jason williams

大男人 or 大女人 also belong to a personal character
is developing from childhood, really difficult to change
except having a great event happen on him/her or their mind suddenly opened.......
but the probability is low, so if u really can't stand a guy with this kind of character,
i think u should better dun choose those guys or leave them
dun think u can change the character of a guy so easily
so sometimes i would not so agree that some guys always want to change their lovers to his/ her ideal type because u should know what yr lover's style is b4 u are dating with him/her
just my view

[ Last edited by jason williams on 2005-5-15 at 03:03 AM ]

jason williams

Originally posted by truelove at 2005-5-15 03:23 AM:
咁要改變自己去遷就一段感情, 會有結果嘛 ?

if u think it is worth to change yrself to "遷就" him/her, then is ok
because none of the couple would be entirely  "甲", if no ideal case, then 遷就 each other is a must case, just see how much u need to 遷就, would it be over yr torerate level

but, if u already have a thinking that u can't stand about him/her
why need to be so hard that to change yrself to an entirely different person
if so, really happy ma? u have lost yr self personality
from my view, if this happen, u should think clearly about, u are still loving him/her or just want to keep the relationship, if just want to keep the relationship, but u are unhappy, i dun think the result will be gd, so in this way, i think dun waste so much time lor

so, 一係唔好計o甘多付出既問題, 要計的話就要自私d, 至少自己要開心先啦