熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
3 u) [# ~$ B7 c6 H好唔鍾意呢種感覺
4 {. ]5 g$ ]3 G) n. u! E5 v琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心- O" j( S3 Q8 z7 W5 i
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
9 m, @3 b; H5 C: H! D2 {/ k# c覺得好空虛, |) h$ p0 y3 o: J& k* k+ D
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
* u8 _# [; W9 b; L( u卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
$ f4 ^% Q1 Z* n( m' r" N但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
9 R8 }* a) T" p, g4 J熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
" w1 b, d4 |" Z$ J6 i2 ?( P* H4 I所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
7 ~) Y5 Q/ g. ]1 @0 H5 V日日有車站,
4 k) U) n1 I0 g有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
" ^: ~7 a! i- @9 J8 V5 Z你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:  ~  b5 D7 c3 g6 S
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
) t# B# Z8 Q' J感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..; \  X) ~" O  Y2 a  t+ F$ N
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.2 Z* u; t# Y- g# r1 Q
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:4 d. f. s# i5 N6 U* }2 s5 l8 @0 W
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,% |, X6 x: z+ t# M- I% y
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,6 F" P4 k( v9 L7 b$ ?) `
日日有車站,
6 ^( ^# O. _0 @+ K3 _% v! C有目標!

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rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
; M9 G0 i! f" I& p$ c6 F6 J6 H如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
8 B# V% f$ k7 @$ ?7 o/ p好唔鍾意呢種感覺
7 O4 S* z! y' K& P9 u琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
( P2 _9 g$ w( }8 R個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣  V9 i. v9 }3 H
覺得好空虛
5 L* [8 P& i& m  W; ~其實早幾次都有試過係咁
' H' }  Y+ V( K! c卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己# p% Y; b7 }, y' w. @: o/ y
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
- d# N& b" X/ e) K/ d唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.+ q& f3 o1 Y! [' _* U+ b
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.8 f! T& s! v( Q: r) i* ?# W
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:9 ~8 [( t& k. q9 @! F
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
7 E4 O# {6 r9 W8 Sb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
: x, A* @! K% {9 Qc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.6 r8 f/ `, ]5 n
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Just another thought on lonliness:
! U# @0 z  r0 Q" f/ Q( T4 d& rLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....  @( S. F8 c7 h! \% L$ `) Y
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
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就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
- r+ t# F) L. I! ~4 {; |或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
& I" Y! i8 K% |+ V& N. W/ ~空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉! J& y2 e- p- }
很少會超過一天～, J+ z* C& A0 G
要期待更好的明天呀！