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作者: halu 時間: 2005-6-6 12:38 AM 標題: 熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?( \, O5 o3 \+ {2 K
好唔鍾意呢種感覺' \2 ?1 e" g0 T h' f9 k( A
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣7 k* y I; K7 G5 n0 [& h* C
覺得好空虛

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其實早幾次都有試過係咁5 I: B }: s Y; ?. s4 Y7 ~) z
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?

[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

作者: funnygay 時間: 2005-6-6 12:45 AM

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,) Y3 f- R# [4 Q- _# k6 s
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺9 [. O/ U/ K2 D
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

作者: Christy~呀華 時間: 2005-6-6 01:31 AM

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,

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所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,

日日有車站,

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有目標!

作者: taipotse 時間: 2005-6-6 01:56 AM

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

作者: markmk 時間: 2005-6-6 03:03 AM 標題: ..

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:2 {- {' s; \+ W$ t4 J$ M# n
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

作者: 本篤十六世 時間: 2005-6-6 03:22 AM

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:2 E# Z+ S* |- t2 x* [6 {# ^
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,( S9 ?" g9 N. N! G: M. J
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
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有目標!

what does he mean ar?no point

作者: rest365days 時間: 2005-6-6 10:49 AM

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
; `0 P0 j: d. T+ a3 I, }: o: W如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?. t* R1 |1 {3 k8 o: x" B
好唔鍾意呢種感覺" {1 ~, A  R: }. {8 ?3 Q- C$ `) h
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心: y+ f4 P  C- z- E
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
, O' V3 w7 m2 _- o覺得好空虛1 l8 Q% Z2 F& E, X
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
4 ~! K4 v  h" U卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
7 H8 H" K) u# F* @用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?  {' R- u! _8 N4 B) v

這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.0 u6 }$ y5 e  O& E( W$ B2 S+ U
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

作者: Gretzky 時間: 2005-6-6 02:00 PM

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.$ V- ]8 w# `$ ]) O+ s

People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:) m6 v/ s0 Y3 ^) \7 k: C
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long- m2 B# u6 w6 s2 [& M
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.7 Z X- Q: E" V6 c2 c) G5 D
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.8 C* t% k. O3 b, G

Just another thought on lonliness:, y8 k4 u4 a6 B6 U1 U
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

作者: Jho808 時間: 2005-6-6 02:20 PM

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want to keep up the happy time.....
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

作者: 遊戲 時間: 2005-6-6 03:39 PM

真的啦～
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～. Z/ h0 q7 R1 b: N. g; y
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉+ N3 n% r/ u2 R. }- [# }
很少會超過一天～4 _ d! G- L8 e: R
要期待更好的明天呀！

作者: halu 時間: 2005-6-7 02:06 AM

Originally posted by markmk at 2005-6-6 03:03 AM:
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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想...

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其實我有諗過一個問題
如果我唔覺得空虛
又點顯得出我果晚特別開心2 N3 x4 q3 t% J

正如冇醜女點顯得出其他係靚女一樣

作者: halu 時間: 2005-6-7 02:10 AM

Originally posted by rest365days at 2005-6-6 10:49 AM:
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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲...

可能你有少少misunderstand左my meaning呢
其實我呢班fd全部都識左十年% z: L) w! Z. c1 y! I- I9 O4 G; F
每次出黎大家都真係拎個心出黎$ v( \0 d3 ^0 \9 r
而唔會大家有d咩私心利益衝突4 ?+ @; G7 |+ j; J: Q. m
但因為e家大家都要做野ge關係
so好難約埋時間係咁arm全部人都得閒
cos我地有人做野係輪班的

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同埋可能你都講中左d
就係人生目標....呢樣野真係好深奧8 }/ ~: k$ X+ r( a3 N3 n3 r
有d人可能讀緊中學就有..有d人可能搵一世都搵唔到
我e家黎緊下兩個禮拜22歲都未搵到呢..

作者: halu 時間: 2005-6-7 02:11 AM

Originally posted by Gretzky at 2005-6-6 02:00 PM:1 k: u7 L' f. Z- U* M
Solitude is part of life....we long...

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that's the reality.../ L: A3 B1 p2 Z; ^' a5 R- |1 U- u
你講出左現實殘酷ge一面..

作者: halu 時間: 2005-6-7 02:12 AM

Originally posted by Jho808 at 2005-6-6 02:20 PM:
U) x( v& S$ d+ g. x7 sActually........u feel lonely is it...

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but i juz can't control my feeling" C; L2 I" b5 L/ w9 `
maybe that's my characteristic...i'm somehow a bit pessimistic

作者: halu 時間: 2005-6-7 02:16 AM

首先thx all開解先

but i hv some questions..
其實會唔會係同我星座有關呢
因為我係雙子...忽冷忽熱得好緊要' T& R( e6 s/ K
我真係可以o係呢一刻好開心..但一分鐘後可以好down..完全唔出聲
係極度情緒化..但其實果一分鐘係冇發生過任何事..可能只係諗到d野
呢度有冇星座高手?

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