娛樂滿紛 26FUN - Powered by Discuz! Board

標題: 討論: 大家點睇你女友既前途? [打印本頁]

作者: gundamman678 時間: 2005-8-23 01:59 AM 標題: 討論: 大家點睇你女友既前途?

大家點睇你女友既前途?

會鼓勵你既女友努力向上，定係你唔多在留意佢既前途?

我就一定會鼓勵女友的，因為我覺得女仔都好應該力求上進，咁既女仔係我最欣賞既。因為佢上進，得益既唔係我，而係佢自己。

作者: per 時間: 2005-8-23 02:06 AM

當然~
女仔不應只靠男仔

作者: Ice125 時間: 2005-8-23 02:55 AM

My girlfriend is very mature and cares very much about her future. Currently theres one more year before she goes into univerity and she already what she will be studying. I dont really have to worry about her much. She knows what she is doing. All i need to do is to be there for her when she needs me for any support or any back up that i maybe to help. She's quite independent acadamically. Currently she is doing her portfolio for art and is already half way through while there are 8months left befoer it is due. So shes lookin good for univeristy.

作者: au212001 時間: 2005-8-23 10:50 AM

最理想就大家都咁上進啦.....

作者: dg666 時間: 2005-8-23 10:56 AM

若決定和她一起,我就唔會管她,只會支持,唔會迫她上進.從來就唔應該迫另一半做甚麼,就算那是為她好.她有權選舉做唔做,她是成人,情侶也是2人.

如果一味認為為她好就叫她上進,唔上進就唔開心,那你是改造緊她.迎合自己的口味.
唔喜歡這類對象就不要和她一起.阿媽自細叫比心機讀書,有幾人會聽,人人都知讀書緊要,但不代表做到.一味用說教的方式叫對方做嘢,那叫另一半去死好過.

當然若只是鼓勵和支持就沒問題,所以要分清.好多人就係唔係,對方唔做就一味話她,還難係有道理,有道理不代表大曬.她唔上進,但做好本份就得.你接受唔到就找另一個,唔好以為自己對,有藉口話對方.

作者: gundamman678 時間: 2005-8-23 03:52 PM

迫就一定唔會迫既，因為上進心無可能迫出黎，係個人自己識諗先至會有。

但我又唔會完全唔理喎。我既諗法係都想佢有好既前途。如果佢係有潛質既，我會鼓勵佢發揮所長。好似我以前個女友咁，佢煮野食好有心機，尤其是整蛋糕。佢本身打份工係無得升既，所以我就好鼓勵佢向整蛋糕方面發展，希望將來佢可以此為事業。當然佢都想有咁既發展，只係欠左d動力同勇氣，所以我就經常鼓勵佢同俾意見佢。我覺得咁樣對佢黎講，係幫左佢成長。

有時人就係咁，心想要做既野就總是欠了點勇氣和支持，又有些人是需要他人激發他的潛能。所以我覺得如果見到女友係有某一d才華既，就應該推動下佢去發展囉。

作者: yeahchan 時間: 2005-8-23 09:39 PM

如果係我, 我都會鼓勵o既~我而家都遇到差唔多咁o既問題~but she is not my gf
我同佢左好耐, 鍾意左佢2年, 仲o係ive 讀同一系high dip, but 佢讀左1年之後想轉科, 我雖然唔想佢走, but人人都有理想, 咁我又冇理由阻佢上進ga~

作者: Rika 時間: 2005-8-23 10:50 PM

呢D野好似唔係男友要理既野喎，我理唔到咁多架喎，由得佢架
理埋佢D前途野，似佢呀哥或者呀爸多D，所以我費事理

歡迎光臨娛樂滿紛 26FUN (http://26fun.com/bbs7/)