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標題: 大家憎唔憎你阿媽/阿爸?[積極回應+] [打印本頁]

作者: 心冷之戀*行    時間: 2005-6-11 02:30 PM     標題: 大家憎唔憎你阿媽/阿爸?[積極回應+]

我好憎3 G2 h1 H/ {# h& Q

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3 J# i3 k/ F0 z4 U8 z3 F( j乜都煩一餐.無論正經野.或者玩都煩1 @% Z1 w3 ]3 j; _0 B
一定要知道你係邊.幾時做乜.同邊個.幾點返
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成日扮晒大牌咁
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8 F4 d: d( A# p對你老豆個邊D屋企人一d禮貌都無0 O5 ]. {2 g8 [, i% B

. \2 ]+ c2 U, E% e6 s; F# c疑心重到仆直0 r4 I2 s5 b9 Y; }

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  [' T3 \& L& G3 u係佢d fd.屋企人面前不停唱衰你
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郁d就鬧你乜鬧你物: M& J1 q& o9 p* a
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[ Last edited by 月月鳥 on 2005-6-11 at 07:09 PM ]
作者: cyrus_1985    時間: 2005-6-11 02:41 PM     標題: 雖然我唔識你...

不過講真你好黑我憎~
作者: rayrayip    時間: 2005-6-11 02:49 PM

我諗你年紀一定好細
$ M- v# w$ j8 [' @/ K. O1 _千萬唔好咁樣講你阿媽3 C& q' G8 S0 k4 N3 W  w2 j
到你大左你就會知你阿媽的苦心
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對你阿媽好d
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作者: 奇    時間: 2005-6-11 02:57 PM

Originally posted by cyrus_1985 at 2005-6-11 02:41 PM:# Y1 r6 x3 k4 m9 x6 J
不過講真你好黑我憎~
8 K; O, G6 t9 z, I. v一家唔知一家事,你有個好阿媽,是你的福氣
作者: leeyanta    時間: 2005-6-11 03:03 PM

家家有本難唸的經
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作者: 樂壇渣Fit人    時間: 2005-6-11 03:10 PM

您講到佢咁一無是處
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不如自己搬出黎住咪仲好
8 q& M& ~; N' X3 ?3 O無人煩您
! |* ~0 K- z, G9 m3 ]佢又唔會再黑您憎
& `6 M( h2 s3 e; N諗諗佢啦~
作者: 史艷文2    時間: 2005-6-11 03:24 PM

行雷你唔好出街呀!!
作者: neoarion    時間: 2005-6-11 03:29 PM

我都憎你阿媽阿爸 lol
作者: Charcoal_henry    時間: 2005-6-11 03:49 PM

好多人都覺得阿爸阿媽好煩, 好黑人憎, 好唔想見到佢地
& L& K) x" ~. A' }但係你諗下如果你阿爸阿媽死左你會點?& c+ Z" v2 T* k7 D9 p; p% |
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唔煩就唔係阿爸阿媽啦, 佢地多多野講都係想你好, 有咩阿爸阿媽想個仔死架? 除非你係無惡不作既大魔頭啦! 佢地o係外人面前係咁讚你, 話你乖, 話你叻, 你估你壓力大唔大丫拿? 你唔鍾意佢踩你你咪當聽唔到囉! 或者認認真真同佢地講囉! 唔駛下下要打要殺既~* w5 O1 w9 u& i0 o

% f: M& i, Z$ m1 t  H  [" S你覺得你阿爸阿媽有幾衰都好, 切肉不離皮, 無佢地就無你, 唔好話佢地生你出黎受苦, 有得做一個人, 已經係好好既福氣, 對住爸媽, 事事忍讓, 有事開心見誠講, 你唔同佢地頂頸已經係好孝順架喇! 真架! 唔駛話要俾d咩錢佢地, 起碼尊重, 關心佢地已經好夠!/ y8 v$ B$ R/ z9 E6 V9 @! G! w
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到你有仔女果陣, 你就知阿爸阿媽既心態架喇, 到時你就會覺得今日咁樣諗係錯的好緊要.......
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作者: kingkong007    時間: 2005-6-11 04:28 PM

心冷之戀*行 你唔好問你阿媽要錢用丫, 再還返晒佢多年養你既錢, 再登報同佢斷絕關係,再搬出黎住,甘咪得囉# I0 T* J2 k" T; d
用菲佣既人工計,大約 $3500 1 個月 (i am not sure)1 l. E  E1 p3 k+ O+ Q& Z# M
大肚九個月 3500 * 9 = 315004 t/ Y7 |) b  }5 V4 D! ?1 i! x' N
hospital 生你 + n 次帶你睇醫生 = $50000
  ~& r! p" S. [4 K; e/ M俾你住 當你16歲 = ($3000 *12) *16 = $576 000   ($3000 一個月,正常啦)- E) U$ G' l1 P7 \! S2 Y1 l! p* T
俾你食 當 $100 一日 = ($3000 * 12) * 16 = $576 000
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零用, 買衫買鞋買 PC, 當一年二萬 = $20000 * 16 =$320 000 # X1 Q) G3 K, G& X
讀書, 當你係受緊九年免費教育,但書簿都要錢架, 幼稚園當 $4000 一個月,讀 3 年一年讀10個月 = ($4000*10)*3 = $120 000) N$ b0 f+ t; _$ u( _
照顧你 16 年, 菲佣價 =($3600 *12) * 16= $691 200
$ I5 ~# z% }! Q# Y( M對你 16 年黎既愛,關壞, 擔心 (係無價,但一定要有價的話, 1萬 1 個月啦~) = (10000 *12)
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$31500 + 50000+ 576000 + 576000 + 160000 +320000 + 120000 + 691200 + 19200001 o3 J- A3 v# q# w. A7 w: ]! c0 V
=$4 462 700
8 L' e5 U4 r8 t! u以上計算方法係以最普通既家庭黎計算- z( Y8 f4 D4 U9 @
你還返四百四十六萬二千七百俾屋企人先啦,不過我唔知你阿媽點計.的利息啵,你問下你阿媽收幾多利息再計過, ok?
作者: Gretzky    時間: 2005-6-11 05:12 PM

Originally posted by at 2005-6-11 02:57 PM:/ ~3 g0 ~: M% J# ?% E/ D
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一家唔知一家事,你有個好阿媽,是你的福氣
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* d. z/ X# a2 _  r( L" Z6 h) yThat's well said....
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心冷之戀*行 brother,9 H+ o; Y4 e! T# s4 Q2 t2 F- v

, J& u" a1 W# t  s. ~0 qI hope you are here to vent out your 'emotional excrement' about your parents. Our hopes are you are just fed up with them and are tired of their actions towards you. As many of us have mentioned, you're blessed to have a mother.
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6 ^4 F9 ~; q- ~4 S1 J/ O' m; h4 [0 zI am doing some guessing here...7 Z( v; a$ J- I0 N: d# `; A" m+ s
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You mother probably didn't know much about how to bring up a kid but she loves you very much. As you grow up she's getting more and more anxious about losing you to awful friends/drugs, etc...so her 'questioning' becomes more and more unbearable. Your response was to counter by confronting (words or w/out words) and that makes you mother even more controlling. While it's understandable (even pitiful) to have anger like yours, I hope at least appreciate your mother a bit more than what you've said (she's got nothing to be praised). Remember! She gave birth to you and fed you!
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Let me give you a small piece of advice....cut and paste the comments here (including yours), print it out and keep it in your treasure box...along w/ a current pix of your mother...take them out again in a few years...(hopefully you mother is still around)....by that time I hope you would appreciate and love your mother a lot more than you are now., T* ~1 Q* l7 k5 }6 j  P  N
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: ]3 k+ Q  S; }Forgive me of my directness.....but you better watch out for the thunder at night!
作者: 左輪仔    時間: 2005-6-11 05:21 PM

你夠唔夠20歲呀??  ?' ?( a+ |) M& U
我諗你應該都係朵溫室小花黎.....
作者: 心冷之戀*行    時間: 2005-6-11 06:57 PM

16-_-吧了"( t2 s6 k; \0 C7 s
咁可能我-_-未體會到啦”
作者: 月月鳥    時間: 2005-6-11 07:12 PM     標題: 行仔

其實大家都答左你,, Y$ a' W! r/ A0 d, t
希望你知錯,1 \# \9 @) F+ z* \1 C* a
唔好再咁諗你父母
作者: sfxc0000    時間: 2005-6-11 07:17 PM

聽下呢度咁多位bro.講啦, 希望呢度咁多位bro.o既說話能夠改變你依家o既想法啦
作者: kaixinren    時間: 2005-6-11 09:12 PM

其實我在父母身邊個震都有你甘樣的感覺,但繫到oversea讀書之后就完全沒有啦。其實你個點問題大部分都繫溝通不足造成的,有點嘢一定要講清楚,唔好以為屋企人就好容易明白你。問問自己,如果他們什么都唔講,你又能明白他們幾多?( g" P2 x; o$ G* D
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1。乜都煩一餐.無論正經野.或者玩都煩
5 c1 [3 L3 ?) m0 E& v% C+ X2。一定要知道你係邊.幾時做乜.同邊個.幾點返
3 u3 W0 M: [* g7 A2 b3。疑心重到仆直
6 q1 X6 y3 ^, e3 j- j5 }- h4。永遠都唔信你講ge野! v# b6 f, y7 M) Z0 o( P) C1 u
5。成日屈你/ g# U* g- r7 f0 B+ k% S
6。郁d就鬧你乜鬧你物* d" z, B6 P0 o" R/ ]0 {+ i( E
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以上你提的,都繫因為屋企人信任不唔足。你要多多和他們溝通,上街前主動講做乜,同邊個,幾時返,而且要準時返。多做幾次,他們就不會問的啦。做事要有交代,做的好。他們就會慢慢的信任你。
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  V* R! E% q9 F. {一開始繫覺得lose face,但你唔希望他們以后再唔信任你,就要這樣開始。
作者: chk8667    時間: 2005-6-11 11:18 PM     標題:

我都覺得阿爸阿媽好煩.但諗下佢地辛苦..就letitbe..自己做好d




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