熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?0 R5 Y7 ~7 ?7 A
好唔鍾意呢種感覺4 N# Q" L8 k- w0 H7 B/ g4 R5 Q9 @
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
3 X9 x% e: L5 K! q3 d+ u/ |個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣7 k7 g3 n5 m6 r
覺得好空虛6 ~0 L7 I9 e" C* a1 |4 j3 \
其實早幾次都有試過係咁1 P; [* u3 O! v( y, i
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己! I: `2 ^! w! V4 t, A: @3 w: Z
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?! J# U/ @; v4 l/ F7 B
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,6 U( q' H5 e) g; E/ g
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺1 C) k* A  m7 s
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,% M2 f6 e& J9 T' w8 }5 O" U0 T
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
9 ^8 B/ b8 {' g" s; ^, ]日日有車站,
4 `$ R, M  B! @1 |有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
4 m6 j! E0 ?6 W你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:( T8 f% L0 B% R) W& J# D7 N
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

2 A! P; h9 X- y5 ^7 ~% x我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.  J, E* b" t& ^  H$ j; S
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
' _3 b  J) c. H- b% Z9 r/ s玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.8 {* o  D# a8 k
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
9 z% C! d" T. D其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,* Q- A  F8 t8 s0 h0 f5 E1 j
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
/ z2 `# G+ ~6 P1 T2 Y' P/ Y7 ^日日有車站,
( E+ }8 D8 a( h1 @- z% h" @) U# P/ p有目標!

4 Z; W0 i# p, p6 k2 n: Awhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
, M6 S- N- i. S# ]如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
0 }$ E# o0 C1 J7 ~好唔鍾意呢種感覺
' X* p4 K- z: Y6 q: B7 m+ z  _  b6 C琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
1 X6 a  a" Q- [" X個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣, }* Z0 \( L7 {  v* ?0 [
覺得好空虛6 w7 W1 y1 S/ o: x* G
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
+ m$ }- r4 k$ [) w卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己) H+ I* ?" e, T
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?$ U4 ~1 ?$ \: g; J# L8 C% t

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
8 I* r% Y' W, ?. d0 E+ K- F唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.. J0 |' f, \( K, J% f" g. ]  p
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.5 Q4 k- D: L) E6 G! w+ c7 z. ^5 d
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
& S/ j" f( I) o7 ]' Ta) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
2 e/ R! s3 {. \4 rb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.% h# {8 u7 b& ~% P
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:
  r4 {) d6 X( y, \Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
6 H- O3 {- I! b& ?  HBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
& n7 `5 n& o2 V; d& ~% p我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
( M+ g: ?$ u, U就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
3 R) W/ x' R5 G& W1 R; k2 F或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～# m: y+ ~7 q; r$ O' T
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉2 v- R. E0 E8 [7 O- b
很少會超過一天～
, ]6 n/ h: d/ a9 b$ R要期待更好的明天呀！