熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?) x  {. \; F! z, `
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
& k+ s2 n/ e1 J( ?% L! P* l$ A2 G% d琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心/ k- z; e; Q1 d% K6 q% g
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
3 U! E- d, b2 P! k. [! ?$ _: [覺得好空虛
% |2 f$ _7 }5 j5 K0 J: \其實早幾次都有試過係咁
4 h  X7 A2 _: D9 R' L1 M卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己, s, C1 P! o: H( o/ d
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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, I* j; j. A7 o. s[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
* c: H6 K" z( }5 h4 O7 L: i但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
+ {1 W' E: \4 p2 ~熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
0 v) ]- U7 t, |2 G所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
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有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙7 I9 q& g! d7 @" U- E
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
- p( J- a7 Y4 b# p9 c/ d如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.* {  F% q1 Z* F
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
9 t& E7 A2 m$ `% C+ c玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
1 h7 Y1 j/ ?5 Y$ U* K總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
/ m) ]; l3 d7 E: b其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,9 G4 X9 }5 W) u& h* N9 c
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,/ ~& Y. n4 g) S) [
日日有車站,- X- g& M2 Q( w. E5 |. \3 P
有目標!

& ]; Y: N# p, a' A4 [what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
# u8 V# o5 U* o' l; x" d3 s如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?* q, Z+ J+ A7 X+ _, X
好唔鍾意呢種感覺4 e* {0 A8 {! `% ^; `- F
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心. s" P( L( b1 R. L
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣1 w& M. b$ u$ m+ _5 y$ o
覺得好空虛
8 f) ]. B  Y1 |' C- @其實早幾次都有試過係咁
+ d, {' Z+ y, g8 e! b, Q卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
; R% q! d1 x+ |: t$ z用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
7 E# ^$ g: ~4 k( z0 F% z# C# r唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.7 b; V3 Y8 I% H$ j0 d) ^! G
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.# m, i+ J0 Q9 R: j$ P/ P9 ^
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
) y' y2 B' r  R1 c' N2 O3 `  Fa) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long2 L7 x8 K( ~' a2 w8 H1 l) k
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.: z0 Z$ l3 e. P( h
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:
- l0 M  v7 H0 }/ v+ bLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
' C. H, n* Z2 C3 I5 {! VBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～' S- W+ W. D8 N; z  q  Q
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺2 u$ \; x! n' G1 ]. J, V; P+ {
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影$ K) r# i5 `; t# g) ]' z8 q9 W
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
! c( [7 F6 C; r4 I) P4 _$ D空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
" d. i3 g* S" I7 @% G* m很少會超過一天～9 H- A! Y9 [% O4 f2 c& n+ C0 I
要期待更好的明天呀！