熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?+ z! a5 I( L( _
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
/ R7 j* y# ?; Z( R6 f) A5 T  a琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心+ c9 f; E& i# |9 I' [5 |
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣4 E; k1 v) }+ e7 b$ `) n) E- I  M
覺得好空虛1 e" Z5 q5 j9 {* s; {
其實早幾次都有試過係咁% K0 o: S$ L* ~( Z, h4 f6 Y4 s, v) W
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
9 u( G# F( h! F; }2 |3 L+ T4 L4 W用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
4 C3 Q- p' l+ Q" {: c6 u2 h6 |; K/ w
' T; q* D# N4 I2 r9 r; n  ?[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
( u3 _: ]/ N9 M但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺2 }  E, J6 O, j. j& X
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
/ Q% W' W2 H; c. S6 f1 c所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
+ V1 u: D3 B8 G3 w日日有車站,- y* D' @7 x3 G2 ], w
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙  ]4 S, v5 r$ r" b; y& @) k
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
5 T7 l) r9 w- Q# U4 c+ A/ Q/ g如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

/ G  t1 [- g+ c
我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.2 o: r% u* u8 F1 ?4 l+ p8 ?6 B& M
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..4 h% X9 L' j2 ^+ ~
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
/ o, B4 B6 r4 w" `, b# [& g總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:( G/ H% I- t0 H: D7 h
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
0 ^, S* o$ k0 O1 g4 N所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
. ^/ e0 T" f! c% t" n, G$ Z! L. h日日有車站,
: w" w$ {1 @* Z1 A有目標!

$ n4 [- L$ z0 R$ m: @# Z& L) W
what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:; e( W6 k3 K2 a2 |4 H2 n5 M+ k0 c
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
! |9 S2 c# t3 ]5 `+ Z0 J! G好唔鍾意呢種感覺0 y. L2 h# d/ m4 u
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心3 U# k# k( |; H) w3 L
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣" K6 Y3 r! c) b4 }3 |
覺得好空虛
. o8 f! r/ _0 }1 t其實早幾次都有試過係咁
& C8 _+ {0 L7 A( ?5 j5 A+ C1 T卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
0 t- e; D" ?9 S, L: v) D4 I用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?) A- o' D  d( q8 P

, S4 b* Q1 T0 B6 O5 K

8 w, o6 z" W# H; R+ Q) b$ \3 f  N這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
) J7 i2 _3 l) Z; T7 r& O& f唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
& W+ s# m. |+ i" u% u有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.! `+ s4 C6 x* C4 ~. ^/ Q2 N0 k

' h7 [# K! w# q+ O# c) ^" j+ FPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
/ K1 j. g% s/ M9 C; G" Wa) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long3 Z/ f% G2 o0 B, x& V& D" i3 g
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone./ q" @- @2 e5 r! ~' A
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.1 ^" _# g3 p* G( U2 f  J$ `( t

% \& T$ f% G9 C( \- X; R8 Z$ nJust another thought on lonliness:
+ ?7 W8 [% B" XLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....  D& L, O2 r& s' K  H' z
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
0 }7 o  P' y) u! I7 |我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
% p# b" Y! E! l  O+ j+ {就好似睇完一套好睇的電影6 P4 m: r/ p( q  K4 z$ w
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
0 [8 ~2 P" `8 n9 O7 x$ R空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
% u% O2 o/ e; F& X7 T$ t很少會超過一天～
! R/ q( u  P5 L: Q. ^# K8 C3 _要期待更好的明天呀！