熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
  L; f) G9 V+ G2 K4 q好唔鍾意呢種感覺
, a8 {- {2 p8 z3 V琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
6 v- l% i  M9 U) |個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣+ r' a1 y" {6 K8 M! U" M' n
覺得好空虛+ J% ]0 g9 v6 ~/ ^( ~' i
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
0 v& @0 Y+ S( V; a! f& x6 V卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
+ x# I' |( N  ~: e0 ]  H9 @用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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& Q5 O& e3 w2 T9 G" e[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
9 Z; r+ h2 w- m5 F! J但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
4 z( `; D$ F, P3 `! T5 l熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,3 F9 ~/ ]0 \& _  s5 M) x/ s
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
- n  Q1 R+ M8 i8 A日日有車站,
# P5 C% a  p# S0 V; \4 h) M) s5 I有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙" {8 {# ]4 p2 d6 p7 w" S
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
: b" U( [2 z" e  B如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

6 R. g- e& a$ d/ K( E我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
% [! @/ E; T4 H8 k" m, C6 J7 R$ a感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
0 L$ M: s; \1 F2 o8 L+ k9 j( J玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心./ r  J% {  n: `- O- [. \/ x
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:2 _' `" s# J% z3 l1 Q; m- w' t8 [
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,# r( J7 ^( U; j7 }
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,  o. Z) R( \7 q
日日有車站,
! ^2 l2 W- S' \# m( e$ q6 i有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
+ v6 q, Q+ A6 m; [) g6 G如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?8 N9 o, F: |0 j" I2 q8 Y5 I3 B
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
* g$ I. K9 m; {$ g, {7 M/ q" [琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
% J2 x2 {  N  k個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
9 K8 W8 P/ V2 ^* j! J. Q覺得好空虛
( P2 u. F# s  u; y& J6 U8 w其實早幾次都有試過係咁
8 {  D) e2 N) i) E卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己2 `9 ]- L" H7 ?& k& v! {
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?! i0 h& h+ W5 ~2 W" W; [

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.4 j; S. `! ]0 Y" V$ W; w" A8 i3 u. [
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.% M3 Z, O8 V0 m$ Q( b9 \! l0 J
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.( T3 l3 H# {$ |( P4 y

9 _9 V  ]/ g8 g- T% I3 P7 D3 hPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:$ M/ M$ N5 c$ n0 ]( z6 A) ]6 R
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long6 w$ _/ p: m2 K/ d
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.  I) j' O9 c' c1 z9 p
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.3 P4 d; I6 c+ A7 w

5 b' y6 s2 q4 s7 G+ pJust another thought on lonliness:, g% {1 F% ~5 C5 f. F/ X
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....! ^) Q! U7 V6 k$ ^% }& p
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
1 G9 [: V; _5 z7 n我會有一種十分空虛的感覺: z+ d3 j7 |& {4 e2 p9 S# Q% L! N0 }& s
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
3 \3 W7 M  Q9 t. O0 K或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～- K# m' q# z' @( H7 U
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉) S" w4 y; V9 i, U3 ^+ p& H
很少會超過一天～' i% Z" R' @$ S) {9 O, \8 u6 a6 J
要期待更好的明天呀！