熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?+ Y  ]8 F2 r" n' p3 `! ~2 q, A& x( |
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
4 {' [; J. H! b2 c$ L4 h琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心0 v8 o& v! q. o& K& _$ r% E/ |
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣! G& C  W# U# }: |5 q
覺得好空虛
$ N/ \8 r0 m0 @- t  p" J其實早幾次都有試過係咁0 y5 y# ^" [  ?! E0 e$ D
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己) Y7 F5 H2 b3 a; b; O: K/ y
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?5 i( K2 L1 L  w; |! Q

9 B4 c$ t2 |  {8 q2 X% u. [[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
2 j$ n+ Y8 a- Z" G8 A) z5 e但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺$ O' L  j  D' P$ `
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
8 u/ d( w, H' w  b* f1 x4 B4 j所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
/ `, S8 \: Q' {0 v日日有車站,5 _8 `2 c2 o% i% E  n9 ]5 k
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
& X. ]' M/ {" v* i; \6 p. T你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
. J% j! M) g  m3 k如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

& g) S! m# l# K" M4 L6 j我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
" u; K$ ^4 \2 _+ u/ d- L. o! X感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..( @. R. F8 l* L0 Q& \
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.3 D! X9 G9 ?" p8 X; b( K
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:* m% }: i- H/ A9 w* A9 Z* G
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
! O$ \2 y) e3 i. M7 V0 k4 A1 V所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,. [" \+ T/ }1 T! t0 n
日日有車站,) m# {/ O3 y$ x" T+ j8 u2 h
有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:- G9 ^' U) ]: c# i
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?9 w/ E! z' ?' w" y) Z
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
3 Y1 U! o& Y+ g$ z/ U5 d% ?琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
  ?( s" T& q3 v# V7 `* p個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣, e' f% ]; ?( f' S+ K  E  p# e
覺得好空虛
9 `9 f. x& D5 f" F/ v4 r其實早幾次都有試過係咁
% F( _4 k0 x0 ], \8 o& j卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
( o; J9 d- G8 W, [/ x% L' i  a" l用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?) y2 X# o. y3 E

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.5 ]+ V/ f/ N( @+ g# o! O* G( s
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.0 w$ J# j( s: E3 q; p+ R8 x  a
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.* u/ l' N' B7 N1 s

4 ~( C; M. }8 F& k! ~People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:4 @* u% f+ t% P  s& t, q
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
4 ^4 A& _8 |4 X# E% C- q9 y5 Gb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
/ r0 h. t* E" Mc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.! K9 H6 f" F' ?! T, N4 R' G
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Just another thought on lonliness:; N( Z+ K# I$ z% j8 j
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
! b% q! {5 N% b' e5 VBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
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就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
  i' X" F8 H" N1 [或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
0 Y7 ^9 Y+ F$ T4 d空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉9 K/ R$ c: O7 E. |
很少會超過一天～0 d& n6 f" z: ~" D, r3 y3 P
要期待更好的明天呀！