熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?) Y; Q& e, R  c: j
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
- t7 [7 n3 g+ F. s7 g0 `7 M( c& O0 O琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心9 A2 N5 N6 @( T: B% R
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
8 X/ q, V; \0 S  O; O覺得好空虛
" l$ L0 V5 c, ]' z8 [% m1 i其實早幾次都有試過係咁
& v0 R* a! C. n7 @6 ^2 x# p卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
9 f6 Q9 C6 p! W& s" q7 J用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?! ?( p! z( V% H3 W# G
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,8 u- r+ z- W) u5 @# }* C
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺2 Z; X; @, J3 ?7 [7 j$ I$ M2 ^
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,0 m4 E4 d  X  J
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,$ ~% m. n& J1 n1 f
日日有車站,
3 f+ {* R) T; s# \8 b3 }+ l有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙) |. p: j$ \& ?3 V4 S, R
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
) t. ?! b2 X8 A5 R  s; \6 n如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.( Z/ k+ P, t6 W. ]
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
7 V  [& S8 _' h# [玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
3 w1 r- _+ V) ]2 Z$ X0 j總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
6 r! {1 ?! N9 R+ D$ l" _其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,7 A$ e8 I) X3 S- F& ]5 Q
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
- o# q  e* c. a0 m+ K6 Q日日有車站,
/ y! ]: l- r* }# w# o& J* Y; _有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
  _3 k/ b0 R# p9 i  G& [( {如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?6 M4 y: Q+ k, I2 r% e* P
好唔鍾意呢種感覺7 e; M( ~3 X* e4 E; i
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心+ p9 A  C) K) |$ ]9 R9 T$ ?
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣6 {% i; P# S  z( p, e
覺得好空虛
+ f: h( d8 F( A* k, W其實早幾次都有試過係咁
- \( x0 V- K5 {8 q! Z% o! p: D卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己5 f5 r3 Y; V# `
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?. r& Y  O$ e% B! H+ W7 R

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4 H6 u. N, N4 I( l) T. j這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦., q7 d- e( F1 @+ }
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.) N" z- r& f9 ?! G: D, _8 W
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.! G& O+ K1 L0 h# u; b. G

% F. S+ S0 r7 w1 e# I6 B* VPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
4 j# i4 Z; k: q! g, Oa) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
2 P, w6 ^" y9 Nb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.# t7 t* E& k' l0 P2 K9 w# K
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.1 h) U3 L8 i, R& c

! A9 ^0 @" H( f7 ]6 t# `2 SJust another thought on lonliness:
4 Q5 O+ |: T* D7 N/ m% lLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time...../ x* o4 i8 i  u# l6 l
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
& x/ b- ^0 F, k* Z4 y我會有一種十分空虛的感覺* A# h& f, m9 W
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
/ S! s: ]  L& U; A9 j( a# v# o或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～2 n( _6 ]0 ~5 G# O* t. U' G
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉4 D$ ]! h' ^( _' o3 j2 [# Y4 H
很少會超過一天～
) V( g! y0 @! M4 ], ~( S要期待更好的明天呀！