熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
8 E8 s5 G4 J& P  f: `好唔鍾意呢種感覺6 l- Q* p, q9 u
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
  G- x8 {, c0 m( p$ K個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣  `6 ~% z& C. _. S3 H9 H& b6 w8 ^
覺得好空虛
: V) E# D/ |5 m# b" Z: Y其實早幾次都有試過係咁
" o) ~9 `$ G0 |% w9 ^卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
6 P9 D7 I- x4 I$ P% Q用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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  V$ ?: m" X! ~7 c- @7 x[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,: Q7 O* X$ h0 ~
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺5 u. \" ~' p# E" l2 x/ F- B1 P
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
5 h7 _9 h' \- ^% y6 E' r. s所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
; r$ L$ d. n; D. `. w日日有車站,
. b$ ^, t7 o5 g. n( O; v- ^/ F1 k有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙2 U& a( C1 t2 t" v8 q4 F6 N
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:9 Y/ l  r' ~( T% a5 U/ a
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
$ ]1 r* C/ }; ^. n感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..7 |6 @" ]3 o' a8 \; B" w2 e0 w% o
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.0 R) |% |7 P3 B: T
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
9 V% _2 r# t3 [% l其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,/ A' g& S: q) p
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
8 s5 n5 a9 P3 V" G" e' }日日有車站,, d9 [- @% ]2 n
有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
4 `* O8 [- N! e% R& ]7 @, J5 E7 }如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
' \: @" C8 z. a$ S7 j好唔鍾意呢種感覺
, P% W9 ]: ^8 T$ C/ S琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心# W9 [3 S1 K9 a2 f+ ]; h( n
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
/ P3 W' G0 Y" E; o+ [覺得好空虛
& M1 R/ Y- @6 l: N其實早幾次都有試過係咁% D: c, v" V8 H. B! m' x
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己1 L8 n3 Z, `8 C1 d. ~
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?/ C' e& K4 Q: E9 A& s1 w) C! o

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
2 Z$ `$ X  N% a0 ?$ m唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.! T2 K3 |9 T0 q* D* m
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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  I' f- `2 a  F3 I$ HPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:6 a& _# Z. O; e0 x* P) N; F
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
$ i3 _5 k3 _& E! T* m# j* l) f8 ab) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
9 x* A, e( h5 c! ^c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:( T# l# f3 {- G* m
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....7 h7 m$ d8 h( l! C6 ~
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
1 V' G* C3 [$ H( _我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
3 S& E# q: W% @( U2 {& j4 b就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
- P6 `9 o( {  j  k  h5 X7 ]* p或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
5 m9 h$ U! w8 C& ], a空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
! K) l& b( M1 X+ X很少會超過一天～
3 T2 L9 l8 m+ o$ c" r% U要期待更好的明天呀！