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發表於 2005-6-6 02:00 PM
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Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
4 f' B; [' U! m6 S+ pb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone." }) F6 ~# G! L/ I) z. Z
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:3 W z8 l6 J% ^6 ~
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad. |
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