熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?) \- I4 P! p+ C0 X# L! r, v
好唔鍾意呢種感覺  Y4 H% _. w6 y" g: n. Y
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心7 f7 Z1 k0 x9 s& @- B
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
+ Q+ I* j& O1 G2 e7 }5 ]* H覺得好空虛
3 y5 o% P/ S9 Q% m, h; O- w其實早幾次都有試過係咁
7 o; F  n' L6 A, B* z, g" C卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
7 L% X# D+ M4 }用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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: t5 L3 b) d1 l* W. I7 S/ @[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
4 x3 x7 p2 p- i- [+ ~: H但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
: s; g; H* i( o! [# d6 S: k熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,! _" ]8 B( o! Z4 }
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
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有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
, t6 m2 o( t5 w) o: e你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
9 p, L2 Z/ g( v8 n4 E如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

! D$ g' x: Y' ^, ]我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.3 S& v4 |5 o* w4 U7 ?. Q
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..) A3 [/ X' ]/ u) W9 }
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
' f' m5 E( A' I# ]0 R/ l總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
, w1 o8 f- |4 x# r6 J其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
7 p2 d/ \, o( a5 [所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
  T$ b+ q9 z) i2 U* @3 |$ n日日有車站,, I7 A* z# f% n" H* x
有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
1 Y2 [* p$ K0 ~  `& \, Q如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?) ?3 b! i) n& P. G$ q, j$ z; W7 I: K' o
好唔鍾意呢種感覺- S. H; w, N- h* T
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心: J) _, w4 Y$ L- {4 Z0 p( g1 Z
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
# z0 U, E( a. B' {- n/ @% B% V覺得好空虛
- `& `: k$ Q7 J其實早幾次都有試過係咁
2 ^( m, \3 C9 f) Q& q0 e7 T卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
4 X" r4 P, |' q6 @3 H4 Y用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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4 b9 K7 |$ _# ]- I這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
$ _/ A7 Z. d- k唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
8 q% {6 [. i" s% n4 F有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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5 ^- u2 \  r& p) ?" h( ?People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
5 q, I  O9 `  m7 G. z: @a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long8 \4 b7 T% z( ^+ E0 Y" Q2 K
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.# [  s& W; T- g/ n: s. o
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:
/ E) o% C1 \$ [# c" g% q, L7 uLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....- v: ?& [7 z% T  u/ m5 h
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
. l# w& ^8 v2 m6 o  f5 j4 J5 m我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
+ _, m5 r& g+ }就好似睇完一套好睇的電影2 i" i  w$ E6 k$ X* ]. _
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
7 @$ o1 Y8 }9 N. c空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
! L+ o3 Q$ j+ \: b( j! d0 R4 d" B很少會超過一天～
3 L; e3 E$ _/ r要期待更好的明天呀！