c2h6ethane

surely not~!!1

Rika

[討論] 在這時代希望女朋友會煮飯是否過份的要求?

希望就唔會好過份, 但係要求佢識就唔係咁好
唔係個個女仔都識煮飯, 等如唔係個個男仔都識整電腦
煮飯好似係女仔既工作, 今時今日, 煮飯仲邊有分男女
識煮咪煮, 晚晚出街食不如學下煮, 到有需要時, 自然會學煮飯, 唔迫得
一齊住, 一齊煮好似會幾好feel
佢唔識咪引佢一齊學囉, 順其自然吧

dereklike

希望當然唔過份喇..要求佢一定要煮飯先過份呀馬

saki

I 會煮飯 (when i have spare time)
if you really want your gf to cook for you.....
you can try to cook with her ..... it is more interesting than cooking with herself only.

waiting

Originally posted by saki at 2005-5-24 01:59 PM:
I 會煮飯 (when i have spare time)
if you really want your gf to cook for you.....
you can try to cook with her ..... it is more interesting than cooking with herself only.

贊成一齊 cook 跟住一齊 eat 多麼幸福

saki

Originally posted by waiting at 2005-5-26 12:04 AM:



贊成一齊 cook 跟住一齊 eat 多麼幸福

yeah ~~~ I think so...

ho warm ga ~~~

szachary

我本身思想不算保守....但我卻始終女生應懂得怎去煮飯
我不反對男女平等 指的是在角式上 like gender
但大家要清楚男女永遠是沒有平等的 in biological sex 方面

簡單來說 與生俱來的是sex 但行為是gender
所以女生可以gender係男生
故男生gender也可以係女生

女主內 不是保守的思想 卻是gender定位
即一個女生該有的skill
如男主外 也是gender的定位
如男生該保護自己所愛的女生~

不好意思 以上太theory了

但我也贊成男生該學懂得怎樣煮飯 否則像我這些留學生...真的無啖好食了
我只是以事論事 故先撇開 一起煮飯能增進感情
即是 煮飯該是女生的duty囉~~

gundamman678

Originally posted by szachary at 2005-5-27 11:20 AM:
我本身思想不算保守....但我卻始終女...

唏，現在還甚麼男主外、女主內?? 而家女性做野都不知幾叻，就黎超越男性既地位啦! 我覺得男性應該要醒覺下囉! 如果再係咁界定男女角色既話，好快會俾女仔超越架啦! 而家女性既角色同地位己經係今時唔同往日，有好大分別。如果仲係諗住男人先至做野叻，女人就應該係屋企煮飯既話，咁就錯晒啦!

trista_cheong

Originally posted by gundamman678 at 2005-5-27 12:48 PM:


唏，現在還甚麼男主外、女主內?? ...

+10 for good response
i really love what u say

好多男人都未醒覺到呢點ja

就算意識到﹐D 思想仲保守過d 女仔呀( 我指處女﹐相夫教子etc)

gundamman678

我自己就覺得而家係香港，最新模式既家庭結構己經開始變成男女一齊外出工作之餘，亦共同處理家中事務，無分邊個係內，邊個係外。呢樣野其實好公平，大家都要做野，點解淨係女人要兼顧埋家務煮飯呢? 如果係咁既話，即係女人既effort仲大過男人啦! 咁我地成日口口聲聲話男人要照顧家庭，點解家中最重擔子既反而係女人? 我覺得我地如果係愛錫另一半既，就應該一齊承擔，唔應該俾自己既女友/太太仲辛苦過自己。除非你一定有能力唔駛另一半出來工作，又或者請家傭啦，咁就除外。