brightlee

may I ask few questions before we have some deep dicussion?

1) Are you a Christian? Does she a Christian?
2) If yes, how old are u? how old are she?
3) Does you have romance for the first time?

I would like to help you as much as possible, but I would like to know some deep information first
Thanks~~!!

Regards
Bright

brightlee

Originally posted by ravemother at 2006-4-25 10:10:


we are both Christian, but i am...

em.. i see i see
do you goto same fellowship with her?
does your church 導師know that?
em.. do u have some good/closed brothers in Christ in your church?

p.s. I feel great that you show your emotions in here.........
it's a great step to be healed.....

brightlee

yes, we go to the same fellowship. I did talk to a few close friends in my fellowship but they didnt help much. my 導師 dont know that, i dun wanna tell them cuz i think they dun really like intimate relationship among brothers and sister. <-- how old are your adviser?

She cant forget about her ex, they had been together for 3 years. <-- remember that's her choices, you should respect her choice if you love her.

I know not seeing her will make me heal faster, but i cant just change church just for her...<-- Great to see your attitude, I believe GOD is loving your decision, and you are mature to face this problems

In my past, I have 3 people liking this, and 3 of them are not my fds now (well, some of them.. one of them, that's more than 8 years, 2nd one is 5 years+)

I am glad that you are trying to solve the problems with GOD toegther
I am keep praying to you

Be strong, my brother in Christ

You can do it, trust our God and put your strong will to HIM
He'll help you.

If you have more problems, just tell me, ok? don't be shy.....
especially if you feel uncomfortable at any time, any where....

in CHrist
Bright

brightlee

that's great,
let's pray and support each others

brightlee

it takes times
I'll support you

brightlee

Originally posted by andy020290 at 2006-5-1 01:55:

我教你啦~佢巳家咁做都係想勾引你個...

I am standing totally OPPOSITE than you.
Well, it's good that if you see the one you are breaking up now, she's not the right person for you in your life........
Why do u need to escape?
Do u think you can learn the story for this?
Of cos, you can escape, you couldn't solve the whole mess....

You'll lost at least one friendship (and could be more than that)
What's the point?

And That's really immature if you leave church due to this.....
We're going to church to serve Lord
Not for entertainment,
Not for friends,
Not for funs (of cos, we can play and joke with brothers in Christ), I hope you understand what I am talking about.


Keep reminding,
in every kind of love, that's NOT CATCHING, HOLDING OTHERS, NOT CHEATING others...

if we love in our real heart,
we should let others free!

Same as GOD gives us freedom to do whatever we like..................... that's why He's loving us so MUCH!!

Bright