熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
0 m1 o9 z+ E( H* P4 V# _- I7 d好唔鍾意呢種感覺
6 R" X7 K( d: e; @琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心' `4 f+ v' n$ J2 N: y
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣. O6 _3 e6 ^0 K4 N5 M
覺得好空虛
! t% V( U" f; F, J  {% h其實早幾次都有試過係咁9 A+ U! R' N, w, F' T+ D
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己2 f) i( c& T' `2 x2 b! k0 g
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?" \# F3 O) T4 R' |& R

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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,* f8 V9 o$ }" I
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
/ t4 h0 o' v( R5 p1 ~) b0 @6 d熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
2 A" y& P! P5 K0 K3 t: g) F所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
$ u# W6 w) a; t$ r日日有車站,
) s4 F# C0 |' _有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙1 o) i& c. V" s% W: A
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:& P& @+ A# u( J; p! P) b
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

1 D) [# X9 m5 I! ?我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
+ K2 H  O# X: G0 n! M+ o感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..6 E& u, d- y2 ~  ^4 Y
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
7 Q, V2 U0 P! Y! {, I總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
8 Z4 t4 Q4 A$ C, _6 Z5 e其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
. }, b3 \, w+ J所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,+ M' D1 p2 }6 I+ Y# q
日日有車站,
% ~: X/ ]/ ], U4 h* y有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:& D- |7 O0 i9 t! j& a
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?2 j0 v" C3 ]. o" d
好唔鍾意呢種感覺1 K/ s$ r8 ~; a! H1 y! s4 t8 g
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心/ c8 J3 j, j) M( g  W: p+ ~/ C% l- t
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣7 U# J' x/ `3 t
覺得好空虛
+ x7 O; K+ z. M; X7 t# S其實早幾次都有試過係咁
1 t. N4 h* q5 d: M5 P; a卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己# j) T" W. b. O6 x, ~& g$ n! R
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
% D; p+ O  }$ U唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.' P$ k1 v# d& j0 c+ ~
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.2 L% r- Z. Y, A) |8 f6 b
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:$ V/ T( Z4 |) w, ]2 v% @
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
0 u" X/ P5 t& b+ c/ v, t6 Ob) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.' _6 i! I7 i, V/ L' t! Q
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.2 D9 M$ j' e0 {5 i- S4 k% o4 i

0 f0 i- S; {7 {5 \/ m* rJust another thought on lonliness:
1 S- f( a8 |  p# `7 oLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
+ X! P7 _: ]( g" l" H: IBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～. R$ [% S0 n8 O
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
# C; U$ j& u: K; Y就好似睇完一套好睇的電影7 m4 @$ S8 r$ O( G
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～' e1 C7 \. r9 P0 b* X1 u! \, d
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉! Y$ y8 _+ ^2 M: w7 a7 q! J& f
很少會超過一天～0 r( B1 d$ G5 a5 ^5 n9 J3 C' N
要期待更好的明天呀！