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Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own. h Z3 B7 ?& n* }. n. W" s- U
$ u6 n" C& J1 A) t; dPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:, K" ~; d. {3 r+ I1 s% ?( f
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long3 C1 o( P' r6 b4 g5 k& z9 t
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.3 M2 t2 D' F& X# n" d' D8 b
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess./ F. i" @# W- u9 B, G
9 }4 ~- u/ e+ ^7 v/ CJust another thought on lonliness:, b$ Z$ M8 P5 H
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad. |
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