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發表於 2005-6-6 02:00 PM
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Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.1 O/ J8 n& l1 B1 g# }3 ^
% t& N* f, O% n: M' A. [People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:2 r1 }& C5 `* t. P8 t
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
7 s ?5 ^" X( s2 f- L: f) ^b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.% k, c9 {" o* y; b) o( Z7 a- C' r" D
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess." t& u; X+ U- s0 a
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Just another thought on lonliness:
7 ?, n' }6 Z1 M: ELonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad. |
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