熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?3 `1 n  F. k% J  {7 w9 v1 A
好唔鍾意呢種感覺1 D8 R. t, ?5 T) ?0 L1 H
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
" _0 ?( \, v6 t9 x/ V9 a% q: y0 u$ V個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
# E' Z* p! Y4 H: j6 V0 [9 U7 B& ]覺得好空虛
7 e( ^  M+ r, n; U( ~3 b5 ~( a其實早幾次都有試過係咁* B: V0 {; K  F, v( T
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己- @, t, r" l, D+ |+ q# Y8 D' p
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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" ]3 h+ |. X3 q( p+ n1 i+ R[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,# U2 _0 R! x- _& o2 l
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺. ?1 U5 l6 F. |% l+ q
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻," e+ N% i: d# U) ?6 i' }* s
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
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有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
& g& T" m. k8 J3 X/ l你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:# Q) s1 F) @+ H
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

8 u) V4 a' K* @我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
0 p) f1 Y/ r! h5 F2 L3 @感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..4 O1 h: l5 y% v+ b; A) ]$ O
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心./ O- s/ C9 T3 l: l
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
: W% ^0 _) h/ i/ e其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,6 b6 z* m/ G1 ?: M, r: j. m" R
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,  O9 ^! I# D* o- M; Y9 ~0 M
日日有車站,
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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
( c) t4 C* X& k. p* K4 l如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
- X, K/ p1 _9 n5 v- o好唔鍾意呢種感覺8 J( c% t" z0 {! |% S! @
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
. C9 V8 \# K% {; e4 E% u個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
% I' s0 z0 d# h% j  V覺得好空虛
& m+ Z8 L2 T. y其實早幾次都有試過係咁
$ H, {5 k% k0 ^$ w6 o卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
% {, x0 }) W' ^& \用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
1 m5 l2 j3 v8 L) X0 B  d, M唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
3 N$ m  s# }+ e  }( x" i有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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4 l9 x0 A& {) \  u5 F. t$ BPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:# ^9 N+ m- a, D& [
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
4 P# v4 u2 R) o' ~- u" vb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
4 |8 k$ G% j& U" o* @2 d, R7 rc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:9 I7 g2 u9 z6 ]" D$ O: Q
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
' E$ K6 Y0 a/ `' {But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～, B+ i" m# E9 O8 v+ G( Q
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺  g+ w4 _3 W! r9 j) k3 s
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影9 d# e& Q0 }. p$ m
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
% }6 M# a3 q$ g9 D& W. Y空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉  j4 C! q$ d6 ^3 T& A6 e: k
很少會超過一天～- @: }+ W  ?4 v* ]/ P+ y
要期待更好的明天呀！