
Originally posted by playbr2 at 2006-10-18 05:39 AM:, A% o, ^6 u+ { B9 M4 H1 Y, b8 ]
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突然而來既事,當然好難講幫吾幫得上忙,不過非一朝一夕既事,如果攞出黎傾下,或者慢慢會有轉機...........情況就好似電車男追女仔一樣(樂觀).........咁當然,我地最多最多都只係做下軍師,比下意見........而且解鈴還須繫鈴人,就算現實上都有好多問題,難以由第二個人出手代替自己解決問題........所以咩叫真實朋友,咩叫虛擬朋友都冇分別...只在於真實既朋友你可以摸到、見到、掌握到,而令你信心大D,安全感高D.........但幫吾幫得上忙又另一回事,好難講話一定得
Originally posted by playbr2 at 2006-10-18 06:02 AM:* ]* v# X. V; e
補多句:處理一般問題&非一般問題
用問題解決問題,並不是問題,因為問題已經解決,但多數有手尾,但D人多數一貫都係咁做.
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但用問題之外既問題去解決問題,結果問題會越变複雜,但卻會出現前所未有既轉機,雖然吉凶難喻,但總比墨守成規好.
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故事:墨子長於守城,又因為墨家思想係兼愛﹑非攻,當佢聽到楚國想造雲梯攻打宋國時,就去楚國搵造雲梯既公輸般模擬戰咁較高下(公輸般攻,墨子守),結果公輸般諗極辦法都贏唔到墨子。最後想殺左墨子,點知墨子話,你殺左我,仲有千千萬萬墨家子弟。
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 10:31 AM:# G+ u! ^: H, d' n6 n- s
呢個係一個殘忍ge 事實﹐但我都會覺得換個角度黎講﹐o個d 有形有體ge frds 都未必touch 到ur heart ... 雖然話如果現實中未必真正幫到大家﹐但係我諗如果幫得手ge 都會儘量去幫lor… 呢d 係限制… 係一d 冇辦法ge 事!
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不過如果唔係呢d限制﹐我地又點會係網上面玩得咁放呢? 因為冇形體有可能會令人與人之間完全冇利益衝突﹐所以先隔膜冇咁大… 呢個係我ge 睇法 … 所以都係珍惜大家就好……
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-18 12:19 PM:) f5 J% g/ G+ o- n
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Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-18 12:16 PM:# Q# q* a9 \8 F
我成日都有呢種感覺:
覺得大家日日...
Originally posted by 12d3 at 2006-10-18 12:42 PM:5 t% k0 y, S* z5 E- H
很在於每個人對朋友的定義.
面對網上的朋友, 往往能夠暢所欲言. 你不想給他們知道的, 他們便不會知道, 不用刻意提防.
你認為這是朋友嗎?
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 12:49 PM:. \3 G( J- C v# s- Z6 {8 f
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i guess it's quoted from trista_cheong?
Originally posted by gn00987333 at 2006-10-18 01:07 PM:5 E, T* H* G7 k
最起碼我都當你地係真正既朋友
我要講既只有咁多
明就明,唔明就算
Originally posted by gn00987333 at 2006-10-18 01:07 PM:
最起碼我都當你地係真正既朋友2 d* L4 A- f C! B0 k/ h
我要講既只有咁多

Originally posted by 左輪仔 at 2006-10-18 03:16 PM:: P4 a& E! e9 b' ?6 F
當然有啦,雖然而家我少左上黎,
不過...
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 15:23:4 h6 f! D- D) n3 I, e
ef 係講心﹐唔係講金!
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你走o左幾耐個個都隨時歡迎你返黎la 左仔~~![]()
Originally posted by 左輪仔 at 2006-10-18 03:34 PM:% E( G( C- {0 V1 \: n# d
聽到呢句說話,真係有d感動![]()
Originally posted by playbr2 at 2006-10-18 03:49 PM:$ b+ @# [( w9 ]. N2 \) I
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我係指真實生活上既朋友,有事揾人幫,你都會先揾佢地.因為你可以見到佢地,咁做起事上黎你會信心大D,因為你可以摸到佢地所以安全感高D,.........但其實,幫吾幫得上忙又另一回事.......而且,反問一句,你對生活上既朋友又有幾深了解,你能踏足他們的內心深處嗎??
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至於,上網既朋友係虛擬性質的,因為在日常生活上我們未必真正影響到你/控制你........而表面上大家沒有身份地位區別,所以可暢所欲言,講一D平時未必同人講既野(秘密、私隱、赤裸裸的''性''),........但實質上你我双方都有不能越過的防火牆,就好似你既個人資料,身份利益等等............如果知得太詳細,玩得太投入,变左真實朋友,大家就會不其然地想控制/影響對方,咁暢所欲言的空間就會消失........因為虛擬朋友你不能摸透,所以會覺得他們在真正有事時幫不上忙.......但其實在心靈上,他們是唯一可以透達你內心痛處既知己........& C; y7 H6 V0 x1 t1 M
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有一句諷剌既說話,日間上你我是勢不兩立的仇人,晚上(上網)卻成為惺惺相惜的知己
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 02:58 PM:
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做咩gn囡突然串o左咁多呀?![]()
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 02:58 PM:% `. B2 f& [& a; p
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做咩gn囡突然串o左咁多呀?![]()

Originally posted by benson00 at 2006-10-18 09:46 PM:
大家萍水相逢,岩傾咪講多句,唔會唸做唔做到朋友。1 Y1 D) z, K2 n2 u
就算傾得好投契,都只係網上虛擬。3 Z& F* | I# t, u( O$ t! _
識朋友都係要係現實世界中,一齊相處過、覺得投緣、變friend,才是正路

Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-18 10:34 PM:
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呢d 只可能係一般網友在一般論壇的想法0 S5 y* e: B) d) v1 z; S; s. W5 s
但你知唔知 26FUN 比其它論壇優勝地方. z. B7 h. N( l: ^. M, K+ a" u
因為26FUN內 d 網友 9 w7 a# h& u* G0 t; U( F; ~/ ]8 y" J
雙對黎講,8 F+ l+ ?' H+ ]
比較成熟,; N- q/ a z+ D$ L( }' G% B
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因此雙對關系都比較一般論壇d網友關系密切
,Tri姐姐


Originally posted by playbr2 at 2006-10-18 11:15 PM:6 [1 R( L- }+ J. l0 j0 V
点關系密切先,Tri姐姐
我都未見過你盧山真面目
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Originally posted by gn00987333 at 2006-10-18 05:51 PM:9 [& F4 U& |/ F
因為我變左超正常所以我講野原全唔會理人感受

Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-19 01:05 AM:
唔好啦,
以前有幾個網友
見過我盧山真面目之後& i9 G; I4 t$ D. H! F. L
一個傻左,
一個都冇見過佢返過黎![]()
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 15:23:, O9 k9 w; K( _6 `6 b+ g
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ef 係講心﹐唔係講金!
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你走o左幾耐個個都隨時歡迎你返黎la 左仔~~![]()
Originally posted by BOYDWAN at 2006-10-19 01:23 AM:- d# H% F1 Y" s' H
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trista 講出我心底話!
加分!個個都加分!) O5 F Y% m; c. x
唔理版主定會員都加分!
相比一份緣份一份交情,呢d 分算得係乜?/ S( ~! }6 @" z8 @9 y
小小心意而已~![]()
Originally posted by pkbrian at 2006-10-18 07:58 PM:9 G" C& a; Q8 t1 V; k. c
講真啦
我係網上面一向用心去識朋友^^
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雖然係ent fun 同大家唔係好熟
又少講野="=
但至少識每一個人都係一樣^^

Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-19 10:16 PM:; F; f/ u2 M0 M+ ?
(小弟的愚見)
以心待人,以誠待人...
Originally posted by 自由神 at 2006-10-20 01:24 PM:+ b! y2 _! N; G9 A
講真句!友情?唔會有!
朋友往往係一個幫助你成功既工具!
我俾人出賣過..........所以唔好怪我直接!
你對人好!你地未必對你好!
Originally posted by 自由神 at 2006-10-20 01:24 PM:
講真句!友情?唔會有!0 g* ?, b- i+ g2 B
朋友往往係一個幫助你成功既工具!" ~( y4 V; Q: t$ | U9 K5 N5 j
我俾人出賣過..........所以唔好怪我直接!
你對人好!你地未必對你好!
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-20 11:57 PM:: x0 S- m) m% L
以經濟學黎計算:
保持一段寶貴...
Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-21 12:23 AM:/ T9 Q1 |/ F9 O. u( K' v* ^
認識朋友的意義各有不同。( B- K' O- [3 e7 @, y* ~0 X
如果真系要用。。。經濟學。。。來 作為 認識 朋友 的工具。。* }6 e6 \+ W# t, A
可能就 要 從最初開始,看看對方是否值得投資了。
要不要再用 投資回報率 計算一下。。是否與自己的投資組合相配?8 u+ e& s# R5 ?8 P
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-21 01:03 AM:; C ~: k2 H/ h( O
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當然要,并且十分...
Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-21 01:05 AM:+ x/ V& Q: w& k0 J1 C
叻女!
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-21 01:08 AM:+ x- N. L6 O* z: l$ I( j
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敢網上識朋友你又點睇?
Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-21 01:11 AM:
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駛唔駛 出黎 見面 先?
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唔駛 既 話。。。齋吹。。談天說地。。有乜所謂呢。。
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[ Last edited by vv1668vv on 2006-10-21 at 01:13 AM ]
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-21 01:16 AM:8 ^' ]) q6 u8 I3 s5 Y) m, |0 P
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今晚有時間入黎齋吹下
http://www.26fun.com/bbs/viewthread.php?tid=116775&fpage=1
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-19 05:19 AM:/ J1 \. z9 D: B
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多 d 入 [真‧頑童俱樂部] 玩下~! A' M5 K- s) Y1 D `: I: J
不過我地有時玩得好 "dean" 家播~
http://www.26fun.com/bbs/viewthread.php?tid=116775&fpage=1
Originally posted by 自由神 at 2006-10-20 01:24 PM:% i: t: S1 f0 i, W; j
講真句!友情?唔會有!
朋友往往係一個幫助你成功既工具!
我俾人出賣過..........所以唔好怪我直接!
你對人好!你地未必對你好!

, [) y' ^8 H5 w0 V \$ w& H4 AOriginally posted by teramishu at 2006-10-22 11:59 AM:
自由神[/size...
Originally posted by teramishu at 2006-10-22 11:48 AM:- L: c4 @5 ~0 q5 U& a5 z3 u( Q
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TriTri 有唔有发觉到...
Originally posted by teramishu at 2006-10-22 11:59 AM:
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自由神[/size...
Originally posted by iMacc at 2006-10-23 08:54 PM:1 e( G7 r4 m# B2 i f3 k
我喺ef都唔算好耐~
發言唔算好多~7 O. _2 B7 s9 T" r% N
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Originally posted by iMacc at 2006-10-23 08:54 PM: D- {; H# G0 ], Y$ r
我喺ef都唔算好耐~
發言唔算好多~" U: H$ h) P) \5 E* i
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Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-24 02:47 AM:+ @+ y' t& f8 u* [
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好同意。。
的而且確,有時候。。! ~- m* j7 d4 S( V# B5 U5 ~8 Q
真誠對待他人。反而製造左機會比人“揾自己老襯”
真系“該燴”。
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-24 03:37 AM:
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自己醒d未得 law


6 ?! Q! j9 y# i5 B" T) u. tOriginally posted by stanley_ckc at 2006-10-27 12:10 AM:3 R; C9 j# e$ U$ x I- i8 v
不過很可惜之後因為一件事令當中有些朋友吵了,這兩年的友誼一夜告吹.......
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-27 02:37 AM:
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一段長時間建立友誼
一夜告吹
這未免太過可惜
(But the Sad Thing is: It Happen Quite Often To Everyone)
Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-27 02:39 AM:
有時候, 友誼就是這樣。( v$ P0 W/ P* X2 W" o0 L. t$ c9 J
合久必分,分久必合。
有時候,唔見面,保持神秘感,& k/ c* k" c* m
大家互相有一種,“彼此不要求” 的 保留心態。
未嘗不是一個維繫關係的方法。。" M6 z% I* }; h5 r% X
Originally posted by ckyckk at 2006-10-27 03:15 AM:2 \/ t# r5 R- {: B/ z
當然有啦,雖然而家我少左上黎,
不過...

Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-27 05:41 AM:
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合久必分 我就有一大籮
分久必合 就重未遇過
Originally posted by ckyckk at 2006-10-27 03:15:& H) B& k; z* X# a; z9 @
當然有啦,雖然而家我少左上黎,
不過...
Originally posted by 左輪仔 at 2006-10-28 12:14 AM:
抄我![]()
Originally posted by ckyckk at 2006-10-28 12:40 AM:; v% H* _9 q# e2 J% }
見係好野先"參考"咋
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Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-27 02:39 AM:
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很認同
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