熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?0 B" E. n/ T/ ]( b- [, q
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
; y6 ?7 I1 l; _9 Q琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
  p. h2 F+ r1 L' I- W個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
6 G) k- r0 l! ^/ O8 U0 j7 N( C覺得好空虛  ~; ^3 E7 p2 w$ e: H! K3 H
其實早幾次都有試過係咁6 n" P( [- x0 A
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己: B9 K' I* s8 ]% I3 F2 |
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?. C6 G. Y" L& h( P& L

  |" r5 ^# U: |$ w[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
& s! K- W& w6 U( N但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
, T( _4 G! @, }! O熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
' X3 T0 C1 ?2 f8 b9 Z1 \: k所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
( ]; l( i  V* e5 K日日有車站,- t- w2 x& Z, _2 h: v
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
' w$ A* o" v- Y3 I2 m& a( C你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
! N  j6 a' r; W$ K$ Z如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

% {( `* R" J5 P3 J我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶./ d* P3 o6 ~9 ]1 t3 Z
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
% \7 _6 m4 {# o: O% C玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.! l* ~8 a: Y1 ^/ P( t8 @- N
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
- S* S4 F# j! b% h! }6 ^/ E其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
: D  M3 X$ C3 \. G所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
# R# B# V4 ~% J. |  g日日有車站,  s3 y& l7 {- N& V! x
有目標!

7 Q1 V) U5 e6 e* s1 Z8 Cwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:# E2 T- Z/ K: c( C, c. N# O& u
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
& L2 L2 S; N$ L/ A% S% T) J/ ^好唔鍾意呢種感覺
3 \  Y) U# C+ q3 ^- G  t9 g6 n琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
: x8 s7 x. f" M$ C# d. J$ ^個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣" ?4 X; l$ H5 t" `! F. t5 V
覺得好空虛
3 @9 y8 W1 Q' T8 h2 _3 H6 K其實早幾次都有試過係咁- K6 d5 P% z+ P6 c
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
" V# ^7 o, u+ @4 N用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?  ~3 M& I' t+ `# S, E

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
/ M- }& [. g* G' I4 |9 l0 G唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.% Y# r- \% k: q
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own., B+ I+ C$ _) o( ^* n/ \

2 u* m' w. W* W8 L0 z2 ?5 SPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:% w( r8 \+ |3 I( Z4 S  S- Z% E
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
1 y) ^" b9 [2 mb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.- V! g  @. O8 }* d
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.3 p) y5 L/ N( L
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Just another thought on lonliness:8 A. g) E: u! ~* n/ @  F" d
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
3 O, X% d% x- j4 |! ^7 \5 q, vBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
1 O4 A. n* B/ [7 q+ y# j: N我會有一種十分空虛的感覺! e5 l/ `- ~/ p* u. C
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
2 O3 U9 ]- h: H, E) a, l  o) T或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～  @9 O; H$ ]/ Z2 j
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉8 G& ^) j8 f, i' l6 c; x1 J4 ~6 O
很少會超過一天～. A* G$ l. i* v6 M* ]. I
要期待更好的明天呀！