阿joe有咁多考慮主要原因係因為佢自己太介意自己背景。唔好以為佢從來唔覺得自己有錢,佢其實是知道、並介意自己家境與別人不同的,故此才會這樣想特意不要讓人知道自己「有錢」,介意別人以為自己「喜孤獨」。既然覺得阿恩不是那種只為金錢的人(故阿joe才對之有意思),那為甚麼不坦誠去嘗試交朋友呢?他第一步就做錯了,讓阿恩對阿joe的看法產生一些假象;要建立關係的話,第一步就要先消除這些假象,讓阿恩看到一些誠意罷!至於未來發展……連假象都未消除,現在談論不是來得太早了點嗎?作者: bbbxo 時間: 2007-4-6 09:05 AM
"rich" or "not rich" is not a big matter for the relationship with them. "trust" and "understanding" are the MOST IMPORTANT in every single relationship even for friendship. all the relationship is begun from friendship. why Joe dun ask the 17-year-old girl out for dinner or do some sports together first?
yes. he thinks that girl is very simple and special. however, has he thought that he is from US and graduated in there. that girl is 17 only and never been seen the world. could they really deeply understanding for each back ground? just make it natural and asking her out for dinner etc to be a friend first sin la