熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
! {* [* a8 \  b4 y7 \! T' I好唔鍾意呢種感覺
6 L) [8 Z9 ?( P3 K琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
' [! \  R- q4 n  b4 T) w( v4 W9 t; u個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣& j9 a! m# X2 `1 j1 B
覺得好空虛4 q: }0 H, T$ M2 `8 x% l
其實早幾次都有試過係咁& s: O/ h2 z' V1 c  t
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
& x- S* Z1 v8 Z8 z2 V, n用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,  B% c" ]5 K, o  i% i6 O" i+ [/ _
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
2 c/ T& f# s! H熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
& }; x: g, }5 q  j2 N5 h所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
6 w+ _4 ~) {$ m) ?/ t6 m( b日日有車站,
0 j& O% w4 d1 G( w有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
  D% g8 B6 ]! I; r4 m" M% L, J你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:- t! O4 z+ I, r8 o
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

! X; V2 W0 ^, k我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
4 H- M; m  ~' j7 Q感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
% {+ R- H- o  N) v; X% F玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
7 P" i! X, {# U總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:" T+ A' |3 p3 L
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
3 Z# B% X# X+ x所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,5 s, M4 n% U8 Q
日日有車站,
" a% ?' E& a. |  O  ^: [/ B有目標!

% Z" q6 M: K5 u! Mwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
* r! i4 q# S; J5 {* o0 Y: H" O如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
$ o0 m: S4 r+ i9 o好唔鍾意呢種感覺
& p' d  v- M* _; q琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心1 f9 A+ X3 s; @* M
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣% r1 W; y# o! x5 A0 W& A9 i1 r
覺得好空虛& F. a. M! i4 {3 A( w$ n1 D5 L
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
: F6 d3 V( v% {4 \3 k卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
" x- K5 Y/ b3 b; f; H/ I+ [用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?- ^& [. W) i4 Z+ ^5 z! Y' _0 I

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9 O) }" C6 w4 S! B5 G, [這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦., M2 ]3 p# J, `. `
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
% R4 _1 a/ G. O9 f  B有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.- w; }4 {! ?% a- \9 Y8 t% U

% {* T4 `. t' s. G; KPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:  m2 j5 E( [- E
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
) W% v* l1 j; N; ib) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
2 ~8 I8 T+ _0 V+ p6 Ec) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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3 A0 s1 V; ]% c) m+ s1 aJust another thought on lonliness:7 H6 a5 r8 C! E! i$ `( ?
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
) m7 w* e- ]+ XBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
" r* j$ ]& @* ]" i* n4 _我會有一種十分空虛的感覺& Z) H# Q3 g- ?
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影+ ~0 \% I1 g4 G# D# U
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
9 \; s9 w% D8 X空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
( x9 a& W' q3 M) s, p很少會超過一天～
0 v; d$ ~$ _8 L7 t1 b要期待更好的明天呀！