熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
4 S  S0 Q! o, V5 ~) |1 w5 U好唔鍾意呢種感覺
1 Z4 X8 s/ t' I7 e# k% C琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心' q( [4 U/ Z6 H0 i
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
% }) o- g% H3 w, A* B' D8 O1 X覺得好空虛0 k% {; p6 [  V5 Y
其實早幾次都有試過係咁7 ~& y  e! b. V
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己0 y* G3 y( j3 ~+ r1 k
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
6 c5 t+ H0 ~$ n/ M但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺. T8 F; |- D6 A% a7 {2 e
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,+ ~$ @" D) S& x5 n$ I% z$ s# X% l; n
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
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有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙& P1 }2 o6 N- Q# E9 V# o; J$ R) b
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:2 {5 E& I! u) M; X6 Q
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

7 ]$ e, B; \. ^" n% m5 r: M7 I3 [我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.$ F. g! O) D+ `9 M
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..3 |; z" v3 S& l3 u" f
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.5 }4 a0 c5 y3 {4 C: z6 t( T
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:$ b" S$ ?, k0 M2 [$ t
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
; `! ~3 d& i/ X) k所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,9 P/ M) r4 ]5 k; o0 W" L) @
日日有車站,7 }) R8 g7 A1 Y' R( P
有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
6 V* ~& z' M6 j5 }  m5 R如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?8 [8 t; c: D& R; j" {& ]+ x) u
好唔鍾意呢種感覺' ]/ o2 g; x! h* w
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心2 C- t9 }. J" L
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣' Q7 b9 `" e3 }. X5 x
覺得好空虛
$ V" t: t7 z3 d0 _& Q其實早幾次都有試過係咁4 i: h8 U5 r) @
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
" O( Q9 d$ c# T, M1 m: t用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
  ?5 j- L/ `5 t3 x5 r

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
4 }4 x( D9 Q5 w' y7 T/ o唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
+ L1 @/ w& H- Z7 y7 `有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:9 [0 v* ?9 y/ w3 R& H7 h
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
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c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:
, }3 M- w9 e9 l' }# n( yLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
1 z- R: M( R- I9 }& C0 v4 QBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
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就好似睇完一套好睇的電影  [, R( h2 B4 `9 m6 ^0 u
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
5 d1 Q9 W. _+ B& p+ M. O) O, p空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
0 g$ W# ~# d0 G! H4 S- r  i- G很少會超過一天～
# H- S9 E% h: V要期待更好的明天呀！