: e( |% Y
你對人好!你地未必對你好!
Originally posted by 自由神 at 2006-10-20 01:24 PM:- N4 ?/ M: j. E1 }) N
講真句!友情?唔會有!3 y1 K6 q& B8 w, p/ `+ D
朋友往往係一個幫助你成功既工具!! J3 E5 a% X0 K/ x/ P% b5 ^
我俾人出賣過..........所以唔好怪我直接!
你對人好!你地未必對你好!
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-20 11:57 PM:" I9 F3 U8 E1 z0 f# L
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以經濟學黎計算:
保持一段寶貴...
Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-21 12:23 AM:4 t q7 D9 U+ ^# P
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認識朋友的意義各有不同。
如果真系要用。。。經濟學。。。來 作為 認識 朋友 的工具。。: C3 n, o; ^7 e
可能就 要 從最初開始,看看對方是否值得投資了。
要不要再用 投資回報率 計算一下。。是否與自己的投資組合相配?
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-21 01:03 AM:
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當然要,并且十分...
Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-21 01:05 AM:! q* m+ K- d' j7 H# }
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叻女!
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-21 01:08 AM:
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敢網上識朋友你又點睇?
Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-21 01:11 AM:
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駛唔駛 出黎 見面 先?
唔駛 既 話。。。齋吹。。談天說地。。有乜所謂呢。。- I0 K9 B J" e# G/ N. S
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Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-21 01:16 AM:# j9 f9 n2 Q2 d# }8 Z. S
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今晚有時間入黎齋吹下
http://www.26fun.com/bbs/viewthread.php?tid=116775&fpage=1
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-19 05:19 AM:
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多 d 入 [真‧頑童俱樂部] 玩下~
不過我地有時玩得好 "dean" 家播~( A" t& o$ U/ Q# N; i5 p
http://www.26fun.com/bbs/viewthread.php?tid=116775&fpage=1
Originally posted by 自由神 at 2006-10-20 01:24 PM:
講真句!友情?唔會有!
朋友往往係一個幫助你成功既工具!
我俾人出賣過..........所以唔好怪我直接!
你對人好!你地未必對你好!
Originally posted by teramishu at 2006-10-22 11:59 AM:
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自由神[/size...
Originally posted by teramishu at 2006-10-22 11:48 AM:7 E" z0 ~% R% G2 J. V. S# l
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TriTri 有唔有发觉到...
Originally posted by teramishu at 2006-10-22 11:59 AM:" s$ W( R# S1 }; m
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自由神[/size...
Originally posted by iMacc at 2006-10-23 08:54 PM:6 G q0 K$ m$ r+ X, h s" X
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Originally posted by iMacc at 2006-10-23 08:54 PM:
我喺ef都唔算好耐~
發言唔算好多~9 g) ~# N& w# L I
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Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-24 02:47 AM:
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好同意。。5 }, m& ]5 E2 r: ]0 k% A
的而且確,有時候。。
真誠對待他人。反而製造左機會比人“揾自己老襯” ; @' Y* u6 C( B, {/ ?2 \- X
真系“該燴”。
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-24 03:37 AM:3 h/ l$ B1 c& }! H/ ?; ]5 w
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自己醒d未得 law
Originally posted by stanley_ckc at 2006-10-27 12:10 AM:: X v" G4 D+ L. C) Z8 e( k
不過很可惜之後因為一件事令當中有些朋友吵了,這兩年的友誼一夜告吹.......
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一段長時間建立友誼
一夜告吹
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(But the Sad Thing is: It Happen Quite Often To Everyone)
Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-27 02:39 AM:% l- M' D9 S" o- l( f, P) I, I
有時候, 友誼就是這樣。
合久必分,分久必合。
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有時候,唔見面,保持神秘感,8 K9 r* C* z h! ~$ g9 q
大家互相有一種,“彼此不要求” 的 保留心態。5 \( W4 m' k' v; k! q6 _
未嘗不是一個維繫關係的方法。。; F( J4 q9 e- n
Originally posted by ckyckk at 2006-10-27 03:15 AM:0 D) Q6 \+ }( `9 S5 a) u
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不過...
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-27 05:41 AM:
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vv1668vv:
你就比我Lucky啦,
合久必分 我就有一大籮; h3 X* T. x8 j
分久必合 就重未遇過
Originally posted by ckyckk at 2006-10-27 03:15:
當然有啦,雖然而家我少左上黎,
不過...
Originally posted by 左輪仔 at 2006-10-28 12:14 AM:) [/ z6 n) O! r! W! b, h/ G' s
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抄我
Originally posted by ckyckk at 2006-10-28 12:40 AM:
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見係好野先"參考"咋
Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-27 02:39 AM:* \' d8 _' i- y
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很認同
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