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作者: halu 時間: 2005-6-6 12:38 AM 標題: 熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?$ }% j" v: P& Y
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣4 A+ P. X1 F9 M3 v" Z* U
覺得好空虛

其實早幾次都有試過係咁 R u: a+ n# G4 S
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?

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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

作者: funnygay 時間: 2005-6-6 12:45 AM

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺, U/ r; T$ _6 W2 P+ T( S {
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

作者: Christy~呀華 時間: 2005-6-6 01:31 AM

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,

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所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,

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日日有車站,

有目標!

作者: taipotse 時間: 2005-6-6 01:56 AM

令自己有咁忙得咁忙5 m' W& L' X5 ?) S
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

作者: markmk 時間: 2005-6-6 03:03 AM 標題: ..

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
& g3 S ]& J6 n/ n% Q如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.4 _. v1 ^1 h, x* \. i7 n
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

作者: 本篤十六世 時間: 2005-6-6 03:22 AM

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:! m4 K5 A( r a1 C9 w/ v
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,6 ~& F2 a3 b, ^
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,# T2 _. x# r/ E) A4 m, \
日日有車站,
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what does he mean ar?no point

作者: rest365days 時間: 2005-6-6 10:49 AM

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
0 J) y; Z' `% N$ @- G0 V如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?9 S p/ B0 L0 w, i, O' t. g' J
好唔鍾意呢種感覺, q4 u' `# X5 ?; p/ o
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
& d: T9 l( A" J個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
( a: n6 w" W' N1 ]0 |覺得好空虛
( h R6 M h v. Z其實早幾次都有試過係咁* ~" \. ~1 _2 `7 g
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己2 i! P8 |" p5 Q4 R' F
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

作者: Gretzky 時間: 2005-6-6 02:00 PM

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.0 E: |5 ]3 G' [: F7 z9 @

People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:9 ?3 w3 w' B9 ~3 q4 y$ |. P
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.* n0 t) Q" B: J3 N- A) j+ P
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.0 o7 X4 J1 f0 X( B5 j c

Just another thought on lonliness:1 g4 D( b, i9 {' d; w
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

作者: Jho808 時間: 2005-6-6 02:20 PM

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want to keep up the happy time..... c9 \) D2 a& l4 q2 s1 X1 P
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

作者: 遊戲 時間: 2005-6-6 03:39 PM

真的啦～
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影2 b- [' B6 o2 _2 X$ u
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
很少會超過一天～& L1 n/ T: G& s- K7 J% Z, h. @
要期待更好的明天呀！

作者: halu 時間: 2005-6-7 02:06 AM

Originally posted by markmk at 2005-6-6 03:03 AM:
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6 p, d; h) U& X5 `. a我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想...

其實我有諗過一個問題
如果我唔覺得空虛
又點顯得出我果晚特別開心
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正如冇醜女點顯得出其他係靚女一樣

作者: halu 時間: 2005-6-7 02:10 AM

Originally posted by rest365days at 2005-6-6 10:49 AM:
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可能你有少少misunderstand左my meaning呢
其實我呢班fd全部都識左十年& X2 s. p0 d6 A, }, u G, v4 a$ U
每次出黎大家都真係拎個心出黎+ C% ~. j% i2 B
而唔會大家有d咩私心利益衝突
但因為e家大家都要做野ge關係
so好難約埋時間係咁arm全部人都得閒( B3 L4 z; q2 w& v
cos我地有人做野係輪班的

同埋可能你都講中左d
就係人生目標....呢樣野真係好深奧
有d人可能讀緊中學就有..有d人可能搵一世都搵唔到
我e家黎緊下兩個禮拜22歲都未搵到呢..

作者: halu 時間: 2005-6-7 02:11 AM

Originally posted by Gretzky at 2005-6-6 02:00 PM:
& \0 k" v' N E+ |5 N- \) XSolitude is part of life....we long...

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你講出左現實殘酷ge一面..

作者: halu 時間: 2005-6-7 02:12 AM

Originally posted by Jho808 at 2005-6-6 02:20 PM:
0 {* \3 F# l0 n2 o# [Actually........u feel lonely is it...

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i know..i know my fds won't leave me7 U) U5 O- d( G. i- M! R: d
but i juz can't control my feeling
maybe that's my characteristic...i'm somehow a bit pessimistic

作者: halu 時間: 2005-6-7 02:16 AM

首先thx all開解先

but i hv some questions..
其實會唔會係同我星座有關呢
因為我係雙子...忽冷忽熱得好緊要
我真係可以o係呢一刻好開心..但一分鐘後可以好down..完全唔出聲
係極度情緒化..但其實果一分鐘係冇發生過任何事..可能只係諗到d野 _" q: m1 V4 F1 Q; Z, L: p
呢度有冇星座高手?

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