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作者: halu 時間: 2005-6-6 12:38 AM 標題: 熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?; q1 {2 o% v! s o+ K# i: g! p5 i
好唔鍾意呢種感覺3 v+ ^. i1 b% @9 x- D/ W3 a
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣5 i* }1 o3 e$ a l( P/ [
覺得好空虛

其實早幾次都有試過係咁: ?) h+ r4 ~9 ~7 m
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?

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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

作者: funnygay 時間: 2005-6-6 12:45 AM

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,' V: S& ^6 f( ?7 T+ n1 ~
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺: \% Z1 K) `/ d, e. A
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

作者: Christy~呀華 時間: 2005-6-6 01:31 AM

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,

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所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,

日日有車站,

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有目標!

作者: taipotse 時間: 2005-6-6 01:56 AM

令自己有咁忙得咁忙4 l0 ]/ w: K0 X1 K) |. I9 |
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

作者: markmk 時間: 2005-6-6 03:03 AM 標題: ..

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:, t7 y1 F, s4 _5 {7 K
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

作者: 本篤十六世 時間: 2005-6-6 03:22 AM

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
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日日有車站,* l; E" n$ f9 j w. G
有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

作者: rest365days 時間: 2005-6-6 10:49 AM

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:/ Y7 l0 N; D6 w, @1 ]1 f
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
2 X" N  K1 T) B4 q! K- J2 I" r好唔鍾意呢種感覺
# Q# d: ~, u7 |  \% g琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心" V1 T" v+ n' u- W5 `
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣8 [- |) c, y( s7 s* w9 y! o
覺得好空虛
+ x: B  s' ~+ i4 H其實早幾次都有試過係咁- c. T4 h- t& F0 q
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己1 ]6 V4 \) ^. M. M
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?% L' O' f/ v) S* y0 k

這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

作者: Gretzky 時間: 2005-6-6 02:00 PM

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:4 p8 g2 e6 J2 f. L
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long7 A9 W2 u+ L+ y( Q2 n5 Y' {
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.2 c  `; ?$ ]$ ^; `9 ]  k8 Z
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.) n2 ?  x: g* b- t, ?
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Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

作者: Jho808 時間: 2005-6-6 02:20 PM

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want to keep up the happy time.....* h3 @* b$ f! E$ G, ^2 u
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

作者: 遊戲 時間: 2005-6-6 03:39 PM

真的啦～! C5 H6 O2 t% K- O3 c: Y4 E
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影& c6 [: w) M3 M; c" @7 d
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉+ _" R' @8 h0 Q. X! P+ ?" b& c7 d- B K
很少會超過一天～& X$ M9 Y' {4 g
要期待更好的明天呀！

作者: halu 時間: 2005-6-7 02:06 AM

Originally posted by markmk at 2005-6-6 03:03 AM:
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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想...

其實我有諗過一個問題
如果我唔覺得空虛- Z: B- p5 Q1 Y
又點顯得出我果晚特別開心8 c( n. c+ Y* H! i! {

正如冇醜女點顯得出其他係靚女一樣

作者: halu 時間: 2005-6-7 02:10 AM

Originally posted by rest365days at 2005-6-6 10:49 AM:
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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲...

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可能你有少少misunderstand左my meaning呢
其實我呢班fd全部都識左十年
每次出黎大家都真係拎個心出黎; h1 B2 R3 V/ Q' |& q
而唔會大家有d咩私心利益衝突3 S Y" @# w, q8 o2 y
但因為e家大家都要做野ge關係
so好難約埋時間係咁arm全部人都得閒9 d+ n, U* A d+ O* U2 v
cos我地有人做野係輪班的

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同埋可能你都講中左d
就係人生目標....呢樣野真係好深奧
有d人可能讀緊中學就有..有d人可能搵一世都搵唔到
我e家黎緊下兩個禮拜22歲都未搵到呢..

作者: halu 時間: 2005-6-7 02:11 AM

Originally posted by Gretzky at 2005-6-6 02:00 PM:
" [0 y9 j# ]! s E |Solitude is part of life....we long...

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that's the reality...
你講出左現實殘酷ge一面..

作者: halu 時間: 2005-6-7 02:12 AM

Originally posted by Jho808 at 2005-6-6 02:20 PM:
1 j- _1 D' B8 s5 {Actually........u feel lonely is it...

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i know..i know my fds won't leave me4 C) F- \9 r: k$ j9 K: z9 Y5 ~
but i juz can't control my feeling
maybe that's my characteristic...i'm somehow a bit pessimistic

作者: halu 時間: 2005-6-7 02:16 AM

首先thx all開解先

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but i hv some questions..
其實會唔會係同我星座有關呢- G0 e9 k& i5 t# J& I `6 _) C
因為我係雙子...忽冷忽熱得好緊要
我真係可以o係呢一刻好開心..但一分鐘後可以好down..完全唔出聲; ^; O# L7 I8 ?1 \8 W. J
係極度情緒化..但其實果一分鐘係冇發生過任何事..可能只係諗到d野
呢度有冇星座高手?

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