熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
3 C% R4 S2 c) t( \( w好唔鍾意呢種感覺
$ v  S* o# h: k* L琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心( e: S' v2 Z! j- H, y+ J0 q
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣6 ~1 U' A* B- \/ h, D% g) \
覺得好空虛, ^2 ^% O8 V* N) l& W
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
0 G0 f: Q1 v% v$ h1 u0 O卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己& A/ s' G  R  M: k# e9 E/ [
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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7 N4 r. v2 C) a7 `[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,: |+ X, c/ ?( O' b) j3 s0 w. w; a3 u
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
9 U7 `) \% T$ [3 J熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,# i3 W; h" ^& W" x8 a
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,5 u' c5 a; r# ]- d
日日有車站,& U. J3 z: C5 E
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
) @0 u9 ?( o7 m2 R4 p! N: P你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
/ x9 i* m+ k* P如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
* Q; [/ p) a) }5 V# G3 K3 `& B感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..( I1 X, r" c1 S8 M7 z7 v. o3 |
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
0 X) _4 W9 r- A4 `( o: z總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
8 @% j/ [9 Z- n. r: Y其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
1 g4 C( |6 r+ L3 x! C所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
; `. y3 `+ n' y+ o- V7 ^2 {4 i$ G+ L日日有車站,* o* {6 B& t8 h
有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
/ X" P; b$ o" h3 i7 N; ~如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
* w9 ^" D  `. ^好唔鍾意呢種感覺0 O) U3 f* |& F* W6 q5 h4 ?
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
* b: B* s4 ]- E! f# n0 C3 W+ H個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣) G) h: H  i  c$ l. E2 F; `( H
覺得好空虛- y* l! U5 c! G# x4 v  P" Y
其實早幾次都有試過係咁2 T) i% o( {  G
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己4 ]: I( {! M: C2 `- s" ?+ t
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?7 w" q( Z" E- x0 z% @" s

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.: d8 M* t1 F. }+ v& P6 r5 v! S  U
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
0 E8 C3 R7 d: Q8 P有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.' R6 K8 |; g; w8 K

6 e( f$ v, P/ O( w* u7 _2 sPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:4 O/ v/ s3 }1 \. _8 s
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
- O9 B; ^) J: u8 `& tb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
9 T( X0 Z  w4 T9 b% X# L1 }c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.7 e) v3 z2 t% L; ~! f: U

% x. A& w2 s- s7 G1 @! Q. gJust another thought on lonliness:
/ h! Z, A' f* {Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....2 C& k1 Y# J4 d( F! O* t
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～! C9 ]$ z3 {0 V3 g6 D- S  ~9 f- E
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺4 R- @/ k; s# A( ^- x9 G! \
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
2 b  |% }3 E- C3 W9 X或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
, |- x1 v8 \" w% Y% m* p' A' |空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
7 o2 g( N4 s& I1 v+ n4 m) N很少會超過一天～
/ V2 b% |  y: E0 J: f% P要期待更好的明天呀！