熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?5 d: H% h% N) U% \; x
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
1 V4 G2 X. r, u/ Z& |琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心6 o! ~7 W( B( a, B8 k+ t) c) C3 O
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
$ Q; F& i( {. x) [6 u" h* D覺得好空虛
4 s. f8 O6 Q* x其實早幾次都有試過係咁+ \  b# C1 d. k
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己$ u5 ~) v) i* m( w
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
$ l+ g4 c- S8 r但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
7 G: c4 N  O# c  I$ o' f熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
1 [! V( s; V; H  A& u, E, v所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,8 ]* R( A* @# y* d
日日有車站,3 j' _! E- a% w) e5 t8 S! U/ Q
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
) t& ?- F  _! k" I# H; \9 q你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:% V$ ?  `/ l  P; ^4 W
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

$ ~  t0 p2 ]5 z4 C7 `1 Q; u我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
1 M0 s" E! w" a7 M; Y8 }感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..% y' u& z  G5 H: e& H
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.* ]6 p9 C& {* x) i$ Y
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
9 ?2 N& f, T. I- M其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
! @4 L7 d4 H9 n( {: G& f) ?2 `所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,# q- _: b. L( e0 H0 G
日日有車站,
" W# @$ i- N3 D# W  Y, ?1 h有目標!

& h6 A1 m8 ]: Q& f' o. P- Mwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:$ z6 Q2 s! v1 E+ f) x3 Y# r
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
% n0 _7 S3 }# C! Y好唔鍾意呢種感覺
7 f6 H7 W2 e8 b  c琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心4 F8 k. m% E( {; ~7 B
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
: `0 f! e0 N/ X6 ]2 P覺得好空虛; r2 H  g5 V1 n1 S7 n
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
0 I: S, _* T. Q卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己+ A' j  B# \# f8 {  F
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?- s; x1 k! v& H3 ~

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
4 ~3 @/ j4 j/ O$ m) ~& n唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
4 y( Q; t: t0 Q! j: _# L有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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/ `8 |4 H8 A8 K3 j. mPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
: n; }) O. @% B5 v& sa) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long% ?) N1 j$ E9 z' t# j* Q
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.* R! D4 ^' S: N3 ?/ U7 d6 I8 K
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:8 W' p# y7 }9 Z1 d- t$ X
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
/ D7 q' B, A* h% n, ?( fBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～* L. W2 ?; g% d* q
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺( x! ?* G% ]0 R$ R
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影& l) d; s- |4 R# n: k: ^
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
8 D3 ]4 S1 X5 E9 |9 _空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
/ n: G1 [% x' x. ~- O# \1 Q很少會超過一天～$ z5 q; A% A2 Z& R* Q+ a  a
要期待更好的明天呀！