熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
( \/ t4 k6 W  q; [好唔鍾意呢種感覺) h5 Z6 b1 ^! J$ j# Y6 V
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
) S* T' X. `, y1 {& \! V7 p$ {1 U個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣5 z( z- c" z4 t* S' l: k
覺得好空虛) J/ C0 o' F3 I: T) E3 A
其實早幾次都有試過係咁; z: ~7 H, ?4 H) O4 N. Y5 h
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
8 c5 L% z4 U8 Q  T/ ]6 H  ]用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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7 H4 _- P3 p5 }" H[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
7 w; I9 G2 M- p' ^+ Z$ B# q- v但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
8 H% ?; u: B, G2 r熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
* A- h7 M* p& J9 r* `. T2 t% l" @所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車," y# j: {5 z5 w- H# m
日日有車站,
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taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙9 m& I/ s6 O) y
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
" ~% B$ t# G: Y* b8 v5 o- k如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
& w+ @' B8 W8 N/ O感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
1 W9 y3 I8 Z8 g  A' L. z玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.0 I$ D9 [& z/ c' Z
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:" S% g9 q3 f3 h' Y# W
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
, w# ?8 x: ^. }所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
5 B0 `0 c- {0 D. d日日有車站,
- {/ e$ Q1 D- ^有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:5 u- C/ ]0 f0 P$ m
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
* u- G1 z2 |0 \( {0 q好唔鍾意呢種感覺8 V, Z# X4 o% M; c' b% A, b4 c& z% J
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
1 F2 D9 M- G5 W4 ~3 S' |/ U5 o個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣' |& ?5 k# ^/ S3 z- g0 Q
覺得好空虛% D) H- C; L0 @  G( Z4 ^
其實早幾次都有試過係咁* k- c, u' ]1 N; L/ }* G
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
; G/ `6 M1 L) S8 B用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?% }  m# v. ]; k# w7 ~) b

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.4 N/ u: G1 S! E7 F
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
1 o  e- S/ o5 K有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own." x7 @3 Z9 _) U1 u' Q
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
! ]. [8 V/ \- R5 m5 l2 g) F0 F' Ya) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long0 C+ l8 l! C: |0 e1 Y6 F9 t" s
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.. v+ {8 m+ T1 h7 u5 l: ?
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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2 M; J& F5 E) l( EJust another thought on lonliness:
3 {$ ?- \' T0 d0 q9 a7 H4 l9 jLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....2 ^' k' F6 n* k: M
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
  J4 S0 d1 N( a- j4 s: [我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
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# m8 `* n8 Z2 j( w% o* r! n或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
% u( \5 q8 {0 a  f4 k空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉9 v+ v$ w7 b, _7 P
很少會超過一天～& {: U- L& U+ M: q/ M
要期待更好的明天呀！