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" l/ S: ]+ c" d% h# K) C( K% i+ c假如仍不知悔改就要佢負上法律責任- N1 R- j- ?* f- g: ^. P  c
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jason williams

in fact, under this situation, we really would not be so intellective sometimes, that means we will solve it in a little bit "9" way+ D9 D* `( M; O6 `( d( p" e% r1 E5 m9 T
consider in the following (not in order):* z! ^0 a# G4 c  T

8 d) i! F. v4 p9 v1st, how close the relationship we are?
! Q& \6 R- |/ n7 e9 p- Z2nd, how serious he/she has done?
. [' V. D1 x( ?" u# ]3rd, would it affect other seriouly after i help/not help him?* l, H5 X3 T: M- B+ j
4th, even worst problem he/she has made, why he/she did it? any good excuse?- H+ i7 r8 e0 N- [/ \

  L8 t+ k$ \6 U9 Ufor me:
8 i& m( R, h3 [6 ii may ask my "good heart" first, that means i may 大義滅親 if they have done a serious problem, just like murder because this is gd way for they to self-questioning and searching, also this is a 交代 to the victim.+ ]9 M) w) k( u  ]
but if they have a very good excuse, just like self protection, then i may advice them to surrender, because their crime can be understood under Law (just like HK this kind of place with gd law situation); w8 [. S) s) _, i
but for some situations just like murder in China, smuggle of drugs in thai land, than they must die, then i may help them to cop, but sure they should have a very good excus for me to help !!!
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% Z. C4 Y! _* m5 A$ kbut whatever, i think we should put our 良心 first b4 doing anything and need to 將心比己!!!

wer

小事會,大事不會.留案底或坐監對父子前途影響甚大,所以不告.小事就沒所謂,當買個教訓

aiqidejiao

父為子隱，子為父隱

老鬼X

觀點/角度 好難答

jennifer

不能比成我了，就事论事吧，因果关系，所谓大义灭亲，这个大义是指大局，大事，大众的利益来看。所以舍弃亲情，来用法律或善恶惩罚来对待亲人，第一个例子呢，我认做得对，这算是大义救亲吧，小偷小摸终会铸成大错，在大错之前，绳之亲子，算是救他，助他而已，谈不上灭，可能是父亲一片苦心。
4 W: v8 l# m0 C* J4 m2 {第二个呢，是小义灭亲吧，这个小义是指怕连累自己，拖累家人，而举报，如仅仅为了减少对社会危险，那么方式不局限于报警这个极端手法。3 r# |  d1 V- }6 a8 M* W
人们总把大义与民簇与群体相联，一已私利算不上大义，这是个人观点，求分啊，分太少。

ricojohny

無論要滅邊個
1 f( i$ b" _. g! e只要有數我都會滅