熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
: j0 C" n. [0 i* X. E1 T9 `好唔鍾意呢種感覺% f, g7 i, [: M- J0 e" I' b
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心7 o) P3 ]+ P, u# C% {! C
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
8 U( r" i& m; h. l. s( Q覺得好空虛, W0 e: I  i! B' Y
其實早幾次都有試過係咁$ v( W" S: e# s! Z
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己9 P- u, A/ S& G) [% O: j" e5 W
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?6 k) o- k5 _8 b  V( s5 e1 u0 [

( x  L9 @- k' F  f9 p, w& I[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
' O% W: W3 {' k' U* H2 j但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
$ w# g2 v1 G& ~% ?- G- ^7 Z+ t熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,4 {$ y7 p7 ?7 Q
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
9 B% _) Y4 ^5 [, y5 P' [4 F日日有車站,
4 g; b% u/ s1 L) ?  F有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙, U( R' e9 p2 o/ Y  y+ k$ b/ E. K4 U
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
  g+ T" |5 _7 C2 g* q如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.7 U9 ]% T. I) J* _' [
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
* j* G, ^- W' x* k2 N( z. H玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
4 V4 ]0 ~$ s6 n總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:! k) T  A/ x/ R
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
6 h# f2 V/ ~. j4 w2 P& k7 E6 f# x所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,  y. X* T3 _8 o* ^/ \9 h
日日有車站,, `8 O* F9 D( R/ O% s6 q: ?
有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:: o3 s! Y: b3 b2 P3 j
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
3 M# c6 B. D' q2 X) n* Z: q$ z好唔鍾意呢種感覺
9 n* L7 z# |8 x5 E/ j琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
$ {! x* J% s2 I. w& \個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣* v% E  f* a$ s! t" l) o
覺得好空虛2 v' z4 Y/ m' Q6 J) p( D
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
/ {+ ?6 a3 ?4 a; J0 a5 L% j卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己- ^# T/ q" r5 \7 N+ ?/ e
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?. X# `# F: @4 O

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, u; {$ t( b, X! k# b這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
* S/ d+ P' c! ^" }5 M5 {唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
/ T( V& q9 K9 ^8 a8 B4 ~有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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( {) \" k( v$ x  t8 }0 J3 |/ |! xPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:" y: H" Z( ~3 H3 f3 t
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
% I0 }( B3 B: \: }b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.  J% }$ o, c6 _- y* |  Q$ I. Z
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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( ?% K3 @- B2 E: ?6 a$ D4 J7 GJust another thought on lonliness:0 C8 L$ O4 e7 r# T# E3 @1 m: ~- Q
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....1 ^9 S7 p! [3 U( x3 ^
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
6 `5 {  Z* x5 h: R8 G3 V, ?我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
4 {$ ]8 g9 _( U% j8 O6 n6 T8 Z就好似睇完一套好睇的電影  l0 C' S! a8 l/ X( j1 b$ ~. {
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～, f, ^& ]) v# B2 R/ a9 }6 Y$ E
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
8 Y; h8 L! h- U& a  y; I; y7 F& n很少會超過一天～
# _) p; \/ Z4 d. ~- g7 z4 G" I要期待更好的明天呀！