熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
  x5 V5 u7 D6 d& D  `7 f8 }好唔鍾意呢種感覺
4 W3 L5 n, L2 }0 g4 e琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心9 w+ x' \% ~  M. c8 h7 t5 f- ^
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
. H3 i- b. R; @覺得好空虛& C- [! F, J7 J; l- F6 N# Z) x: L8 n
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
' |$ G% n8 U. `* Z4 L2 B卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己/ f6 K4 u( k. M& j0 w1 G% l* e" @
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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+ X8 d* X$ A- b( M( C' D( l% V' x  M: s[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,- r; b) K6 d/ ?* ~3 x- z  Z' Y' k
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
, @9 J* ?! B. n! I9 A  ]; ~  z熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
4 o1 @9 {) \! i4 \! E; I/ b, `所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,/ c" [: J, M6 j; a! h7 Y
日日有車站,
$ j1 ~4 [) U, a1 s# J% s/ q& P有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙1 W, q0 s, P/ R4 i3 X
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
2 K. u3 j2 i. G5 r如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.9 ?" {$ U! `$ g: t) Y
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
, R6 E6 D# k, d6 F8 ^' D玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.+ A% W( m0 I0 ~1 |6 P3 [
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:/ s' i) I( Z" m8 h% S9 X- o
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
; S' `/ _% c4 J$ B* m7 ~$ {所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,% A) r' ]0 k5 @& L, `
日日有車站,8 Q# m  V7 I( j5 w5 a8 T0 H
有目標!

, Y1 [8 t6 ~6 Kwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
4 c* }; I0 M' _( U# K如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?  H3 R3 K+ V8 A9 C
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
4 k( P7 b# @; Z9 ?" R) V8 N琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
+ s# l6 l7 L+ Z* g: [1 x8 i2 T個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
; n0 v4 [2 _" A) ~覺得好空虛
1 _' {  ?% F# ]其實早幾次都有試過係咁) Y2 @) ]2 B) N+ c: T4 h
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
" w& |- e0 ]. V$ P用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
+ P+ s3 J) B- m/ ]4 U# k4 l& B唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
5 W9 ]* U9 J* [& i# U有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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1 k& ]: W% A+ u- x2 X+ y$ H. wPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:' A6 U, @; {8 Q; ?' A$ S
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long3 @: B7 W( `5 o& h8 Z2 I
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
" l4 ]+ ?3 l" k: u  v# [! d! O- ^  Tc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.: _- {- C' K4 \0 o  C* ?# z) q% q

: Z7 m" R& K6 S- ~  ?Just another thought on lonliness:2 D/ C' a6 K" O5 A; W7 S! Y, P$ \
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....1 X# p# I- |: A
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
' G5 D& j9 D, A5 j* K) W8 H我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
! Y. F6 j5 m2 }8 T( i就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
9 O' e3 C( Z  U$ k/ q% ~+ U3 _或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～$ U  L9 g; Q: G/ l
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
/ x/ G( c3 g) s% ?; f1 Z. d. k  m很少會超過一天～+ h+ I" W1 A( d* R' m. P' [* F8 R6 G5 k
要期待更好的明天呀！