熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?1 R4 ^0 r! c. d- x( [
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
/ i& a  Y  G1 P3 S琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心8 q, p0 R, W! S1 `3 ^
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣5 ~# T; o, a8 h/ G5 H2 U; I
覺得好空虛& H: ^- S! B* Z3 e) k
其實早幾次都有試過係咁8 W3 ~4 R" b) q! t
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己% I# F+ M- W3 P
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?1 G: G0 P' v- O& p# G6 F2 u# |* F
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,. P3 y( _" B) A5 P, t: B
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺+ D; N+ W+ _3 H  b* s
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
9 z% s" Z7 N  P0 `所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,4 \8 a  D; g5 w1 S  }  e
日日有車站,
! Q$ R2 g8 T9 R有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙  Y& {5 K9 [5 {# T* I. }* D
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
, U0 `9 m1 e/ ^/ |# r如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

7 T+ r6 |) F1 V1 }4 [8 Q$ n6 a% Y我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
6 {, r6 Y& R0 M感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
4 f% x, {% ~9 f% p2 ^4 t: P玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.% W  k1 s# H& F5 N# f
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:; P; x) Q& A- K7 x$ k
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,+ f  R0 h# [; F; ?
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,4 T3 {3 Q8 ]2 F5 e4 d4 }( t# x
日日有車站,/ i' C* A( Z5 ?6 h
有目標!

8 m! b) m! o) U0 W8 U  |what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:0 e) l! a) O. ?2 Y# N
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?( r5 V0 @5 d! ?$ Y4 ^; A
好唔鍾意呢種感覺' }3 C0 m+ q+ u6 v& P
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心/ `8 s) n6 ?4 m2 M1 d
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣! L) R: w5 s& M3 J0 q
覺得好空虛* }9 `6 U$ A. y
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
  J9 k5 {5 j# W2 P2 f$ \卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己# L: E6 f7 S5 _6 E
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?1 b  ]& Y! R* B* V; U! F+ s

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.& w6 t" X4 ^# r6 v
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
7 ]. K+ N% l) l8 I: g% x有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.) i1 n7 R& f% x3 _- p$ b

7 Q$ @; b2 r, vPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:# J3 u0 L2 y9 o) s6 c
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long% o! ~1 H/ [0 @. t- F9 Q) @4 {
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.9 i# z. Z3 Y1 ^7 e- D; _" t0 i8 r
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:
. o! F) J' l( o3 d, N- @Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....% X! ?% b$ O! F2 R# c
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
7 A6 c! ^' L0 E3 a+ Q: E' O( {我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
$ L2 V, r+ C' x* N就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
1 s$ v/ j# K# w" l$ m' `* [7 l或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
1 b- Z5 B. ~# h6 g6 h空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
" x0 s: G1 `# Z& }' Y很少會超過一天～" I2 B$ r1 K& S0 D1 \
要期待更好的明天呀！