熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?6 C: W1 H; F. I6 Z! B. ]
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
& R8 V- M* c! ~' Q4 e1 j# q琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心$ C" W8 [' T# \2 S( _
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣3 u4 v" H- Y: ?( M
覺得好空虛
$ A8 G8 I. K7 Z6 j其實早幾次都有試過係咁0 Q  Y& F$ m# s6 c
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
# H& W- K* [3 Y1 F9 y4 @$ w( F$ o用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,* a3 L3 n' d( i9 [; z9 Z
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
/ E0 h! b% [. W8 ]/ B熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
! C' V  ]; {) d! b. h所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
5 N4 X0 C9 h6 Q" J9 M+ D7 ]日日有車站,
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taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
1 C. B& t8 ]; [6 C( q0 ]你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:* V3 X# m; a" q1 `( ^
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

/ @, L. R/ J6 V) ?) Q+ ^) e我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.+ s" L, z5 o# F7 h: H, U
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..1 Q* O6 o- [. V
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.0 N2 \" |- w  g( @+ _
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:7 L+ Q+ U$ n+ v8 K0 F, n* V6 H9 T
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,1 D2 }2 j/ {2 p' `; o4 L* h
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,- G  G: L7 a2 d5 V' q8 @
日日有車站,
8 o7 {) [7 X  A0 i% ]5 F有目標!

9 y( {# {! Q& E  P4 {what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
1 p3 k& H' v9 k& Z; O如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
" h" l" i, H2 Y5 T+ n' r好唔鍾意呢種感覺
6 u8 F' N% ~4 @+ }- b8 R% Q琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
# S* I" Q: l% N; b* P, X1 r/ E' }& H個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣3 W9 n& \" ~; k2 Q
覺得好空虛: k& c; q' r% V, A
其實早幾次都有試過係咁/ i  |7 }" ^9 d
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
7 R4 H# P( R* A7 }用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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0 P: g' \5 A, }# c+ v這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
8 b5 O" G  C& ~1 @4 m唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.* d3 V' e( I# q. Z
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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, |2 B" D* ^/ I; KPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:2 X& G% Z. j! p7 R
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long, W% ?; B* {: V- m; [" D7 R3 A! Y7 M
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
8 e5 d  e/ m, Lc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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* c( o: M5 y  n1 d( Z5 w( F  aJust another thought on lonliness:' [) v& G6 H2 h' L& Y9 T
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....  j- M! r5 y5 J& J, T
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
. [# o) F' q& i& R; V我會有一種十分空虛的感覺& s# q# T0 d9 Q( T% J
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影3 z# C* t6 G: J. H
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
+ I: P' l; v: |$ g# M+ [空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉3 t* R( u( j; u: O) r& w
很少會超過一天～
$ O7 n! G8 u8 R2 i+ D- f! @要期待更好的明天呀！