熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
* N/ \1 m$ j9 ~1 s1 ^. {* i9 E( R好唔鍾意呢種感覺# A4 ?& A( O+ p4 j5 l8 n
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
! g. o$ o# F/ s3 ]( Z$ r+ _個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
" K# w5 y) r9 R  e覺得好空虛
* L3 t  B& m' E& }* ?* F2 r, j其實早幾次都有試過係咁
8 X, n: @0 B. @( _/ B7 g$ W卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
/ C7 f) Y8 K9 X! y0 t5 f  ^+ J; u1 D用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?: S% s! v4 H/ s( s8 V' @* m

" y" ^$ {0 I; r, L[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,  H. K! E0 `' G# n
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺/ o; R4 D& ^( U0 V- v
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
. @0 A7 a, c. Q$ \所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
, Z0 a# z4 l( |3 l! l/ @日日有車站,. N& _' K8 ]$ t' H  m
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
/ q, V& @; Y: c$ y8 G" S( t你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
; R1 J7 C$ J- @9 Q8 e# c& M; g" s如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

, Y' |5 ^7 z3 n, z: P! ]9 X$ E我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
% f' z  c( r$ D. V( v感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
, e; A- i' a; Z" g# o! R玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.4 G& N" o/ p( r( ?. ^1 i
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:6 c/ i3 f! c1 H) y
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
& ]2 D0 S0 K$ a6 y! e8 I所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
& \% ~, _% F4 C5 {% q日日有車站,; P& R5 b5 @# I7 z
有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:* D( Z+ R8 U' t, ^3 R* }
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
; r8 ^* N) z8 q) [4 R% n4 e, G好唔鍾意呢種感覺
' T* ?/ t0 Y5 D; w琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
6 N0 o/ V6 \. q; [( U' E; M個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
( g. |- A3 p* U) V0 m0 b7 a8 L' ~, c覺得好空虛
& d9 P3 b( F6 |6 _其實早幾次都有試過係咁
% [9 C  R1 l- c) M9 s0 x9 C卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
, W8 {& [# V7 O( j5 U" D+ z用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?4 f1 l2 W/ \6 X$ ?  r0 A

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
; v* z$ y" H7 U5 H# S8 T唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.% R, d. R. j1 S# r
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.7 [1 R# P* \: t. x$ L

' D! t' |3 t( F- {3 S# qPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
. j) b( \1 ^+ S: M" w! C2 d# ca) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
7 K" ^7 G, Z! E3 }b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
6 F' [. I' G8 oc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:
7 I( a2 e5 `7 W/ _0 |7 X$ n: y3 p( lLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....) v) Y  f3 h. u4 i& ~% f
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～7 b6 r; W4 G( Z  x5 o1 o
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
# K5 Z3 }* S. C; E/ d! U1 f就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
, J0 v9 O6 a& k5 L5 J或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
$ x6 \" E$ L1 h1 w# s$ D9 u% N空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉* r8 H9 e/ q2 L1 R
很少會超過一天～
( s- j$ E" {- {! r6 T% {( P& h5 I+ O要期待更好的明天呀！