熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?/ s$ [- r% q$ n8 F8 \! l/ C% z
好唔鍾意呢種感覺( F( z* R3 ~% \% @0 e: G
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心7 |, a6 g7 [/ q- r; N/ Y4 R
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
4 x3 V' ?9 U5 o  o覺得好空虛. B: T* [) C% q- B; I! ?! O2 g  O
其實早幾次都有試過係咁1 j/ p5 i1 f, v0 p8 B2 H
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
( `7 C  X: I( a* K4 W6 R5 t6 d用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?2 }7 J0 l  o" ]) h. m! u- V/ G

2 q1 W6 u/ M2 ^9 `[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
, u6 M1 o; z. A2 @, h但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
2 p* ?! e" y: ~# Q3 o5 j熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,) ^5 s& F, Z' z& S
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
6 Z; h2 M, v, O日日有車站,
, k+ ^8 N+ u/ t3 K% H+ M有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙% \) g& W! c  g8 M3 n" N6 Q, U
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
2 q% i+ K6 M8 E3 E, M% _如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

# ~  g1 {1 g- C0 k3 W我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.+ x% e7 b: g3 U2 u2 J
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..8 O* s0 f5 _7 S
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.0 |' n1 `1 t" D8 G$ [! Y
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
4 {' h% R1 `8 P! f$ Q其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
3 l5 ~+ U) y9 Z7 r0 j( U: S所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,8 s* ^/ L  B0 o; X  j1 j$ G
日日有車站,
* L) |# {4 }0 @* k8 K- |有目標!

( w9 B$ `' Y) _- _+ L5 iwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:' |. p% w& b8 x
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?8 |# U0 _# K7 D" H- N! W6 D
好唔鍾意呢種感覺& d+ T9 j3 j7 \7 A8 m! v
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
# J6 I; x  c% C. W6 R個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
# z) N& U0 [& Y, u3 M; G覺得好空虛
6 p7 a% W+ T3 M3 C0 c. F其實早幾次都有試過係咁, J- l$ ]* J3 ?/ s
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
1 Q/ O  A% O9 D, w! r9 O用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
1 z: z  l. T0 U6 T

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  ^$ U, w; {6 s9 X. [8 N( ]" `8 y這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.7 i7 z. `# H, @
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.5 I# |) \5 k2 j8 h6 G5 N& t* [
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.3 @) ^% o# V( x4 U% S0 U- j1 Y

$ o* I+ L+ @+ E6 S% WPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
3 g/ z9 V& K/ U! d9 B  z7 ha) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
: t' Z* I8 N" u8 Bb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.+ e+ W. W8 q+ l' ~* @* C% N
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.. c$ l2 M! C2 Z/ f* ?7 ]+ X
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Just another thought on lonliness:# M+ p7 o, n8 m& M
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....2 [! f/ ]/ [& G* G9 D: L2 |( X, p
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～# V! O* C8 i& Y! ~6 d
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺# E/ a7 o$ o9 M
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
9 v- S+ C, B8 ]8 Y或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～; o8 m- w5 f/ m
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
7 s7 A( m  C3 ~& K  `1 q很少會超過一天～
5 {) v; B) k/ z! {. G, H* O要期待更好的明天呀！