熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?# c) P2 Q4 e8 i: z) J! U
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
8 `- c; k7 I: \7 u/ w琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心) V2 m! E0 Q" }, N; e$ o; h
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
+ U, U/ n3 o, {$ G" K覺得好空虛
9 U6 p( v+ M1 p/ S! W其實早幾次都有試過係咁* ^6 g. B2 a' \8 ]  _
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
* ]; u7 d3 A$ M2 O/ q$ w: p9 q用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?8 [( C) ?# ]" U+ b7 H+ X6 w) m
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,7 z4 g. X( o4 [5 e" Q+ `- {( }
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺2 G7 \$ n* e% q, P  r
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
9 l! }+ K7 w/ E' m' O8 r$ U) ]9 T; G所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
0 y( K. d5 q+ U# X. l7 v) ~6 j4 X1 C日日有車站,
/ R) ^" X: i9 p& A) d, I  d5 i有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
" G/ N+ K, g9 Q/ L! R. h你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:* n0 |1 K0 z/ W9 {6 x& `. T
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
0 ]  O; t  l# w8 B( u8 H感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
# O: W3 K2 q1 F4 H- |' F玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.) X8 b0 L" d8 f8 K- D
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:- \. K+ `" p% G$ d3 v0 ]
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
0 o9 g, E+ U! R* E( x, ]所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,4 H& u0 P& b+ t( t. @
日日有車站,
5 o& g0 K4 B6 k. V5 n* ~' ?/ _6 T- R" U有目標!

( q+ @& e" b+ B* j# B3 l; pwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
( f: B" b% W1 v/ i6 x如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
4 R) J) [8 r- b7 ^/ S" O) D, C好唔鍾意呢種感覺
" ]/ l  s! U9 n3 P! @3 ~7 H* N: T琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
8 O0 Q2 E. O! C4 ^個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
1 X2 N. i( ~+ L( ?: K覺得好空虛
, ?" E8 J0 D- H; k* X其實早幾次都有試過係咁7 h* G/ ?* s- E9 z
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
  b% L# S, ~% f) G. s用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?  ^% H1 x! y8 p- \1 U8 r

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.) f' s- P! {7 x& W
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
( i  |- ~0 r: y2 ~& a/ c有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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7 v+ K- k: c4 }" I" ?People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:3 L. s' k) F& c2 g/ z' ~! e
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
& A% ^4 M- w. W2 c- A8 [9 Gb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
- `) f" D: {7 V) O& Zc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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- u6 t) t" N" R! VJust another thought on lonliness:
. D# b! t" E9 j, d+ G. SLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....4 E3 z# ^" ^8 B: o/ U% z, [6 i
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
9 Y! M' ^4 }5 k& s我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
+ ]) A, K7 q5 V7 H# D就好似睇完一套好睇的電影9 s! F' @; c4 U1 w* @0 f
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
- I6 v+ F! Y0 Z( e6 Q) E# Q( v空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉; y9 q5 r; _/ _4 o( r/ \: e
很少會超過一天～* _9 e2 X: q9 ?& H
要期待更好的明天呀！