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yeung hiu he

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星期四是我女友生日, 本來開開心心, 我準備好所有野, 包括禮物, 晚飯,生日蛋糕以及一束鮮花, 心想她生日比她一個大驚喜, 點知為左準備咁多野超左自己的預算用多左, 原本諗住整個計劃都是四千左右, 但是買左以下物件就超哂資

禮物: 一條不夠一卡的鑽石手鏈 - 3200
一束花 : 400
蛋糕: 270
晚飯 : 600

我自己份人工只有萬三, 每個月都要比家人五千, 另外同女友儲起三千, 餘下的就自己洗, 但因為我每個月都要還卡數, 所以個個月頭我都用哂所有$$, 之後成個月就靠女友啦, 今個月我又洗哂d $$, 準備她生日, 還咭數, 比家用, 儲$$, 一下子已經無哂份糧! 有時出街食飯都要女友比, 之後今日同女友講起, 她知道我用哂成份糧, 係度發哂脾氣話我又用哂, 咁她生日無意思啦, 最後咪又係她比番$$, 我好傷心因為我一心為她生日去準備, 我都不知道會超哂資, 但她只覺得我份糧一個星期內便用哂, 而成個月就好似她貼我咁, 我都唔好受架, 我一個男人要用女友的$$, 她完全唔理解我, 還要去怨我, 真是好不開心, 難道今次又是我錯!
最估唔到的她可以講得出如果係咁她不稀罕我為她準備生日, 寧願我儲番d $$, 我這一刻心碎, 原本做咁多野都係為她開心, 她居然咁講野, 我真是好唔開心, 真是為她做咁多野都是浪費心機!

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[ Last edited by yeung hiu he on 2008-7-8 at 11:17 PM ]

SCM

我唔知幫唔幫到你
因為我未應付過呢d事

其實你有冇一d錢未必需要洗
慳得就慳 等咭數都唔洗比咁多........

自由神

許志安 - 男人最痛

心突然的隱隱痛
如空穴來了陣寒風
沒法強忍　看你偷泣的眼
看你朝思夜盼　我再蠢都會懂

明知是仍捨不得你
我亦寧願讓情有疾而終
若你要走　你只須講一句
對我狠心地去　說愛今天告終

怎麼偏躲於漆黑中
讓我永遠看你看不通
再不想擔心也不想　一切被動
難忍再次偶爾於街中
望你忐忑因他出現失控
而男人最痛　男人最痛算這種

長苦為何不肯短痛
我問如因為難棄這情種
願你放心　我會好好的過
我怎麼的做我　也勝過今天似瘋

coolyiceman

你有萬三蚊個月都要洗女人＄
你的理財能力真係好差
男人無＄已經頭痛
你仲要洗女人＄
你女友一ｄ安全感都無

MBA

I can understand what you feel.  You are disappointed because you planned to give her a big surprise.  However, i also understand why your gf is so upset.  She might think that you can give her surprise and make her happy today but what happen tomorrow if you have no money.  What are you going to do.  What happen if she married you.  I think she is actually happy with what you've done.  Just upset about how you manage your money.  $13000 is really not much to spend.  Read some personal financial management books might help you.  Good luck..

jen01二世

Originally posted by yeung hiu he at 2008-7-8 11:04 PM:
各位版主, 版友, 小弟想係度呻一下, 希望可以容許我這樣做!
不容許的可以立即delete!

星期四是我女友生日, 本來開開心心, 我準備好所有野, 包括禮物, 晚飯,生日蛋糕以及一束鮮花, 心想她生日比她一個大驚喜, 點知為左準備咁多野超左自己的預算用多左, 原本諗住整個計劃都是四千左右, 但是買左以下物件就超哂資

禮物: 一條不夠一卡的鑽石手鏈 - 3200
一束花 : 400
蛋糕: 270
晚飯 : 600

我自己份人工只有萬三, 每個月都要比家人五千, 另外同女友儲起三千, 餘下的就自己洗, 但因為我每個月都要還卡數, 所以個個月頭我都用哂所有$$, 之後成個月就靠女友啦, 今個月我又洗哂d $$, 準備她生日, 還咭數, 比家用, 儲$$, 一下子已經無哂份糧! 有時出街食飯都要女友比, 之後今日同女友講起, 她知道我用哂成份糧, 係度發哂脾氣話我又用哂, 咁她生日無意思啦, 最後咪又係她比番$$, 我好傷心因為我一心為她生日去準備, 我都不知道會超哂資, 但她只覺得我份糧一個星期內便用哂, 而成個月就好似她貼我咁, 我都唔好受架, 我一個男人要用女友的$$, 她完全唔理解我, 還要去怨我, 真是好不開心, 難道今次又是我錯!
最估唔到的她可以講得出如果係咁她不稀罕我為她準備生日, 寧願我儲番d $$, 我這一刻心碎, 原本做咁多野都係為她開心, 她居然咁講野, 我真是好唔開心, 真是為她做咁多野都是浪費心機!

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係你自己大洗 ?? 定有事還卡數 ??

[ Last edited by jen01二世 on 2008-7-8 at 11:43 PM ]

極樂

好坦白講, 我覺得你好有問題....你俾我既感覺係"洗腳唔抺腳"果種人...
一個月搵萬三, 扣五千家用, 扣三千儲錢, 仲剩五千.....月頭已經可以用曬五千 (包括你講既卡數)....你話你係咪好大使先?! 如果唔係女朋友迫你儲果三千...睇怕你真係仙都唔仙下啦!
個個月都要用女朋友錢....我係個女仔都唔鐘意啦!!
無錯! 理論上你幫佢攪個生日真係好特別...正常都會好鐘意D禮物~~不過, 唔係要你去碌卡數黎買囉!我相信你女朋友都好矛盾...又鐘意D禮物, 但係唔鐘意你碌卡數碌到成身債.....望住條鍊都唔知好嬲定好笑......

我唔知你卡數有幾多, 但係我建議你搵"債務重組", 即係"安X兄弟"果D....應該會還少D息....
之後慳D使, 儲返多D錢....出街就由你俾錢啦! 一個月搵萬三, 其實已經好多架啦!如果你慳D...生活好過D~~

自由神

Originally posted by coolyiceman at 2008-7-8 11:38 PM:
你有萬三蚊個月都要洗女人＄
你的理財能力真係好差
男人無＄已經頭痛
你仲要洗女人＄
你女友一ｄ安全感都無

你無睇清楚？
人工只有萬三, 每個月都要比家人五千, 另外同女友儲起三千, 餘下的就自己洗, 但因為我每個月都要還卡數
13000-5000-3000=5000
禮物: 一條不夠一卡的鑽石手鏈 - 3200一束花 : 400蛋糕: 270晚飯 : 600
5000-3200-400-270-600=530
530仲要還卡數

呢個月要使女人錢真係....無計

平時佢一個月自己使，要交咩費咩費咁，5000都唔頂得幾耐

加上每個月有3000係for佢同佢女朋友
咁.........都算情有可願既

finalmusicgod

你還清條CARD數先唸其他啦！條女嬲你都啱吖，無咁大過頭唔好帶咁大頂帽啦。無D預算，失敗吖你。

slwong3

Actually, I would see this in another way.  From what I read from your post, you should be glad that you have her to be your girlfriend.  Your girlfriend would rather sacrifice her birthday, she would rather not having those expensive birthday gifts but to make you save more money and concentrate more on your personal economic situation.

Your girlfriend said that to you because she understands you are not rich and you don't earn that much.  She doesn't want you to waste money on her birthday.  Maybe her words were harsh at the time she spoke to you but you should concider more about the meaning behind this.

On the other hand, if I was you, as a man, I wouldn't leave the girl to pay for everything like that even if I use up all the money.(remember we are man....not just the "faces" but it is also our responsibility to take care our other half)

Also, from your post that you mentioned, it seems like it is not your girlfriends who is the type of person who use up your money fast.  It is just your own problem that you do not manage your income and expense good enough.  You know you don't earn that much from your salary....why would you still spend 3200 to buy that birthday gift.....

I can tell you are not mature enough to balance between your income and emotions.
This is also the reason why your girlfriend would get angry on you.